Marilyn Jill Meares

January 31, 1937 ~ February 17, 2020
Born in:
Asheville, NC
Resided in:
Mills River, NC
Mills River- Marilyn Jill Batts Meares, known to friends and colleagues as “Jill”, died in her home on Monday, February 17th at the age of 83, surrounded by her children with a view of the mountains she loved and called home most of her life.
She was born to the late William Carroll Batts and Frieda Knoblauch Batts, January 31st, 1937, in Asheville, NC. She is predeceased by her husband of 57 years, Henry Holmes Meares, who died in 2015, and her stepmother Jeanne Batts Searcy who died in 2013.
Jill graduated from Asheville High School in 1955 and received a BS in Home Economics from UNC-Greensboro in 1959. After decades of teaching in public schools, she continued her education and received an MA in English Literature from the University of Central Arkansas in 1987. A lifelong learner, in May 2007 she completed the program of Theological Education at the University of the South’s School of Theology in Sewanee, TN. She served as the Director of Christian Formation at Calvary Episcopal Church in Fletcher, NC for 15 years and taught Education for Ministry classes until Spring of 2019.
Jill married the late Henry Holmes Meares, Jr. at Calvary Episcopal Church in Fletcher, NC in 1958. While Western North Carolina was always their home, they lived for periods of time in Michigan, Arkansas, Texas and South Carolina where they were camp and program directors for summer camps and conference centers. Jill was devoted to the education and spiritual development of youth in many forms throughout her entire life.
Jill is survived by a host of children and grandchildren: Son Jeff Meares of Fort Smith, AR (wife Norma and children, Thomas and his wife Alaina, Spencer and his wife Madeline, and Lani); Daughter Alison Cohen of Brooklyn, NY (husband Warren and children, Lila and Ruby); Daughter Victoria Loke of Dawsonville, GA (husband John Michael and children, Ryan and Devin); Son Matthew Meares of Houston, TX (wife Laura and children Madyson and Nicholas).
Jill is also survived by her brother William Carroll Batts, Jr. and his wife Roberta Batts of Florence, SC and son William of Easley, SC.
Mom. Nana. Wife. Daughter. Sister. Teacher. Camp Director. Youth Minister. Professor. Learner. Friend. Artist. Mentor. Role Model. Organizer. Beautiful Soul. Christian. These are all the roles that Jill embraced with fierce dedication and passion and the ways she prayerfully sought to contribute to a just world rooted in compassion and love. Jill’s faith in God and humanity is something to be in awe of, to study and learn from, and to aspire to emulate.
A service celebrating Jill’s life will be held at Calvary Episcopal Church in Fletcher, NC at 11 a.m. on Saturday, February 22nd. A reception will be held at the church following the burial. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Camp Henry Scholarship Fund, 900-B Centre Park Dr., Asheville, NC 28805 (http://www.lakelogan.org/give-to-camp-henry).
Groce Funeral Home at Lake Julian is assisting the family.
Services
Celebration of Life: February 22, 2020 11:00 am
Calvary Episcopal Church
Hendersonville Road
Fletcher, NC 28732
828-252-3535
Reception: February 22, 2020 12:00 pm
Calvary Episcopal Church
Hendersonville Road
Fletcher, NC 28732
828-252-3535
While I never had the honor of getting to know Jill, I do know Alison. Alison would not be the incredible person who she is without such an incredible role model. Jill, your memory will be forever blessed.
We are sorry for your loss. May God grant you peace, now, and in the coming days. Jack and Debbie Combs
Jane and I are saddened to learn of the passing of Alison Cohen’s mother. While we never had the honor and pleasure of knowing Jill we can know that she was an exceptional person through her daughter, Alison.
Our thoughts and prayers are with the family during this time of loss.
Alison, You have been a loving thoughtful daughter to a loving thoughtful mother. She spent her life sharing her love and sense of what is right with her family and far beyond. You have reached even further throughout our country and around the world, always starting and returning to your much loved husband and daughters.
Her spirit was a powerful force in this life and her spirit will remain always in your heart and the minds and hearts of all who knew her. You carry forth that same loving and powerful spirit. Peace and love, Bill
HER AND HERNY WERE OWN FAMILY AN ALL THE JOY THAT CAME WITH HER. SHE LOOKED AFTER MY DAUGHTER LIKE SHE WAS HER OWN. WE ALWAYS HAD SO MUCH FUN AND LOVE WHEN SHE WAS WITH US. NOW SHE AND HERNY ARE WITH EACH OTHER. AND SHE WILL BE WATCHING ALL HER CHILDREN EVERDAY OF THERE LIFE. “WE ARE THE WORLD, WE ARE THE CHILDREN, WE ARE THE ONES WHO MAKE A BRIGHTER PLACE, SO LETS START GIVING. THERES A CHOICE WERE MAKING, WERE SAVING OUR OWN LIVES, ITS TRUE WE’LL MAKE A BETTER DAY, JUST YOU AND ME.”
FROM THE HALL FAMILY
The Gurule’ Family