Frank Palmeri

June 10, 1945 ~ December 29, 2019
Born in:
Brooklyn, NY
Resided in:
Mills River, NC
‘The One, the Only, the Original,’ the slogan that graced Frank’s Roman Pizza Restaurants applied even more to the founder, Frank Palmeri. Whether he was spinning pizzas on top of a Barnum & Bailey white Siberian Tiger cage (during the Thanksgiving day parade, garnering more applause than Santa Claus), or being a staple on WLOS’s Jerry Lewis Telethon, or chasing his grandkids in a Darth Vader costume, Frank Palmeri left an indelible mark on his family, his friends, and Asheville.
In 1977, in a car with 5 cracked pistons and a ragged vinyl roof, Frank Palmeri left New York City with his wife and small baby looking for a better area to raise a family. Embracing a ceaseless work ethic, he built a local pizza empire based on the principles that “You don’t have to be greedy. There’s enough out there for everyone.” Frank wanted a place where you could eat a pizza pie that couldn’t be beat. A restaurant where families could have a wholesome and affordable meal. He grew his business by cultivating young workers into business owners and entrepreneurs. He lived by the mantra, “Lift as you climb.” And lift he did! At the peak, he had five restaurants owned and operated by former employees. He believed people helping people was better than any government handout. Frank was an authentic one-of-a-kind person who believed that the American dream is achievable to all with hard work and sacrifice.
He did not preach virtue or religion with words; his actions spoke volumes. He was humorous, generous to a fault, and always ready to share his business acumen and love of history.
Left to carry on his legacy is his wife of 47 years, Joanne Palmeri, his sons, Doctor Martin Palmeri of Messino Cancer Centers, and Frank John Palmeri, the local owner of America’s Mattress on Tunnel Road where Frank had his last restaurant. Martin and his wife, Laura, have three wonderful grandchildren, Frank, Charlie, and Maria that are Frank’s pride and joy.
The Palmeri family would like to thank Doctors Charles Bryan, Matt Hull, Oliver Binns, Roger Domby, and Greg Campbell as well as the countless APs, RNs, CNAs, and the staff of the Mills River Lodge who diligently and compassionately cared for him.
We also thank the Asheville community for the decades of support. Frank loved serving everyone who came in for first dates, family movie nights, anniversaries, and every meal in between. In gratitude for his food and hospitality, customers honored him with napkin drawings which donned every corner of the restaurant when he retired in 2002. We can’t thank you enough.
A Funeral Mass will be held at 11:00 AM on Saturday, January 4 at St. Barnabas Roman Catholic Church, followed by a brief reception at the church. A Graveside Service will be held at 2:00 PM on Saturday, January 4 at Riverside Cemetery. A Rosary will be said starting at 6:00 PM on Friday, January 3 in the Chapel of Groce Funeral Home at Lake Julian, followed by a visitation at the funeral home until 7:30 PM.
In lieu of flowers, kindly support local small business owners and their hard work, long hours, big dreams, and gutsy decision to take risks to get ahead. The current business world needs more Frank Palmeris’. We love you, Frank, always have and always will.
Services
Funeral Mass: January 4, 2020 11:00 am
St Barnabas Catholic Church
109 Crescent Hill Drive
Arden, NC 28704
828-252-3535
Graveside Service: January 4, 2020 2:00 pm
Riverside Cemetery
53 Birch Street
Asheville, NC 28801
828-252-3535
Reception: January 4, 2020 12:00 pm
St Barnabas Catholic Church
109 Crescent Hill Drive
Arden, NC 28704
828-252-3535
Rosary: January 3, 2020 6:00 pm - June 2, 2025 6:30 pm
Room: Chapel
Groce Funeral Home at Lake Julian
72 Long Shoals Road
Arden, NC 28704
(828)687-3530
http://www.grocefuneralhome.com
Visitation: January 3, 2020 6:30 pm - June 2, 2025 7:30 pm
Room: Chapel
Groce Funeral Home at Lake Julian
72 Long Shoals Road
Arden, NC 28704
(828)687-3530
http://www.grocefuneralhome.com
It’s been a long journey Frank, will miss our talks going back from the time I walked into your Pizza restaurant back in 1978, when I came down from NYC, just looking for New York pizza and a fellow New Yorker.
Rest in peace ,Frank
I worked for Frank as a delivery driver at the old location next to Krispy Kreme. Just moved to town, walked in off the street and he gave me a job. I was a 20 yo with an old, barely working van. He let me use his car to deliver pizza. Very generous man. He taught me a lot. Rest In Peace.
A group of friends began eating at Frank’s Pizza in 1978 at Innsbrook Mall. This continued every Tuesday. When the Tunnel Road store closed, we began going to other local restaurants – every Tuesday. To this day we call it Pizza night. Frank gave me a shirt for my birthday one year. I took that shirt to Peru, Kilimanjaro, and Everest Basecamp. I would bring back a photo and Frank would give me free breadsticks. There was a wall of photos of people with the Frank’s shirt on the wall with the napkin pictures. I learned I’d be a grandmother at Frank’s Pizza. What precious moments those were. Frank was a fine man.
I worked for Frank nearly 30 years ago as a delivery driver and dish washer. Frank was bigger than life and he had the generosity to match. He never let us work hungry and he wouldn’t let me go home without taking food home for my “mutha” (mother). Frank was one of a kind and I still tell stories about him to this day. Rest In Peace.
Frank you’ll be missed! It was a joy being your cna and getting to know you and your wonderful wife Joanne! You both made me feel so welcomed here in NC. Baby boy and I love you both so much. Your in my thoughts and prayers Palmeri family. Hugs
So sorry for your loss. I worked for Frank for six years and loved every minute of it. Frank was a great man and a great man to work for. We worked hard and laughed a lot. He will be missed! Robin Mills
We ate there, the old location, several times a week dating and then married. He would always call us by name as we came in.
I am sending my love!! Please know that although I wont be physically present I am with you during the ceremonies in thought & prayer. I am going to pray during those times mentioned in the obituary 🙏🏼♥️🙏🏼♥️
Love you!!!!
When I think of Frank I remember his smile and his generosity. My family would walk into the restaurant and Frank would always smile and wave at us. Then, sometime during our meal, he would come over and give the boys quarters to play the game machines. A man of few words but many generous actions. He will be missed.
So many memories made in Frank Romans on Tunnel Road! My kids and I would make this the Friday night outing, Frank always gave pizza dough to the kids! As times went on grandchildren replaced children! We all still speak of Frank Romans’ with fond Memories!! Thank You Frank!!
My thought n prayers go out for this great family . I don’t know him personally. But his son Dr Paulmari is such a great man to be the great dr he is . Hug a. Dr . For you n family
“The One, the Only, the Original.” Frank’s obituary is such a fitting tribute to a wonderful human being. He came to Asheville before coming to Asheville was “the thing” to do. Unlike many who find their way to these mountains, he never focused on what he could take away but, rather, on what he could add to make our community a better place. And that’s exactly what he did, in so many ways that weren’t visible to folks who didn’t have the good fortune of knowing him well enough to observe it first-hand. A true friend, he will be deeply missed.
I first went to Frank’s in the 80’s when i was in the third grade. I was in between the grades of Martin and Frank jr, (Frankie). Pretty much everyone at ACDS celebrated their birthdays at Frank’s with their whole class. Those are some of my fondest memories. Frank always tossing dough behind the counter and greeting you with a smile on his mustache when you walked in the door. Pacman and galaga in the background. Scratched pitchers of coke over ice. Those napkins all over the walls, (we all hoped we could get one of our own up there). Everyone having the best time. As i got older, there were first dates, tenth dates, anniversaries, beers with good friends, (old and new), and always, always the best slices of pizza i’ve ever had. Frank is a legend. I send my love and support to his family and many friends. Rest in peace, Frank. We miss you.
Frank’s at Innsbruck was not yet open for buisness when I applied for a job there. Frank informed me I was too young to work there yet, then offered me a slice and words of encouragement that have stayed with me all these years. He was truly larger than life and a positive force not to be forgotten. My deepest condolences.
My wife and I ate at Frank’s many times.Always loved the pizza.Never met Frank.Little did I know that one day his son would be my cancer Dr.,Martin Palmeri .He is a wonderful doctor and must have got his great ,caring personality from his father.Our condolences to the whole Palmeri family .May he rest in peace.
The genuine nature of Frank’s hospitality, complementing the unforgettable tastiness of his pizzas, constitute one of our family’s fond memories of our children’s growing-up years in Asheville.
It is impossible to not love Frank and Joanne with the impact they have made on my life and so many others. What precious, caring people. Frank has certainly left this world a better place by the impact he had on so many lives. It is a pleasure to call them both friends! He will truly be missed. Love to Joanne and all his beautiful family. I feel like I know them all as much as he talked about them.
I delivered pizza for Frank in the late 90s. He was a great guy to work for and fun to be around. He will be missed.
We enjoyed many a great pizza at Frank’s over the years, especially when our children were growing up. Who can’t recall Frank’s big smile and friendly greeting to everyone who visited his restaurant. Frank loved life and so enjoyed the people that he came to know through his business. His obituary perfectly captures my memory of him. Debby and myself as well as our son Will (who is home for the holiday and who was a friend of Frankie) send our best wishes to Joanne, Frankie and the entire family.
I just found out about Frank’s passing….I was so sorry to hear this. He was a wonderful man. My brother, Jeff Hollyfield, was one of his employees and he also was a franchisee of Franks Pizza for several years. I was a volunteer with the MDA Chapter in Asheville for 22 years and helped with the Jerry Lewis Telethon which WLOS would air each year. I was in charge of supervising the volunteer telephone operators and getting the food to feed everyone who helped with the telethon. One of my first contacts that I approached for food was Frank. He was so generous and very eager to help. I would schedule him to bring the pizza’s in toward the last shift. Needless to say, after the first couple of years, the volunteers figured out when Frank was delivering his pizza’s and ALL of them wanted to sign up for that shift! Frank would come in and the wonderful aroma of those pizza’s would fill the studio. He would have his first son with him and then when his second son was old enough he also accompanied Frank. And, if donating all of those pizza’s was not enough (we had 50 people per shift to feed), he would present a donation check to the Emcee’s for the Muscular Dystrophy Association. I loved Frank and when my brother passed, Frank was one of the first people to reach out and offer his condolences my family. I offer my sincere and deepest sympathies to his wife, his sons and the rest of his family. Frank will live on in you and in the lives of the people he touched with his wit, smile and caring nature. We are all better off having known him. May God bless each of you in this time of sorrow.
FRANK WAS A GREAT PERSON,AND GREAT FOOD,HE WILL BE MISSED.
Our condolences to the family and friends of Frank Palmeri. He will always be remembered fondly by our entire family that was blessed to have eaten at truly “The Best!” My husband and I had our first date almost 43 years ago at the Innsbruck Mall location. His smile was always there to great all the customers, and he was always friendly. The food was beyond compare. Our children spent their childhood eating at Frank’s many locations over the years. Prayers, blessings and sympathy to all who knew and loved him.
The Williams Family
Mike, Debbie, Missy, Nick, Mathew, Piper, Levi, Nash and Garrett
Extending condolences . Joanne. May God give you strength during this difficult time. I will keep you in my prayers.
Thank you Frank for all the good memories. Condolences to the Palmeri family.
Just sitting here thinking about my school days 42 years ago running from Marshall NC to Asheville NC with friends every Friday night after school for the best Pizza in the world.. yes in the world… Oh such a fun time at Frank’s Roman Pizza at the Innsbruck Mall…He was such a cool guy, we loved to watch him toss our pizza the real way… I just googled Mr Frank as we all called him only to see that he had passed. Many prayers for his family. He was a Great Man….