Joseph Ray Fender
May 26, 1985 ~ June 27, 2005
Resided in:
Asheville, NC
Joseph Ray Fender, 20, of 346 Deaverview Road, Asheville, went home to be with the Lord on Monday, June 27, 2005.
Joseph was born on May 26, 1985, in Buncombe County and was a member of Edgewood Baptist Church. A 2003 graduate of Erwin High School, he was loved and a great friend to all who knew him. He was always willing to lend a helping hand to anyone in need. He loved playing basketball, going to the beach, listening to music, hanging out with his friends, being a sharp dresser and taking care of his Nan. Joseph’s gentle, but yet, bright spirit will be so greatly missed for he lit up any room he entered. Now he is helping light the way for those he left behind until we all meet again in heaven.
He was preceded in death by his sister, Cheyenne Carney; paternal grandparents, Willis and Inez Warren Ball; maternal grandparents, Joseph and Mary Lou Chapman Rios; maternal great-grandparents, Roy and Clara Ann Chapman. He is survived by his parents, Dickie and Linda Fender and mother, Sheila Rios; sister, Natasha Rios; his Nan, Doris McCuiston; his loving aunts and uncles, Diane and Larry Duckworth, Selina and Michael Worley, Derrick and Tina Thrasher, Mike and Toni Candler and Roger Candler; step-grandparents, Tommy and Hilda Chandler; Step-great-grandmother, Mildred Case; cousins, Justin, Jarred, Tyler, Angel, Crystal, Cody, Cassie, Duncan, Jeff and Josh; special friend and “brother”, Kendrick Dawkins; great aunts and uncles, Billie and Louis Gowan, Betty Sharpe, Johnny and Donna Ball and many other family members and friends.
Funeral services will be 2:00 pm Friday in the Patton Avenue chapel of Groce Funeral Home with the Revs. Gary Haynes and Charles Shelton officiating. Burial will follow at Green Hills Cemetery with Kendrick Dawkins, Rodrick Smith, Logan Plemmons, Justin Thrasher, Joaquin Esquera, Josh Yarborough, Danny Williams and Aaron Jones serving as pall bearers.
His family will receive friends from 1:00-2:00 pm Friday prior to the service at the funeral home.
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You all are in my prayers during this hard time.
I will never forget Joe. He was a joy to teach and often came by after he graduated to visit. I was proud of him attending A B Tech. My prayers go out to his family and all of his friends. To know Joe was to love him. May God’s arms be wrapped around him letting him know how much we loved and will miss him and his wonderful smile.
Sincerely,
Teresa O Jarvis
We would like to let you know of our heart felt prayers and symphaty for your loss. We are the parents of Lindsey Brown who was a friend of your sons. He visited our home once with some others a few years back. I feed them all well that night, as we laughed together. We are trusting that you find your Peace in the Lord Jesus Christ and asking Him, the God of all comfort, to surround you with His love and peace, during this diffcult time. Fear thou not; for I am with thee:…I will strengthen thee. Isaiah 41:10
Joe went to school with my son Garrett.I will always remember Joe coming to the football & baseball games& sitting with me and talking about what ever was on his mind.He always had a big smile & a hug for me.Joe was one of a kind.He was always respectful & loved everyone & life.We never know why things like this happen,only God knows.God has opened his door & accepted another one of his children in his kingdom.Joe will be missed but not forgotten.The memories of Joe will always be with us until we meet him again in heaven.Our prayers go out to all the family & loved ones.I pray God will wrap his loving arms around each of you & comfort you during the healing part of this loss.You are in our thoughts & prayers.
Beth Otis & Garrett
Our hearts go out to the family at this time. We know that when he got to the gates of heaven his Grandmother Mary Lou, and his Great
Aunt Mary Rios were standing there to welcome him to heaven.
Our hearts go out to the family at this time. We know that when he got to the gates of heaven his Grandmother Mary Lou, and his Great
Aunt Mary Rios were standing there to welcome him to heaven.
God blessed my life when he let me met Joe. It seems like only yesterday we were in Michael and Selina and Larry and Diana’s weddings being the flower girl and ring bearer. I will never forget all those beach trips that we went on when we would stay up late at night to play Monopoly, riding the golf cart, and looking for shark teeth. Joe was someone who could always make me smile and I will miss him a lot. My thoughts and prayers are with the family.
Joe was such a wonderful person. A room would light up as soon as he entered, his presence was always known. He will be missed by all.
Joe was one of the friendliest guys I knew. Every time I saw him he seemed to be smiling. My heart goes out to the family and friends in this time of loss. It was an honor to go to Erwin High and AB Tech with Joe. He will be sincerely missed.
Only our God above knows when to ask for us.He called apon Joe to come sit by his side and help guide his young friends to the path of glory.May you have comfort in your heart in knowing That there is joy in heaven and a brand new life.
We extend our sincere condolences to all the family . We know hearts are broken this morning , but we also know that Gods word tells us , to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord . Try to remember the wonders of heaven . We are praying for all of you . May He keep you all in His great love .
Don and Shirlene Hoffman
Our hearts are heavy with sadness and we will miss Joe greatly. He was, truly, a unique and wonderful person.
I am so sorry for your loss. My family’s prayers are with you during this time and may God give you comfort.
Teresa (Cassida) Moore
Mike & Patti Cassida
Ruby Cassida
I send my condolences to the family members and close friends. I knew Joe for only a short period, but right away recognized he was outgoing and friendly. Great person!
I first knew Joe through Selina, she talked lovingly about him. And when Joe walked into my class I knew why. He had a beautiful heart and caring personality. His smile brightened my classroom everyday. Joe was compassionate and if anyone in class had a problem, he offered help in any way he could. After he finished my class, it was not uncommon to have him come up behind me with a quick hug or a shout of greeting. I was so proud when he graduated from Erwin and went on to attend AB Tech. I loved him and he had a special place in my heart. I am praying for all of you that God provides comfort and grace as Joe has gone on before us. I will miss his bright smile and great hugs as will all who knew him.
Sincerely,
Joe was a great friend he lit up the room when he smiled and was very caring.my prayers go out to his family and friends.
Rachel
IT’S BEEN 7 MONTHS SINCE MY BROTHER LEFT ME AND IM STILL NOT BELIEVING IT. HE WAS MY HEART,MY BACK BONE,MY EVERYTHING.BUT GOD ONLY TAKES THE BEST AND THATS WAT HE WAS…THE BEST!MY LIFE WILL NEVER BE THE SAME.I MISS THE FUNNY TIMES WE HAD,THE SAD TIMES AND I EVEN MISS THE PUNCHES ON MY ARM THAT LEFT BRUISES FOR DAYS!BUT I WOULD GIVE ANYTHING JUS 2 HAVE HIM BACK.MY LIFE IS SLOWLY BREAKING WITHOUT MY BIG BROTHER TO GUIDE ME AN TELL ME RIGHT FRM WRONG.BUT I FEEL HIM BESIDE ME EVERYDAY AND I KNOW HE IS MY GUARDIAN ANGLE.C YA ONE DAY BIG BRO!JUS WATCH AND GUIDE ME,PLEASE.AND ALWAYS REMEMBER I LOVE YOU!!!!! LOVE TOSHER
Joe was a very dear friend to me, and although we didn’t keep in touch after I moved to TX, he will always be in my mind and heart. My condolences to all family and friends. Keep your heads up and don’t lose faith. We will return to each other on that beautiful day. God bless us all and give us strength.
Joe was my big brother an the light of my life. I looked up to him an cherished everyday i had with him.My heart is truely broken for i have lost the one thing that meant the world to me…joe. but i know he is watching over me and guiding me til we meet again. I love you big bro
It’s almost been a year and it’s still hard to believe you’re gone. I know you are having the time of your life up there. We all miss you so much! We think of you and talk about the good times we had with you all the time when we hang out…..You’ll always be here with us all though you’re so far away… Love and Miss you daily!!!
My prayers are with all friends and family of Joe. He was always very pleasant and friendly in school and had many friends! GOD BLESS!