Margaret Ethel Payne Cole

margaret cole

April 12, 1938 ~ May 22, 2025

Born in: Buncombe County, North Carolina
Resided in: Henderson County, North Carolina

Margaret Ethel (Payne) Cole, 87, of Arden, died Thursday, May 22, 2025 at Brookdale in Hendersonville.

Born in Buncombe County, she was the wife of the late Joe Cole, who died in 2014. She was the daughter of the late Harold Jones and Mary (Barnett) Payne. Margaret was also preceded in death by a brother, Butch Payne; a sister and her husband, Jean and Paul Peek; and a brother-in-law, Skip Gaines.
Margaret was a member of Biltmore Methodist Church.

She had a long, rewarding career working for the Henderson County Department of Social Services, later helping deliver Meals on Wheels. She loved trips to the beach, buying new shoes, taking her grandkids out for lunch, and never skipped dessert.

Margaret is survived by a son, Barry Cole; a daughter, Cameron Stepp and her husband, Darrin; two grandchildren: Slayde Stepp and Paisley Stepp; a sister, Carolyn Gaines; a sister-in-law, Helen Payne; and several nieces and nephews.

A memorial service will be held at 2:00 PM on Saturday, May 31, 2025 at Groce Funeral Home at Lake Julian. Burial will follow at Calvary Episcopal Church Cemetery. Friends will be received one hour prior to the service at the funeral home.

Services

Memorial Service: May 31, 2025 2:00 pm

Room: Chapel

Groce Funeral Home at Lake Julian
72 Long Shoals Road
Arden, NC 28704

(828)687-3530
http://www.grocefuneralhome.com

Burial:

Calvary Episcopal Churchyard
Hendersonville Road
Fletcher, NC 28732


The Family Will Greet Friends: May 31, 2025 1:00 pm - 2:00 pm

Room: Chapel

Groce Funeral Home at Lake Julian
72 Long Shoals Road
Arden, NC 28704

(828)687-3530
http://www.grocefuneralhome.com

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  1. Carolyn my dear friend, I am so sorry for Margaret’s passing and the loss you feel. Am so glad you got to see her on Saturday. Am sure she, Joe, Skip and other family are reunited and enjoying one another. You have the love of so many and we grieve with you.

  2. Didn’t know this beautiful lady personally, but I knew here through her sister Carolyn, a special friend of mine. Please be with her.

  3. Carolyn,
    Thinking of you during this time of sorrow. Yet, I know it is also a time to celebrate her life of joy and the joy she is now experiencing in Heaven! Blessings and prayers for you and your family.

    Kathy

  4. I am so sorry for your loss. Y’all are in my thoughts and prayers. Sending love and hugs.

  5. I work at Brookdale and have had the blessing of knowing Miss Margaret and her beautiful soul! We miss her dearly, but know she is out of pain and it’s heavens gain! Our thoughts and prayers are with her family during this difficult time!

  6. Carolyn –
    I’m sure “Sister” is now no longer in pain or confused. My love to you and your family. Prayers and love to all.


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