Bertha Estelle Craig

November 21, 1940 ~ May 5, 2002
Resided in:
Asheville, NC
Bertha Estelle Nelon Craig, 61, of 20 Parker Road, Asheville, died Sunday, May 5, 2002, at St. Joseph Hospital.
Mrs. Craig was born in Buncombe County and was a
daughter of the late Horace and Julia Hall Nelon.
She is survived by her husband, Robert Craig; one
daughter, Doris Alberts and her husband Dale; two sons, Dennis Craig and Gary Craig and his wife
Cara of Asheville; three grandchildren, Eddie, Meagan and Elijah; one brother, Clifford Nelon of Reno, NV; and extended family.
The funeral service will be at 6:00 pm Wednesday in the Patton Avenue chapel of Groce Funeral
Home with the Revs. Robert Earwood and Jeff Brooks officiating.
Her family will receive friends at the funeral home immediately following the service and request that memorials be made to Eliada Home for Children, PO Box 16708, Asheville, NC 28816.
We are truly sorry for your loss.Bertha was a wonderful person and we will miss her.
May God be with the family in this time of sorrow, We have you all in our prayers.
Sorry for your loss. We truly enjoyed her as a neighbor years ago when we were first married.
Goodbye, Bertha. I’ll miss
your calls. To her family-
Our prayers and thoughts are
with you at this time. Bertha
had suffered so long, now she
is free. Blessings and peace,
Grover and Betty Nelon Rhodes
As one of Bertha’s children, I speak honestly when I say that Bertha loved everyone. She simply did not know how to love one person less than another.
Life may have had it’s shares of bumps along the way but she mentioned many times how much she loved EVERYONE she knew. If she taught me one thing growing up, it was that family is not made by blood, it is made by love. I want you to know she loved each and every one.
God bless you all and please keep in touch.
With all our love,
The Craig and Alberts family.
I leave you with one of her favorites:
Water Bearer
A water bearer in India had two large pots, each hung on each end of a pole which he carried across his neck. One of the pots had a crack in it, and while the other pot was perfect and always delivered a full portion of water at the end of the long walk from the stream to the master’s house, the cracked pot arrived only half full. For a full two years this went on daily, with the bearer delivering only one and a half pots full of water in his
Master’s house.
Of course, the perfect pot was proud of its accomplishments, perfect to the end for which it was made. But the poor cracked pot was ashamed of its own imperfection, and miserable that it was able to accomplish only half of what it had been made to do.
After two years of what it perceived to be a bitter failure, it spoke to the water bearer one day by the stream.
‘I am ashamed of myself, and I want to apologize to you.’ ‘Why?’ asked the bearer. ‘What are you ashamed of?’ ‘I have been able, for these past two years, to deliver only half my load because this crack in my side causes water to leak out all the way back to your master’s house. Because of my flaws, you have to do all of this work, and you don’t get full value from your efforts.’ The pot said.
The water bearer felt sorry for the old cracked pot, and in his compassion he said, ‘As we return to the master’s house, I want you to notice the beautiful flowers along the path.’ Indeed, as they went up the hill, the old cracked pot took notice of the sun warming the beautiful wild flowers on the side of the path, and this cheered it some.
But at the end of the trail, it still felt bad because it had leaked out half its load, and so again the Pot apologized to the bearer for its failure.
The bearer said to the pot, ‘Did you notice that there were flowers only on your side of your path, but not on the other pots side? That’s because I have always known about your flaw, and I took advantage of it. I planted flower seeds on your side of the path, and every day while we walk back from the stream, you’ve watered them. For two years I have been able to pick these beautiful flowers to decorate my master’s table. Without you being just the way you are, he would not have this beauty to grace his house.’
Each of us has our own unique flaws. We re all cracked pots. But if we will allow it, the Lord will use our flaws to grace His Fathers table. In God’s great economy, nothing goes to waste. Don’t be afraid of your flaws. Acknowledge them, and you too can be the cause of beauty. Know that in our weakness we find our strength.
Author Unknown
Presented with Love from Bertha Craig
Sorry about your loss.God bless the family.Bretha was a great Aunt when we were growing enjoyed going to her house and reading comic books.
Will rember you in our prayers
Niece ,Margaret Lewis
Aunt Bretha was great person.
Sorry for your loss.
David and Jody Lewis
She welcomed me many times, fed me, and was a great listener when I needed one