Dakota Wayne Messer
November 27, 1996 ~ August 1, 2020
Resided in:
Candler, NC
Dakota Wayne Messer, 23, of Candler, NC passed away unexpectedly Saturday, August 1, 2020.
He was preceded in death by his father Jarvis Wayne Messer.
He is survived by his mother, Anita Chapman of Candler, NC; grandmother, Frances Chapman of Candler, NC; several aunt and uncles, Darryl Chapman (Sandy), Shelia Smith, Diane Hance, Brandon Skidmore, Troy Messer of Candler, NC, Charles Messer (Olga), Marguarite Wollen (Steve), Susie Messer, and Sharon Messer; special cousins who were like his brothers and sisters, Chris Hance (Debra), Candace Hance (Chris), Tyler Skidmore (Brianna) and other cousins Dawn Neville, Mathew Messer, Tommy Queen and Steven Woolen. He is also survived by special little ones Summer and Autumn Hance, and Hayden and Emma Skidmore; special friend, Lori Gosnell; and his beloved dog Wilma. He was loved by all and will be deeply missed by many.
There will be a Celebration of Life Saturday, August 8, 2020 at 12:00 p.m. at his home, 35 Neil Hoilman Drive for his family and friends. Covered dishes are welcome.
A Memorial Service and Interment will be at Pisgah View Memorial Park, Smokey Park Hwy on Sunday, August 9th at 1:00 p.m.
Flowers may be sent to 35 Neil Hoilman Dr. Candler, NC 28715.
Services
Burial: August 9, 2020 1:00 pm
Pisgah View Memorial Park
1529 Smoky Park Highway
Candler, NC 28715
828-667-4415
Funeral Home Assisting The Family:
Groce Funeral Home - Patton Ave.
1401 Patton Ave.
Asheville, NC 28806
(828)252-3535
http://www.grocefuneralhome.com
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Words can not say how bad u will be missed thank u for allways being there for me an I will greatly miss u shine bright for all your family especially your mom she needs you to watch over her an pertect her always an I know u will D…u got your wings to soon but I will see you again an when I do we will say I got u bud 4ever the greatest Dakot messer fly high miss you an love u 4ever
We loved Dakota very much. And we love you Anita.
My deepest condolences and prayers for comfort to Dakota’s mom. And family
sorry for your loss antia we will miss Dakota but we are here for you my friend
Our thoughts and prayers are with the family at this time.
Anita and family my heart is hurting so for y’all. Such a beautiful young man that was called home. There are no words that can explain why. But we know he is in heaven with many arms around him with the love of Jesus Christ to someday return with his family. I am sending and saying Prayers to help you through the sorrow of such a loss of remarkable young man that everyone loved. Thoughts and love alwayAnita. Love Daisy.
My Heart is Broken. Dakota you was special in every way. Keep coming to visit us we all need you. My Heart will never be the same
Lord I Pray you send comfort to Anita.. Wrap your Loving arms around her. Heal her Broken Heart. Lord be with her at all times. Lord I Pray you shower Anita with your Love. I Love you so Much Dakota you will always be with me. You will never be Forgotten
Everywhere I look I will see you and your smile
Love you!!!
dEARaNITA , MY HEART GOES OUT TO YOU IN THE LOSS OF dAKOTA, HAVING LOST A SON MYSELF IN 93,i SHARE IN YOUR SORROW, pLEASE KNOW NOW THA HE IS WALKING HAND IN HAND WITH THE lORD AND WITH wAYNE, MAY gOD BLESS YOU AND WRAP HIS ARMS AROUND YOU IN COMFORT, WITH LOVE,.SHIRLEY COLAGERAKIS
Susie Messer Dakotas Aunt I was there at the hospital when you were born. Your mom and dad were so happy all of your family was happy!!You are very smart,good looking
Anita and to all of our family,
So hard to believe and accept Dakota’s death, but we must.
Our sincere condolences Anita, so much grief and heartache is overwhelming, know Jesus walks with you/ us.
Dakota was such a tender hearted & sweet innocent young man. Smart, handsome, loyal, loving and caring person. Anita you taught him to be that kind of person.
Too much grief has come to our family.
Young people are to grow older & have families of their own. Hope for their future. Too many have died without having hope for a future.
Dakota – I am sorry I have not been there for you- though I tried.
My heart aches for our loss of you and not growing older and watching you have your own family. Sharing life here on earth.
Our purpose is to Advocate, Love and encourage one another in Jesus Christ’s name, Amen
I / we miss you Dakota, until we meet again in Heaven. Resting Peacefully.
“These things I have spoken unto you, that in me ye might have peace. In the world ye shall have tribulation: but be of good cheer; I have overcome the world.”
John 16:33 KJV
Love Aunt Punkin & Uncle Steve
Anita I’m sorry to hear about Dakota. I often tell the story about a 10 or 11 year old kid asking what I was going to do with the 7 old school buses on my property when I was cleaning it up. I told him I had to get rid of them somehow thinking it was going to cost me a bundle to move them. He asked if he could have them if he moved them. I said he could, not expecting anything to happen. So I was shocked to find them gone one day and more shocked that he made over $3000.00 at the scrap yard back when scrap metal was at its peak.
Anita I am so so sorry to hear about your loss of Dakota I cannot imagine what it would be like to lose a child so I pray God will grant you the comfort and peace you need to get through this I love you girl
Anita there are no words to understand this you got my number call me day or night if you need ANYTHING. Love you babe.
Anita there are no words for this you have my number call me day or night if you need ANYTHING. Love you babe
Dakota, I wish I d had more time to get to know you better. You had the prettiest skin and eyes, Blessed is the person that gets your personality was so charming, I can see you with your Father and other family members including my sweet Cody and others.I pray your Mom can see you everyday, in her dreams, a cardinal perches and sits a moment on a limb catches your Mom’s eyes, butterflies fluttering around. I loved you Bud. My heart hurts. Anita God be with you. I love you and your family.
Anita,there is no words to tell you how sorry I am in the loss of your sweet Dokota.I know he was your world..you’re in my thoughts and prayers always.love you Anita
Anita,friends & family , memories of Dakota will fill your hearts,slowly mending you day by day.try to dwell on the good times and the love you shared with each other.you all are in my prayers.
With love, Sherry Clain