Marion Rhymer "Bobbie" Bennett

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May 9, 1922 ~ September 16, 2021

Born in: Asheville, NC
Resided in: Hendersonville, NC

Marion Rhymer “Bobbie” Bennett, passed away to her eternal home in heaven September 16, 2021. Bobbie was born on May 9, 1922, in Asheville, North Carolina, to the late Hardie T. and Sadie Redmond Rhymer. She also was preceded in death by her husband, Laurier James Bennett; three sisters, Bonnie Robinson, Helen Cator, Louise Carter, and brother Roy Rhymer.

Survivors include her 3 children and their spouses: Michael Bennett of Candler; Gary and Carol Bennett of Asheville; Kathy and Steven Kirkland of Hendersonville; as well as six grandchildren: Damian Bennett of Candler; Adam Bennett of Asheville; Amy (Billy) Hendrix of Mooresville, NC; Chris (Stephanie) Bennett of Grants Pass, OR; William (Emily) Bennett of Dayton, OH; Autumn (Grant) Hayball of Grants Pass, OR; 15 great-grandchildren, and several special nieces, nephews and cousins.

She was a 1941 graduate of Lee H. Edwards High School. After graduation, Bobbie worked at the Isis Theater, Enka Plant, and Ivey’s Department Store. In 1947, she married the love of her life and stayed home to be a homemaker and raise her children. She returned to work as a substitute teacher at Vance and William Randolph Elementary Schools. She later returned to retail sales at Ivey’s and then retired in 1985 from the lingerie department at John Carroll Fashion Store. Bobbie was very much a people person. She loved to talk and never knew a stranger. She always had a happy attitude, a sweet spirit, and a great sense of humor. She truly enjoyed the simple things in life. She was genuine, kind, full of life, and determined to enjoy every minute, no matter how difficult the challenges she faced. Shaped by the Great Depression, stoic in adversity, she saved and was frugal and prudent all her life. She possessed a positive attitude, an inner strength, and a “can do” spirit that was evident to anyone who knew her. She had many hobbies including taking pictures, listening to music, canning, baking bread, pies, and cakes which she graciously distributed to many neighbors and friends. She had a true passion to garden and grow flowers. With her green thumb, she could grow anything, while always eager to share a cutting, seeds, or plant from her yard.

Bobbie was a devoted and faithful member of Grace Baptist Church since 1947. Over the years she served in many ministry positions and was a member of the Amazing Grace Sunday School Class where she enjoyed all bus activities and fellowship meetings. She was a member of the Southern Railroad Group and enjoyed the monthly luncheon meetings, as well as, meeting up with her former co-workers from John Carroll’s. Above all, Bobbie loved the Lord and will be remembered for her devotion to her family and many friends.

Her final years were spent in Hendersonville, surrounded by her family. Although Bobbie was frail, she was happy, and her mind was sharp. On May 9th, she celebrated her 99th birthday, and was counting the days till she turned 100.
The family would like to especially thank Marlene Hensley for her love and compassion in visiting with mom the last several months.

The Bennett family would like to express our sincere gratitude for the many gestures of friendship, love and sympathy shown during the loss of our beloved mother. Your prayers have helped us immensely during this difficult time.

Private graveside services will be held at Ashelawn Gardens of Memory.

In lieu of flowers memorial contributions may be made in her memory to: Grace Baptist Church, 718 Haywood Rd., West Asheville, NC 28806, (828) 254-0841, or to Four Seasons Hospice Foundation, 221 N. Main St., Hendersonville, NC 28792, (828) 513-2440.


Funeral Home Assisting The Family:

Groce Funeral Home - Patton Ave.
1401 Patton Ave.
Asheville, NC 28806


Private Graveside Service:

Ashelawn Gardens of Memory
901 Aiken Road
Asheville, NC 28804

(828) 645-6915

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  1. On behalf of Grace Baptist Church, we both grieve your loss and celebrate a home-going for our sister, Bobbie. We are grateful for her faithfulness to her Lord and church over our entire history. May God comfort you in your sorrow today and lift you up with the joy of the Lord. May Ms. Bobbie’s kind increase among us! We were blessed to have had and known her. We weep with those who weep but we do not grieve as those who have no hope for our confidence is in the One who is Himself the Resurrection and the Life. Amen.

  2. Gary, my mom, Mildred Ingle Bailey Sprinkle, was a friend of your moms from high school and living in West Asheville. I remember as a child, seeing her in Ivey’s and my mom talking to her. My mom passed this time last year and I am sure she was greeting Bobbie at those pearly gates. Prayers for the family.

  3. Please accept our sincerest condolences for your loss. Kathy, I know this was a difficult journey that you had to walk down with Mrs. Bobbie. I pray that you have peace and comfort knowing that her battle is over and she is with her Lord and Savior. We will be praying for you all.
    Keith and Krystal Jankouskas

  4. Gary and Carol, my love and prayers are with you at this time and always. May the Lord bless you and your family.

  5. Dear Kathy and family, We know how heartbreaking it is to lose your Mom and our hearts are hurting with you. And what a wonderful comfort to know that she is with our Heavenly Father now. I am glad we got to meet her years ago, and so glad for her and you that you had all this time together. That time is so priceless. We will be remembering you all in our prayers.

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