"J. Ray" Elingburg

March 16, 1939 ~ February 24, 2020
Born in:
Buncombe County, NC
Resided in:
Asheville, NC
Asheville, NC-James Ray “J. Ray” Elingburg, 80, passed away on February 24, 2020 at the John F. Keever, Jr. Solace Center (Hospice) from complications of diabetes.
Born on March 16, 1939, and a native of Buncombe County, Ray was the son of the late Raymond Dalton and Mary Ann Gregory Elingburg. He was preceded in death by his wife, Roberta “Dolly” Straine Elingburg of 46 years who passed in 2009. He was also preceded in death by his brothers Charles L. Elingburg, Carroll S. Elingburg, Robert Louis Elingburg, and Raymond Dalton “Ted” Elingburg and sisters; Anne Morgan and Shannon Elingburg Capps.
He is survived by two daughters, Julie Elingburg Gifford of Seneca, SC and Jennifer Elingburg (Lewis Sprouse) of Hendersonville, NC; one granddaughter, Sabrina Gifford Simmons (David); grandson, Richard Lee Gifford II (Leslie) and step grandson, Jacob D. Sprouse; four great granddaughters; and many wonderful nieces and nephews.
He is also survived by brothers: Jack Earl Elingburg, John Thomas “Tommy” Elingburg, and William Richard “Rick” Elingburg (Jan) and a sister: Shelia Elingburg (Robert Maxwell), sister-in-laws: Mary Ruth Elingburg and Karen Lane.
Ray graduated from Valley Springs High School (now known as T.C. Roberson) in 1957 where he played basketball and baseball. He also played with his brothers on the Elingburg Family basketball team, which was coached by their Dad and raised money for Skyland-based charities.
Ray entered the U.S. Army in 1959 and served one year stateside and almost 3 years in Germany.
As class President at Asheville Biltmore College (UNC-Asheville) he graduated with his Bachelor’s Degree in History and with his Teacher’s Certification in 1966, the first class to graduate as the college’s newly accredited 4 year college status. Ray later achieved his Masters Degree in Secondary School Administration from Western Carolina University in 1971. He also played college basketball and baseball, and coached J.V. Basketball at Asheville Biltmore College.
Upon completion of his Bachelor’s in 1966, Ray became a History teacher and basketball coach at A.C. Reynolds High School. In 1968, he became the Vice Principal for the high school.
In 1970, Ray ran on the Democratic ticket and won the Buncombe County Clerk of Court position while he finished the last year of his Master’s Degree. He was elected for 5 consecutive 4-year terms until he retired in 1990.
Then he was appointed by the county manager to head a study and implementation for a new county jail, which lasted about 3 years. Next, he was hired to oversee Buncombe County’s Child Support Office for 2 years. Following that position, Ray was hired as the interim Director of the Automated Criminal Justice Information System for 2 years. For the better part of the next 3 years, he headed the NC joint state/county Criminal Justice program- a “Re-entry” program to assist criminals back into society and the workforce.
Then he “retired” again and volunteered at the local Habitat for Humanity. After his wife Dolly passed in 2009, Ray became a visiting home Hospice volunteer for Care Partners. Being a proud UNC-Asheville Bulldog, Ray was a contributor and instrumental in making the Kimmel Arena a reality for the basketball program.
Proudly, he served 19 years on the A-B Technical College Board of Trustees from 1983 to 2002. He was subsequently elected to the Board of WNC Historical Association in Fall 2001, overseeing the Smith-McDowell House and Museum until 2008. He continued to be a day volunteer for Smith-McDowell House and has been an integral part of WNC Historical Association’s fund raising for a history museum and the Civil War Trails program.
His lifelong dream to research and publish his Elingburg family history led him to volunteering at Old Buncombe County Genealogical Society & Library (OBCGS) in 2003 when it was a small room at the Innsbruck Mall. He served on their Board as Public Relations Coordinator from then was elected 2nd Vice President of the Ways and Means Committee in 2008. His tireless campaigning to raise money to relocate the operation to a larger site resulted in their current location at the old Square-D plant on Bingham Road in Asheville. He loved his days volunteering there helping others research their family history while using the resources to work on his own.
J. Ray was known for his witty sense of humor and being a practical jokester. He loved spending time with his family, traveling, dancing with Dolly, sporting events, reading his Asheville Citizen Times newspaper every day, and endearing to him was going to lunch with his buddies “the lunch bunch”. He was a long time, active member of Jubilee! Community Church. J. Ray’s life was made complete by his love for helping others.
“We regret due to current state event restrictions, the Reflection of Life Service has been cancelled at this time.”
Ray was honored in a private ceremony on March 2 at the chapel/graveside of the Western Carolina State Veterans Cemetery in Black Mountain, NC.
In lieu of flowers, Ray’s request was for memorial donations to be made to Old Buncombe County Genealogical Society (OBCGS) PO Box 2122, Asheville NC 28802 or online at https://www.obcgs.com/
Services
Funeral Home Assisting The Family:
Groce Funeral Home at Lake Julian
72 Long Shoals Road
Arden, NC 28704
(828)687-3530
http://www.grocefuneralhome.com

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Old Buncombe County Genealogical Society
PO Box 2122
Asheville, NC 28802
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I am so sorry for the loss of your dad. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
My sincere condolences to the Elingburg Family. Ray was truly an Asheville treasure!
Annette Coleman
Enka NC
Words cannot express how much I loved your dad and the kind and funny personality he had. He always made me feel good about myself and i learned so much from him. He loved life and helping others was something the he lived for everyday. I know we will all miss him dearly but I know he is dancing the streets of gold with the love of his life Dolly. My thought and prayers are with you. Love, Mona
Sorry to hear about J. Ray’s passing.
Great memories of Coach Elingburg at AC Reynolds. He had a lot of good influence on the students. Thoughts to the family.
A life well done!
Jen so sorry for the loss of your dad. We love you. June and Terry
Your Dad was one of “Old Asheville’s” finest men. His service to his community, friends, and family will always be remembered. He and Dad are having a good time in Heaven, I just know it! We’ll see them again one day.
Julie I am so sorry you have lost your Dad. I knew he was struggling. God be with you and your family.
May your dad “Rest In Peace” as he spends eternity with your mom and Jesus Christ our Lord and Savior.
Rest In Peace, Ray. Job well done.
RIP friend! What a quality human being and friend to all! So proud to call him a friend! God bless & strengthen the family.
Love and prayers for the Elingburg family, what a tremendous loss. I had the honor of being mentored by J Ray when I “volunteered” at the courthouse in my teens-his words stuck with me more than anyone and I am forever grateful and will never forget.
elected and served the people in this position many terms. No matter where you saw him he always had a kind word and a smile on his face. He was loved and admired by so many people. He loved his girls and his wife, Dolly. Prayers that God will give the family, Peace, Grace and Comfort in the coming days, weeks and months as they face life without this gentle giant of a man.
Love in Christ,
Ray was faithful to all his loves: family, church and community. The Biltmore park community loved seeing Ray around and about and cherishing his independence in living. His long time seat at the back of jubilee church setting ,where he was most Sundays and his pre church brunch at the Hilton will bring many memories. We treasure Ray’s life and contributions.
My Heartfelt condolences to The Elingburg Family. I enjoyed my time serving on several boards with Ray.
He was special to all that knew him.
Sheila and family, I am so sorry for you loss. Please know I thought highly of Ray. You all are in my thoughts and prayers during this time of sadness, and I know you all will miss him greatly. However, Ray was a special person for representing Asheville and Buncombe County.
Fond memories fill my sad heart today, since having known Ray since our years of classes together at Valley Springs H.S. He was a kind gentleman with a remarkable legacy, and one who will be missed by so many. All my prayers and love to his family. Rest In Peace, Ray…
Sheila,
My condolences and sympathy to you and your family during this time of loss.
Debby Burchfield
My condolences to the family! I remember Jennifer wearing her dad’s Re-election button She was so Proud of him!
Our hearts are so saddened to hear of Ray’s passing. Please accept our most heartfelt condolences. We wish you hope for peace and comfort in the coming days.
So sorry for your loss. I will always remember Ray and the good times our Elingburg family had.
I’m so sorry julie and Jennifer…and all the rest of the family that loved him …you are all in my prayers …and my thoughts ! I’m sooo glad I had the pleasure of knowing him 💕
My thoughts and prayers go to Ray’s family. Enjoyed working with him in recent years on the Museum of Western North Carolina project.
to the elingburg family. my deepest sympathies from the silvey and funderud families as our times growing up on atkins st and lance lane.
I am very saddened to hear of the great loss of Ray. He was a longtime friend, colleague and mentor. He will be missed by many. I send my deepest sympathy to all of Ray’s family.
Ruth Williams, Retired Clerk of Superior Court, McDowell County
Diane Cornett Deal
Watauga County Clerk of Court
In sympathy to all of you; your daddy was always kind and dear to me as an employee of A-B Tech when he was on the Board. I remember him so fondly.