Robert Donald Allen

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Robert Donald Allen of Latta, South Carolina went home to be with his Lord and Savior in the early morning hours of Thursday, September 03, 2015, after a bravely fought seven-year battle with Alzheimer's disease at the age of 63. As his family and friends grieve the loss of this remarkable man, Don would tell you that he was one of the lucky ones. He would say that his Grand Adventure began 42 years ago on July 8, 1973 when he first met Vicki Gillie in Rota, Spain, and that he has been sailing the ocean waves with the sea-breeze on his face and the taste of saltwater in his mouth ever since. He would say that his Grand Adventure ended the same way it began—with his wife by his side—and he would say not to grieve because his Captain has ordered him into port. He has heard the sounds of that final buoy signaling his arrival home. Don was born in Dillon, South Carolina on August 11, 1952. He attended school in Latta where many of his classmates were also his cousins or other family relation. He went on to attend Clemson University and then was drafted into the Navy in 1972, which he would tell you was one of the biggest blessings of his life, even though he did not realize it at the time. This event set his life on a different course than what he had planned, and allowed him to meet Vicki—his best friend, wife of 39 years, and fellow adventurer. After marrying Vicki, Don's adventure would continue when he returned to graduate from Clemson University, returned to the Navy as a military officer finally retiring from the Navy as a Commander in 1998. After his military career, Don pursued and captured his dream to work for the world's largest retailer—Wal-Mart at the Sam's Club Corporate Office. After 23 moves throughout the United States, Don left Sam's Club in 2008 with Vicki to transition into his retirement years. Don believed that the three most important things in life were faith, family, and freedom and he reflected these core values to everyone he encountered. His wife Vicki, his daughter Jen and her husband Jeremy Weber, his daughter Liz and her husband Justin Knapp, and his son Joe and his wife Melanie survive him. Don's legacy continues with his 9—soon to be—10 grandchildren. His parents Clyde and Jean Allen, his siblings Jo Ann, Phyllis, Judy, and Mark and numerous nieces and nephews also survive him. Vicki's father Calvin Gillie, her brothers Scott, Thomas, Joey and Jamie and her sister Denise, mourn the loss of this man they considered to be a son, brother and friend. The family wishes to thank the Black Mountain Veterans Home staff who tenderly cared for Don over this past year, as well as the doctors, nurses and staff at The Elizabeth House in Flat Rock, NC who took such good care of him in his final moments. A funeral service will be held on Monday, September 7 at the Beaufort National Cemetery (1601 Boundary St., Beaufort, SC 29902) at 10:00 a.m. A reception for all attending guests will follow. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that contributions be made to The Alzheimer's Association (www.alz.org) or The Wounded Warrior Project (http://www.woundedwarriorproject.org/). Groce Funeral Home on Patton Avenue is assisting the family with local arrangements.

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  1. It sounds as though you have enjoyed a wonderful life together and created wonderful memories. God Bless you and your family.

  2. To Vickie and family – I am very sorry for your loss. The only good thing is that Don is in heaven with Jesus. I know you are all imagining Don’s reunion with your sweet mom. I bet MY mom is there too sharing the joy. Vickie I will be praying for you as you travel this new road. You are blessed with a wonderful family and I know you will all be there for each other. Much love, Beth Kearns Sheffield

  3. Vicki and family sorry for your loss. He is now sailing the seas of heaven and enjoying the heavenly breeze. Prayers for your family during this time.

  4. I am very sorry for your loss. You are all so fortunate to have shared a part of your life with Don. I know he will be sorely missed. He is resting in the arms of Jesus. You and your family will be there for each other through this. You all are in my thoughts and prayers during this time.

  5. Vicki and family, I feel very blessed to have been one of Don’s nurses at the Veterans home. I enjoyed Looking at his map of travels, and the framed list of things about him. We will miss him, but take joy in knowing he is free of disease and with Jesus in heaven. Thankyou for allowing me to cross his path in life. I feel honored to have cared for him. Much love to you all, and I wish you peace.

  6. I’m so sorry and pray God’s sweetest comfort for each of you!
    2 Corinthians 1:3-5 (NLT)
    3 All praise to God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ. God is our merciful Father and the source of all comfort.
    4 He comforts us in all our troubles so that we can comfort others. When they are troubled, we will be able to give them the same comfort God has given us.
    5 For the more we suffer for Christ, the more God will shower us with his comfort through Christ.

  7. Dear Vicki,
    I am so very sorry to hear about your loss of Don. You have experienced so much loss in your life, and I will certainly be praying for you and your family. The more loved ones we lose, the more we have invested in heaven. I bet your mom has already found Don and greeted him with a big hug. Maybe she and my mom were together at that time! It wouldn’t surprise me a bit. I pray that the Lord will give you peace and comfort in the days ahead.
    With much sympathy,

  8. So very sorry for the loss of your husband, son, brother, father & friend. God Bless you all and grant you peace.

  9. Vicki, I am so very sorry to hear about Don. But I’ll bet he’s with your mom telling her all about her grandkids and great grandkids. And with grandma, Mama and Daddy all having a grand reunion. My payer is that God will give you and all your family comfort in knowing he’ll be waiting for you. And no more pain. We love you. Al, Pam and Chase

  10. I am so sorry to hear about Don. I know he was welcomed in Heaven by many family members. Glenn, his grandparents, my parents and his many aunts and uncles that predeceased him. Know you all are in my prayers.

    I received the following Poem when mother passed this past January and I share this with you:

    God looked around His garden
    And found an empty Space.
    He then looked down upon His earth,
    And saw your tired face,
    He put His arms around you,
    And lifted you to rest
    God\’s garden must be beautiful,
    He chooses only the best.
    He knew you were suffering,
    And in so much pain.
    He also knew in Heaven,
    You would never hurt again.
    He knew your road was getting rough,
    And the hills so hard to climb.
    So He closed your weary eyelids,
    And whispered \Peace be Thine.\’
    It broke our hearts to lose you But you didn\’t go alone. For a part of us went with you The day God called you home. Don is WHOLE now and walking on streets of gold and we have the joy as Christians to see him again. My love to all of you during this loss. Cathy Lane Tyner

  11. We send you all our love, thoughrs, and prayers after your loss! We love yall. Family is very important and we all are here if anyone needs anything. God bless and watch over you all!

  12. the whole family is in our thoughts and prayers. We all love each and every one of you. I know how difficult it is to lose a life long spouse. If you ever need anything you can contact me anytime. Cell 843 845 4988 or home 843 752 7514.

  13. We are praying for your family, and thinking of you all during this sad time. May God’s peace lift you up and carry you all through this. We love you.

  14. Vicki, So sorry to hear of Don’s passing. He will be missed in our family and I will be praying for your family during this difficult time.

  15. Vicki, Calvin & Family, I am so sad to hear about Don .I’m sure he is in Heaven with Doris, Mama, Inez and all the others! They are all sitting in a circle listening to all the old ‘Tales’. Just think of him Smiling down on everyone.
    I’m thinking of everyone in Prayers.
    Love Y’all,

  16. Vicki,

    I am so sorry, I just learned of Don’s passing. My thoughts are with you, Jen, Liz and Joe and your extended family as you grieve such a great loss. As time is passing I hope you are having more days smiling as you reflect and remember the many many many moments of love and laughter you all shared together. May those memories and Don’s lasting love give you peace. I am sure that a man of such integrity and grace is indeed walking with his lord having fought such a courageous final battle with you, his love, by his side. Find comfort in the love that surrounds you.


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