Helen Lillie Souther
March 17, 1933 ~ May 2, 2008
Resided in:
Hendersonville, NC
Helen Lillie Souther, 75, of Hendersonville, died Friday, May 2, 2008 at the Elizabeth House.
A native of Buncombe County, she was a daughter of the late Clifford Greenlee and Sadie Carland Bishop. She was also preceded in death by a son, James Michael Souther.
She was a member of the South Asheville Kiwanis Club and of the American Business Women's Association.
She is survived by her husband of 56 years, James E. Souther, one daughter, Flossie Souther Krouse and her husband, Harrison, of Hendersonville; three grand-children, Kimberly Michelle Souther, Brooke Allison Freeman and James Ervin Freeman; seven sisters, Sue Bailey of Asheville, Ailene King, Ruth Thomas and Martha Wright, all of Arden, Virginia Ledford of Jackson County, NC, Callie Galyean of Mills River and Shirley Brown of Transylvania County, NC; two brothers, Wilson and Carl Bishop, both of Arden and numerous nieces and nephews.
A funeral service will be held at 2:00 PM on Monday, May 5, 2008 at the Words of Life Tabernacle with Pastor Carl Bishop officiating.
Interment will follow in the church cemetery.
The family will receive friends from 6:00-8:00 PM on Sunday at Groce Funeral Home at Lake Julian.
Memorial donations may be made to Four Seasons Hospice, 571 South Allen Road, Flat Rock, NC 28731.
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Dear Pappy and Flossie:
Akila, Vinesh and I are shocked to hear the news of Nan’s demise. She was the epitome of the ‘Southern Lady’. She was an example to all of us in her generosity, perseverance and intelligence. We will miss her mischievous eyes and happy laughter.
We pray to God to give strength to you and your family during this difficult period in your lives.
Dear James, Flossie, Wilson, and families, I am so sorry to hear of the loss of such a beautiful lady in Helen. I remember falling completely in awe of her over thirty years ago at Grandma’s (Laura) house – I used to look so forward to Helen’s visit. To just be there when she and Grandma were chatting and laughing was always the highlight of my day! I will miss seeing her at the family gatherings in December where we would always talk about the old days at Grandma’s house. Though far away, I love this family and think of everyone very often. I pray that God wraps you all up in his Grace to give you Peace during this very difficult loss. Love, Cindy
pastor carl and family,we wanted to send our condolences and let you know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers,and we love you very much.The Baker Family
James, Flossie and Family,
My loving thoughts to each of you in the loss of your loved one and my dear friend, Helen. I will treasure always the laughter, friendship and memories of our youth and adult lives. May God help in easing the burden of your loss and may the love of Helen always be with each of you.
Ann Davis Wischer
Jim and Family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you . Helen will be greatly missed. Christy Garren Weekley and Donna Garren
Dear Shirley Brown & Family,
You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. May the Lord give you strength, peace, and comfort now and in the days ahead.
We love you dearly.
JAMES & FLOSSIE, I AM SO GLAD I GOT TO SEE HELEN AND ALL OF YOU AFTER SO MANY YEARS WHEN HELEN WAS IN THE HOSPITAL. I CAN’T TELL YOU WHAT IT MEANT TO ME TO SEE YOU ALL. WHEN FLOSSIE AND I WERE YOUNG AND DROVE YOU CRAZY HELEN AND JAMES WERE LIKE SECOND PARENTS TO ME. THE WORLD HAS TRULY LOST AN EXCEPTIONAL PERSON. JUST KNOW THAT YOU ARE AND MY PRAYERS AND I LOVE YOU BOTH. CYNTHIA
DEAR WILSON AND FAMILY, SO SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR SISTER, SHE IS IN A BETTER PLACE. I KNOW IT IS HARD TO LOOSE A MEMBER OF YOUR FAMILY. MY THOUGHTS ARE WITH YOU. THE CORN FAMILY
Dear James and family,
I was so sorry to hear of Helen’s death on Friday. May your memories of Helen bring you peace in the days to come.
I certainly will have wonderful memories of her smile!
Wilson, Callie, Ruth and family members, Was so sorry to hear that your sister had passed, May God be with you as you go forth in the days ahead. Our pryers are with you.
Dorothy Gordon family Mazie,Donna,Howard and Udell
I am so sorry to learn of Helen’s passing. I knew her years ago when both of us went to Skyland Baptist Church. I went to school with her sister, Callie. Helen was a sweet lady. My sincere condolences to the family.
James, Flossie, Bud, Brook and all the family.
I know you have lost a wonderful wife, mother and grandmother, but I know you will meet her and Mike soon.
I lost the best friend I have ever known. Our friendship lasted for 40 years and I will always thank God for bringing Helen into my life. I will truly miss her.
We are always nearby for you.
We love all of you.
Love, Joe and Pat
Jim and family, You have our sincere sympathy on the passing of Helen. She was an inspiration to everyone. We will cherish all of the good memories she left with us. Roger and I will miss her. We loved her dearly. God Bless this family. Love, Roger and Donnie Grindstaff and family
I am so sorry to hear of your loss.
Carolyn Bishop Brown
MARTHA,DAN AND FAMILY TO ALL OF YOU I AM SO SORRY FOR THE LOSS OF HELEN..JUST REMEMBER SHE IS IN A MUCH BETTER PLACE,,CHERISH HER MEMORIES, THEY ARE FOREVER..MUCH LOVE…..JEAN
Dear James and family, We were so sorry to hear about Helen. Even though we had been out of touch for a while, we still considered Helen to be a dear friend. We knew nothing about her illness until today ,when I called your house and talked to Flossie. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Please give us a call sometime when you feel like it.
James, Flossie and Grandchildren:
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Helen was very special to me. She was not only a cousin, but a big sister. I will miss her glowing smile. I know she is with the Lord.
Jane Bishop Whitaker
Dear James,
I am so sorry to hear about Helen. We had a really good talk at Easter when Kim and I went to see her. One comfort is to know that there is no more pain or suffering. I am always a phone call away if you need anything. i told Helen at Easter that I had always loved you both and I really do mean that. You gave me one of the greatest loves in my life,Mike which then produced another in Kim. You are in my thoughts and my prayers. Again if you need anything call me. Love, Kathy
Pastor Carl and family:
We are truly sadden that you and your family lost your sister, yet are conforted knowing she know stands whole, complete and eternal with our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. Take comfort in knowing that she has received a crown laid up especially for her.She now is singing with all the saints for our faith to be reality as we enter into to rest at His appointing.
In quiet moments when the hurt is hard to bear,
May God’s Love become your shelter,
and the precious memories shared comfort you.
You are held in gentle thoughts and prayers.
Pastor Carl and Family:
Our prayers are with you and your family during this time.
Pastor Carl
Please know that our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family during this time.