Nelson Parke Davis II
November 12, 1939 ~ January 5, 2026
Born in:
South Bend, IN
Resided in:
Asheville, NC
Nelson Parke Davis, II, born November 12, 1939 in South Bend, Indiana, passed away Monday, January 5, 2026 in Asheville, NC. He spent his formative years growing up in Jamestown, NC, where the values of discipline, service, and perseverance shaped the man he would become.
He attended Hargrave Military Academy where he developed a strong sense of duty and leadership. He went on to earn his undergraduate degree from Duke University before pursuing his lifelong calling to medicine at the UNC School of Medicine. He completed his surgical residency in Lexington, KY, preparing him for a distinguished career dedicated to healing and service.
Parke proudly served his country as a ship’s surgeon aboard the USS Oriskany, an experience that reflected both his commitment to medicine and his devotion to serving others under demanding circumstances. After the fall of South Vietnam, he sponsored a Vietnamese family of Troung Pham and brought them to live in Wilson, NC.
Throughout his career, he practiced medicine with skill, compassion, and integrity. He served patients at Carolina Clinic, was a general surgeon at Wilson Memorial Hospital and later in the Emergency Room at Angel Hospital in Franklin, NC. His work touched countless lives, and he was widely respected by colleagues and deeply appreciated by the patients he cared for.
Outside of medicine, he found his greatest peace in the outdoors. He had a lifelong passion for fishing and sailing, and treasured time spent at the family beach house. Whether on the water, surrounded by nature, or working with his hands, he was most content outdoors. He especially loved cutting wood at the swamp and tending the fire – simple, grounding rituals that reflected his quiet strength, self-reliance, and deep connection to the natural world.
Above all, he was a devoted husband, father and grandfather. He is survived by his loving wife, Dottie Davis; his children, Thomas and his wife Renee Davis, and Amanda Davis; his brother, Drennen and his wife Shirley Davis; and four granddaughters, who were a constant source of pride and joy.
Parke will be remembered not only for his professional accomplishments, but for his steady presence, his love of the outdoors, and the deep devotion he had to his family. His legacy lives on through the many lives he healed and the family he loved so deeply.
Graveside services will be held at 1:00 p.m. on Friday, January 9 at Riverside Cemetery in Asheville. Following the service, the family will greet friends at Groce Funeral Home, 1401 Patton Ave., Asheville, NC.
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Tunnel to Towers Foundation.
Services
Visitation: January 9, 2026 2:00 pm
Groce Funeral Home - Patton Ave.
1401 Patton Ave.
Asheville, NC 28806
(828)252-3535
http://www.grocefuneralhome.com
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Fading wisps dispersing into the universe.
For the renaissance man who who danced with devils and made music with angels, who held life in skilled hands, who embraced simple pleasures, who debated the gods, who bent steel with an iron will, who sheltered the weak with compassion, and who coaxed the earth to provide bounty;
Rest now. Waft gently on your way.
We cherish memories of your shared love life light.
Rarely does someone touch as many lives in so many ways as you, Parke. From helping those who were less fortunate, to all, including our family. I always admired you, and trusted you, so much so that I went Snake and bullfrog hunting on our pond at night on Sunnyside Farm in Edgecombe county. ( I was terrified of snakes!) Just one of the adventures of many!
Wishing you everlasting peace,
Your loving cousin,
Mary Lynn Gorham Dando
Dear Dottie and family,
My heart is broken for your loss. I worked with Parke at Angel Med Ctr from the time he walked in until he retired and we were great friends. He will be truly missed by all who were blessed to know him.
My heart is broken for your loss. I worked with Parke at Angel Med Center. He will be truly missed by all who were blessed to know him. He taught me so much.. We shared a lot of ginger snaps and coffee on night shift.
Arlene (Armstrong) Drinnon
My most touching memory of him is when my mother was brought into the ER, from a fall in the nursing home. She was also battling dementia. He examined her with such kindness and concern, taking time to genuinely talk and listen to her. He even sat with her for a while and commented on her beautiful blue eyes. She became calm and more like herself. I hope he knows how much he blessed her and my family and that his care and kindness will never be forgotten. I think he treated all his patients like this.
We were happy for his retirement but extremely sad to see him leave.
RIP Dr. Parke Davis. Your light will always shine in our hearts.
I had the privilege of working with Parke for many years in the ER and at rad clinic. He was a beautiful soul—driven, brilliant, and yet so kind, approachable, and encouraging to everyone around him. I cherished our long conversations on everything from medicine to deep spiritual and intellectual topics (He was studying quantum physics one of the last times we worked together, what a Renaissance man!). He made a lasting impact on me and so many others. Your father was truly someone to be honored, and you have every reason to be proud of the man he was. Rejoice up there with Jesus, Parke, I know I will see you there! God’s love and comfort to all your family.
I had the privilege of working with Dr Davis for 20 or more years at Angel. He was a true friend and mentor. I still speak his name almost every week while I’m at work. Countless conversations that he bestowed wisdom to me and made me a better X-ray tech. So many memories, one being that I built him a dulcimer one year for his birthday. The gratitude that he showed meant so much to me and still does. Because Parke was usually the one doing something nice for me. He will be so missed. My deepest condolences to the family.
I am so sorry about Dr. Davis’ passing. He helped my whole family even before I even met him in North Carolina. He was good friends with my brother, Truong Pham. He helped us make a home in North Carolina. I stayed with him and his family in Wilson before he found us a house. He helped us find food, jobs, school, friends, or anything else we needed. We felt so loved by Dr. Davis and his family. We could never repay him for all he has done for us. My whole family loved, appreciated, and respected him. I wish Dr. Davis a peaceful rest in Heaven, and I look forward to seeing him again one day.
He was such a joyful man! He joined us once at Craft time when we were making Scare Crow Men! He had worked it all out and made the most amazing Scare Crow!! So creative.
I also helped Parke find Bailey his dog at the rescue center in Cashier’s. I had Border Collie’s before and told him about the one I saw there. We went there and before we walked in, Parke said, oh Lori, the dog cannot be a barker!! Well we went I to the kennel and every dog was barking except Bailey!! We took her outside and she was so sweet. Parke still wasn’t sure. As he was leading her back to her kennel she just stopped and would not go in!! Bailey and I both looked at Parke! He said he didn’t know which of us looked sadder!! He knew then he had found his new friend! Bailey would always greet me so joyfully!!
I will miss Parke and his love of life, but I know we will be all together one day in the arms of our Loving and Merciful God.
Dottie, it was such a blessing to have finally met you. May God bless all of you with His Peace, Love and Mercy.
Lori Bourgeois .🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️
I have all the Davis family in my thoughts and prayers. Dr. Davis was such a nice person. Sending love to you all.
Greatly enjoyed working with Parke for 5 years before cerner drove him into retirement. Wonderful crusty personality and great sense of medical humor. I m glad I could briefly reconnect last year. He was missed.
Mrs.Davis, Thomas and Amanda…I’m so very sorry for your loss. Thinking of you all today and days to come. 🙏
Mrs. Davis, Amanda and Thomas, I’m so sorry for your loss. I’ve told Amanda a lot of things in the last few months to fill in some gaps. Two of the biggest things were how sweet your whole family was to me and especially a few meaningful pearls I walked away with from Dr. Davis that are still a big part of my life. Thinking of you all and a big hug. Thoughts and prayers to your family. Love, Mac
Dottie–I have loved living next door to you and Parke, and I refer to him as my “fence friend”… all the early mornings we have spent tending our dogs in the yard…him with his cup of coffee; me, with mine. Sometimes steam arose from those cups and sometimes we could see our breath in the cold morning air. When we first moved in to the neighborhood we came home one day to find a small paper bag on the counter full of tomatoes from his garden, a welcoming gift.
One day he gave me the following quote and said that he has carried it in his wallet for many years:
“The master in the art of living makes little distinction between his work and his play, his labor and his leisure, his mind and his body…his love and his religion. He hardly knows which is which. He simply pursues his vision of excellence in whatever he does, leaving others to decide whether he is working or playing. To him, he is always doing both.” Zen Buddhist text.
It was in his writing and I taped it inside my notebook where I can keep it and, when seeing it, I smile knowing it was from him. Dottie, he told me you were the best thing that ever happened to him. I’m sure you know. 🙂
My deepest sympathy, Dottie to you and all the family. He was a great, kind man. I will miss him and I can still picture him smiling though the trees.
Much love,
Debby Green
Dottie,
We just heard this and hate we missed the services. We will always have wonderful memories of Parke and your family. He was indeed a true and faithful physician, family guy and friend! We now live in Asheville and would love to see you!
I worked with Dr.Davis at Wilson Memorial Hospital when our outpatient surgery department was established. It was a new and exciting time for our community. Dr. Davis was so patient, kind, and supportive to the nurses as we began our journey into this new era of health care. My deepest sympathy to his family and all the lives he touched. Rest in peace Dr.Davis. Well done.🙏🏻
Dottie, Thomas, and Amanda,
I just read of Parks’s passing in the Wilson Times. Needless to say, you have my sympathy. When I think of him, I remember his driving the old Greenfield van on a few field trips my class took. Much safer with him behind the wheel than me.
I hope all of you are doing well. Good memories will get you through this challenging time.
It well may be
That we will never meet again
In this lifetime
So let me say before we part
So much of me
Is made of what I learned from you
You’ll be with me
Like a handprint on my heart
And now whatever way our stories end
I know you have re-written mine
By being my friend
Like a ship blown from its mooring
By a wind off the sea
Like a seed dropped by a skybird
In a distant wood
Who can say if I’ve been changed for the better? But
Because I knew you
Because I knew you
I have been changed for good