Robertson Lispenard Miller

April 8, 1924 ~ June 14, 2013
Resided in:
Asheville, NC
Robertson Lispenard Miller 89 of Asheville, NC died June 14, 2013.
Mr. Miller, born April 8, 1924 in Asheville, was the son of the late Horace William Miller and Gertrude Marshall Miller. He was a graduate of Lee H. Edwards High School and the University of Mississippi. He served in the United States Navy for 24 years, retiring as Naval Aviator with the rank of Commander. He later retired from Wachovia Bank in 1986 with 20 years of service. Mr. Miller was a member and former Vestryman of Trinity Episcopal Church. He was past president of Deerfield Episcopal Retirement Community Board and Asheville Civitan Club. He served on the Asheville Day Nursery Board and the United Way Board. He was a member of and served on the board of the Biltmore Forest Country Club and the Rhododendron Royal Brigade of Guards.
Mr. Miller was a member of the Society of the Cincinnati, The Sons of the American Revolution, The Mayflower Society, and several other historical societies.
He was preceded in death by his wife Mary Kathryn Fleming Miller, a son Robertson L. Miller Jr., and a brother Horace William Miller Jr.
Mr. Miller is survived by a daughter, Kathryn M. Fletcher (David) of Fairview NC, a son Dr. Charles G. Miller (Kimberly) of Boone, NC, and five grandchildren; Amelia and Robertson Fletcher, Kathryn Fletcher Blackmon (Matthew), Emily and Evan Miller, and one great grandson, Hunter E. Blackmon.
The family would like to thank the staff at Deerfield for their loving care and tireless devotion.
A memorial service will be held Friday, July 12, at 11:00 am at St. Giles Chapel, Deerfield Episcopal Retirement Community. Private burial will be at Riverside Cemetery.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Endowment Fund of Trinity Episcopal Church; 60 Church St, Asheville, NC 28807 or Deerfield Episcopal Retirement Community Resident Fund; 1617 Hendersonville Road, Asheville, NC 28803.
Kathy and Charles, I have so many wonderful memories of your wonderful father. He was kind, funny, and ever the gentleman. I was blessed to have known him and privileged to have shared time with him. You and yours are in my heart.
Dear Kathy,
I have many good memories of working with your Dad at Wachovia.
We send our sincere sympathy.
God Bless You.
Marcia and Fred Ayers
Kathy I am so sorry for the loss of your Dad. I know you love him so much. It is so hard when we lose our Dads because they were our first love. You will see him again one day! I will be praying for You and Family/
Dear Kathy:
My sincerest condolences to you and your family on the loss of your
father. Hopefully, the many happy memories you have of him will help you through this difficult time.
Bob Miller
Dear Mrs. Fletcher,
I met your dad only a couple of times, and on those occasions he was very kind to me. I was a friend of your brother’s (Bob Jr.). He and I went to Christ School, in my case (and I believe his also) only one year (1966-7) as sophomores (known there as ‘fourth-formers’). Bob invited me to your home in Biltmore one weekend and we rode his little red Honda trail-bike all over your neighborhood and through the Biltmore Estate.
I am writing simply to offer my belated condolences with regard to your father’s passing and, more importantly, to reach out you as someone who also knew and very much cared for your brother. I know your dad was a fine person not only from this impressive obituary but from my vague memories of him – the sort of memories a 15-year-old boy would have of a man of his stature. I have to confess he was a bit intimidating to me as a youngster, as he was indeed such a formidable and accomplished person.
Your brother, Bob was also, in his own way, a very impressive Young man. For a time, he was my closest friend. Bob was so bright and such a thoroughly decent guy, and I was completely devastated to learn that after we left school that he died so tragically, and so young. I can’t help but wince a little every time I think of him and pined the life he might have had and the friendship we might have shared. Some corner heaven is surely brighter for his presence.