Bobby Vance Ray

April 22, 1948 ~ January 23, 2003
Resided in:
Arden, NC
Arden ~ Bobby Vance Ray, 54, of Appian Way, died peacefully at his residence Thursday, January 23, 2003.
He was born in Florida, but spent most of his life in the Asheville area.
He was the son of the late Georgia Owenby Ray and Vance Ray. He was also preceded in death by a sister, Carolyn Borders and a brother, Richard Ray.
Bobby was retired from the Biltmore Company following 22 years of service as property manager. He was a veteran of Vietnam serving from 1968 - 1970. He was a member of Emmas Grove Baptist Church. He loved and was loved by his family very much.
Surviving are his wife of 30 years, Joyce DeHart Ray, formerly of Franklin, NC, now of Arden; two sons, Robert Devin Ray of St. Petersburg, FL and Curtis Alley and his wife, Heather; one grandchild Thana Alley, all of Arden; three sisters, Wanda Ray and Gail Ray, both of Asheville and Pam Shaw of Charlotte; two brothers, David Ray and Doug Ray, both of Asheville.
A funeral service will be conducted Sunday at 3:00 PM in the chapel of Groce Funeral Home at Lake Julian on Long Shoals Road with Rev. Donnie Chapman officiating. Interment will follow in Emmas Grove Baptist Church Cemetery with Asheville High School Marine Corp. JROTC conducting military honors. Pallbearers will be Wayne Alley, Andrew Arthur, Alec Arthur, Allen Shaw, Joel Johnson and Darrin DeHart.
The family will receive friends from 2:00 - 3:00 PM at the funeral home.
In lieu of flowers, a donation may be made to the American Cancer Society, 31 College Place, Building C, Suite 100, Asheville, NC 28801.
Isn’t it strange how we come back into each others life? I am so thankful to God that he has brought our friendship back as if we never left off…I wish I could have gotten to know Bobby, but I feel I did through you. You loved him dearly….and he loved you.
Bobby was richly blessed by having you as his wife, Jody…..and you have been richly blessed by him. God bless you my friend, and keep you at peace…I love you
Joyce and family,
I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your dear husband. May God be with you and your family at this difficult time and hold you close to His heart. May He provide you the comfort you need.
I am sorry that we have lost contact over the years. I am sincerely sorry for your loss.
If you ever need me for anything, I am still here.
My love and prays go with you always.
Our last time all together in Florida was one of the happiest days for us all….our regret is that we didn’t get to have Bobby as a friend for a longer period of time but will always remember him as a kinred spirit, especially when we are at the beach for I feel sure his spirit will visit there every chance he gets.
Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
Joyce, Frankie told me about the loss of your husband. My deepest sympathy to you and your family. May God give you strength to carry on with your life and the life of your family.
Peggy D. Hoglen
Frankie’s sister
I was so surprised to hear about Bobby’s death. My prayers and thoughts are with you during this time. I would like to be at the service today, but, I have other commitments. I will pray for you.
I was so surprised to hear about Bobby’s death. My prayers and thoughts are with you during this time. I would like to be at the service today, but, I have other commitments. I will pray for you.
I was so surprised to hear about Bobby’s death. My prayers and thoughts are with you during this time. I would like to be at the service today, but, I have other commitments. I will pray for you.
Just wanted you to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
I was surprised to hear of Bobby’s death. Please know that you are in my prayers.
Hope the family is still doing well after his passing. Praying for all!
Bobby I miss you so very much and I miss our long morning talks. I know you’re in a more beautiful and peaceful place. I love you your sis, Pam