Patricia Allene Foster

patricia foster

May 7, 1951 ~ July 28, 2009


Resided in: Asheville, NC

Patricia Allene "Patty" Foster, 58, of Asheville, NC, began her homecoming and eternal peace on Tuesday, July 28, 2009, following a courageous seven-year battle with ovarian cancer, surrounded by family members and special friends. Her death will be mourned by a larger circle of friends and relatives. Patricia's message for those unable to be present was "tell them to meet me in Heaven." With Paul, she would say, "I have fought a good fight; I have finished my course; I have kept the faith; henceforth, there is laid up for me a crown of righteousness which the Lord, the righteous judge, may award me at that day." Ms. Foster began her life with her birth at the Naval Hospital, on the island of Guam. She was the third and youngest daughter of Col. James E. Foster and of the late Alice Louise Roberts Foster. Patty was a U.S. Army "Brat," growing to adulthood during the Korean, Vietnam, and Cold War era. Hence, she lived with her loving military family and attended schools in multiple places in the United States and overseas. Patty earned a BS degree in Medical Technology from Ohio State University, in 1973. Upon graduation, she joined her family in Fairfax, VA, where she successfully passed the required medical examination and received her initial professional license. In 1980, she moved to North Carolina and became a long-term employee of Mountain Area Family Health Center. At an early age, Patricia accepted Jesus Christ as her Savior. She was a person of faith and family. She worked tirelessly for the church in many endeavors, especially in assisting youths and counseling those with troubles and special needs. She always demonstrated an open, compassionate, cheerful approach to those that needed guidance and help. Her compassion was revealed as she offered a number of people a place to stay in her home over the years. She had a love of animals and provided shelter for several strays. Her many interests included music and singing, various types of needlecraft and sewing, cooking, art, and reading. Dr. Nathan E. Williams, MD, the other superb specialists, technicians, and staff of Hope - A Women's Cancer Center were essential participants in Patty's protracted battle with her disease. Patty became very active in the "Strength for Living Support Group," assisting in fundraising, conducting social activities, and providing loving counsel to other center patients. No one who knew Patricia could help but admire and adore her. She was one who touched lives, and spread positive cheer and joy wherever she went. Her dedicated life was synonymous with her strong Christian faith. Her special legacy will be the indelible mark she has left on the hearts and in the minds of all who knew and experienced her devotion and commitment to "service above self." Reunite and rejoice in our Heavenly Father's name. Patricia will be greatly missed by all and we shall love her always. She was a member of Biltmore Baptist Church, where she sang in the choir and attended Sunday School. She is survived by her father, Col. James E. Foster, Austin, TX; sisters, Anita Louise and husband Alan Beard, of Fairfax, VA, and Anna Kathleen and husband James Stern, of Austin; brother, James Christopher and wife Karen Foster, of Nixa, MO; five nieces, two nephews, and one grand-niece. She is also survived by other relatives and a host of friends. Special survivor recognition is extended to the loving surrogate family of Jack and Jane Hipps, and their children, Rachel and Adam, of Asheville. Over the past 25 years, each became a special sister, brother, niece, and nephew. They became a part of Patty's close family. They were always there daily and participated lovingly during the many joys and trials experienced by Aunt Patty. She reciprocated and was there to assist her special adopted family during their celebrations and hardships. Patricia will rest eternally alongside her family members in the Foster family plot at Forest Oaks Memorial Gardens, located in southwest Austin, TX. Special thanks to many dear friends; Hope - A Women's Cancer Center; CarePartners Hospice and Solace Center; special friends Jack and Jane Hipps; Janice Jackson; and Sally Winchester. A celebration of Patty's life will be at 4:00 p.m. on Saturday, August 8, at Biltmore Baptist Church with the Rev. Carl Setterlind officiating. The celebration will then continue in Terrace Hall. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to Hope - A Women's Cancer Center, 100 Ridgefield Ct., Asheville, NC 28806, Mountain Ridge Chrysalis, P.O. Box 1437, Asheville, NC 28802, the American Cancer Society, 120 Executive Park, #1, Asheville, NC 28801; Biltmore Baptist Church, 35 Clayton Rd., Arden, NC 28704; or to a charity of one's choice. Groce Funeral Home on Patton Ave. is assisting with the arrangements.

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  1. We could not have asked for a better neighbor! Patty, we will miss you! Our thoughts and prayers go to the family and to Jack and Jane. God bless each of you during this difficult time.

  2. Thank you for the life that you bought to a room by being there. We are sorrowed by the lost of your life and the battle with Cancer. Happy that you, pain nomore, are with God, Your Mother, and our Heavenly Families.

  3. I remember Patty for her cheerfulness, through the tough years as well as the good.
    I remember those carefree years of our youth when we played childhood games ‘teasing her brother Chris and pestering sister Kathy’.
    Now with a heavy heart I will miss my cousin dearly and always remember her as a child of God…..

  4. Carol and I will always remember Patty as a vibrant teen as that is when we were around her the most,and then their was the time we all went to James’s wedding and drank all the champagne.

    Leslie & Carol Bliss

  5. I remember Patty as the lady with they tiny feet and the big (singing) voice, gentle in spirit and generous in heart. I knew Patty through the Mountain Ridge Chrysalis community where she walked lovingly beside many young women. Since moving to NoVa 4 years ago, I’ve been largely unaware of her fight with cancer. My prayers go to her family and friends.

  6. We only knew Patty through her Father, Jim. But was always aware of her battle with her cancer. Jim was always upbeat, and hopeful. He spoke of her often both with great concern, and cheerfulness. Our hearts go out to Cousins Jim, Anita, Kathleen and James Christopher.

  7. Words cannot begin to express the love and admiration we all had for Patty. Her very presence brilliantly radiated the love of Christ. I’m certain she experienced a glorious homecoming and now that Patty has arrived the celebration is just getting started!

  8. I know Patty through her sister, Anita, who lovingly talked about her so often, I feel like I know her very well.

    Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

    God Bless.

  9. Patti and I met in the chemo room at Hope and participated together in Strength for Living Support Group. Everyone was easily drawn to the loving and caring Patti. She gave us all love, strength and courage to face cancer and the message to let God take care of everything. Her impact on my life will be an inspiration to love others and all that God has given us. It will be glorious to see her in heaven.

  10. Jim, Please accept our heartfelt condolences at the loss of your daughter. May God richly bless you with His comfort during this time. Tery & Anita McKee

  11. Cousin Jim,
    Sincere sympathy & thoughts go out to you during this time of loss. My prayers are with you and your family.
    Cousin Marilyn McGaff

  12. Some people enter our lives and stay awhile, some we glimpse as they pass thru, some we never actually meet. Some find a place in our hearts and stay forever, these are the ones we never forget.
    Loving thoughts to all my Foster cousins.

  13. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time. May your faith bring you comfort in this time of loss.

  14. Jim & Family,
    Please accept our deepest condolences at the passing of your beloved Patricia. We know that you will miss her terribly but, at the same time, rejoice that her battle is over and she is with her heavenly Father. Our continued thoughts and prayers are with you.
    Hugh and Mary Lou Cole

  15. Jim and Family,
    We are so saddened by the death of your daughter. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your Family. God bless all of you.
    Love, Dave & Mary Ellen

  16. To Patty family and Jack and Jane Hipps..So sorry to hear about Patty. She was such a wonderful person and will be greatly missed. Peggy Turner Michael

  17. Patty brought a lot of joy to my life. I knew her as a colleague at MAHEC family practice where I was one of the faculty MDs and she worked in the lab; I also knew her because we both participated in the Emmaus Community. She was always upbeat, cheerful, helpful, and positive, even as she struggled with the ovarian cancer. When we faced tough situations in the clinic, she was always there for me with a smile and an encouraging word. She enriched my life, and I count myself blessed to have been one of her friends.
    Sincerely, David Mouw

  18. I feel very thankful & blessed that God brought Patty into my life, only a short year ago. She was a joy to be around & had one of the sweetest, most giving spirits of anyone I know. She will be missed here, but I look forward to my reunion with her in the company of our Lord & Savior Jesus christ!!

  19. I’ll always think of Patty as the bright, beautiful young woman I knew as part of a loving neighborhood family at Ft. Belvoir, VA. She will be missed.

  20. Patty and I go back many years and I have wonderful memories as I lose count of the Emmaus walks we served together. I enjoyed many times in her home and will always remember the time she taught me the sign for ‘beautiful’ … that was our special sign for each other – for indeed that she was and is. My love and prayers are with the family and with you, Jack and Jane. Know that you are loved. In Christ – Debra

  21. I want to express my sincere sympathy for the loss of your loved one. You can be
    assured that comfort and hope are found in the pages of the Bible. Revelations 21:4 speaks of a time when sorrow will be no more. This is a wonderful hope during our times of grief and pain. Please take care of yourselves.

    Sincerely Mrs. Watkins

  22. Patty’s cheerfulness and melodic laugh gave us all joy. We have many happy memories of times together, visits in Texas, North Carolina and Tennessee. She enjoyed talking on the phone with her ‘baby brother’ to ‘catch up’. Patty truly loved being with her family and friends and we will treasure our memories of her always. James, Karen, Jamie and Kevin Foster


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