Brandon Taylor
May 18, 1986 ~ June 1, 2005
Resided in:
Skyland, NC
Asheville Butterfly Trail
Skyland – Richard Brandon Taylor, 19, of Herman Avenue, died Wednesday, June 1, 2005, of injuries sustained in an automobile accident.
Brandon was a student at T.C. Roberson High School and a lifelong resident of Buncombe County. He was a kind and loving son who always had a smile on his face. He loved life, his friends, his family, his low rider truck and he excelled at auto mechanics.
He is survived by his mother Kay and daddy Kelly Hunter of the home and his father, Rick Taylor of Sylva. He is also survived by three sisters, Arielle Hunter of the home, Ashley Taylor and Lexus Taylor of Sylva; his grandparents, Thomas Gasperson of Skyland, Judy and Bill Thomas of Myrtle Beach, S.C., Ida and Gene Egan of Greeneville, Tenn. and Hilda Taylor of Canton. He also had a ton of aunts, uncles and cousins who loved him.
The family would like to express their appreciation to his many friends and school buddies for their support and love.
A funeral service will be held at 2:00 pm Saturday in the chapel of Groce Funeral Home at Lake Julian conducted by the Rev. Daniel Allen. Interment will be in New Salem Cemetery.
Brandon’s family will receive friends from 7 until 9 pm Friday at the funeral home on Long Shoals Road.
My thoughts and prayers are with you Kay,Kelly and the family. May God be with you always and forever. I am truely sorry for your loss and wish I could be there for you. Love to you & your family. Susan Mathis
Rick, so sorry to hear of this tragic loss. My heart and prayers are with you and your family. I know you will cherish all your precious memories of you and your son. God bless you all.
Kay, Kelly, and Tommy, I am thinking of you and praying for each of you today, because I know how very difficult the ‘goodbyes’ will be today. You were blessed to have Brandon for 19 years, and he was blessed to have such a wonderful Mom, Dad, and Granddad. I pray that God’s strength and comfort will be far beyond what you could dream or had hoped for . Thinking of you with love and prayers, Harold and Jean Ballard
Dear Kay and family, we just wanted to send our deepest sympathy to you for your loss. We are Cindy Camille’s aunt and uncle and were with her at the beach when she got the news of the accident. We met you many years ago and I always ask Cindy about you. Please know that you are in our prayers and may God bless and be with you.
We are so sorry for your loss. Please know that your family will be in our prayers.
To Brandons family and loved ones,
i have known brandon for about 3 years now. I have never met any of you guys, but i have been to your house. Brandon helped me and my brother when my dads truck broke down, he found the problem then drove it home for us and told my dad what it needed. Wether i had just met him or i had known him all my life you could always count on brandon to help someone in need.He would drop whatever he was doing and come help me,and thats why we got along so good. I used to skip periods in school just so i could hang out with him. He was one of the best freinds i could have. We never once had a fight with eachother and probably never would have. I know i won’t miss him as much as you guys will, but there isn’t a day that goes by that i don’t think of him.The day he died i was going through my cell phone and seen his name, so i called and left him my last message. I’m sorry for all you have to go through and i hope you go on to live a good life.
LOVE YOU BRANDON….FOREVER
To each and everyone who has signed or visited the guestbook…I come everyday to this sight, it is so comforting for me to see how much my wonderful son was and still is treasured by all the lives he touched. I will never be able to express the appreciation I feel to each of you for whatever part you played in helping me through this sad time in my life. I talk to Brandon each day and I know he is up in heaven smiling, looking down telling us to live our lives to the fullest just as he always did !!! I just want everyone to know how blessed we have been by all your love and support, and 2 weeks, or 2 months, or 2 years from now don’t hesitate to call or come by then. To the wonderful person who continues to replace the beautiful flowers at the base of the tire, we will be forever grateful!!! I love you all, EACH AND EVERYONE OF YOU, for being a part of Brandons life and helping to send him home to be with Jesus…I hope, knowing Brandon is dancing or(spinning tires) on the STREETS OF GOLD, will help to put peace in your heart and a SMILE on your face…Brandon is smiling as he reads this…Be Happy—HE IS!!! With all my love and thanks, Kay—Brandons Mama
Linda,
This is Kay.
I have know idea….but God… that I would have looked at Brandon’s obituary.
It has been 10 years since I came to the sight just to re-read all that was said about Brandon.
I am so very sorry to hear about Peter.
I loved Peter and he was a very special young man.
I saw him a couple of years ago at the dollar tree on tunnel road.
He was telling me about his wife and daughters.
He was bragging and so proud of his family.
It was nice to see him happy.
And yes he was Brandon’s bestie.
I think about you guys often.
How are you and Emily doing?
Please reach out any time, I’d love to grab a cup of coffee.
Love to you both.
Love, Kay
Tommy and Family:
We were very saddened to hear about the loss of your grandson, Brandon. Our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time are with each and every one of you.
Jerry and Judy Turner and
Lisa Turner
Hey Arielle, I know you were surprised to see my message the other day. I feel so much better knowing now that you found some comfort from it, which was my only intention, I assure you! Your wisdom sounds like a person far beyond your sixteen years! And in the line to your brother that you wrote, ‘its amazing how ppl can get over the hardships in their lives and still be able to reach the goals they have for themselves’ is really self-revealing. You are ONE of those people! I’m amazed that you are so focused on your future and are still finding the time to volunteer for Special Olympics, and the program with the
APD. I just know that Brandon is so proud of your accomplishments! You are strong-willed and you know what you want in the long run, so whatever rumors or petty little words you have to deal with right now…simply will not matter when it comes to the Big Scheme of things! You are guided by a deep drive to win…and then win even better!You will continue to succeed and excel, with no need to look back. I am SO sure of this! I can’t believe you haven’t been able to find a job yet…I’d hire you in a heartbeat! (if I had a job for you!) Let me know how your prom goes or (went). If you’d like to reach me via email, it’s Reneonthemtn@bellsouth.net Would you please erase my address once you’ve seen this message? Take Care, and I think you are an awesome little sister! Rene’
Dear Kay, Kelly, and Family, Brandon was not only my best friend but he was also like my brother. Anytime I needed someone to talk to he would come over no matter what he was doing. He always listened and knew how to fix it or how to make me laugh. He taught me how to drive his little gray truck and laughed at me cause I could never ‘whip it’ just right. He would pop up at my house randomly to say what’s up and make sure everyone was doing alright. I’m going to miss his late night drive-bys and waking up my family. I just want you to know that I will always be here for you anytime, just call me. Brandon, I won’t forget our long trip to Sylva to meet you dad Rick on his Birthday weekend. He’s the best. I love you so much. Keep on eye on things and keep everyone safe.
hey rene its arielle and i saw that you wrote to me.im in lunch right now so i cant write that much but i just wanted to say thank you so much…you really touched me…like i started crying,ya thats silly…anyways i gotta go but i would love to see you write back.thank you so much again!bye!
Hey Buddy, It’s mama….
You know 1 year ago today we laid you to rest…we put you in God’s hands to watch over until we get to see you and hold you again. We know you are in the GREAT KEEPERS hands,
but that doesn’t make us miss you any less. WE MISS YOU !!! I’m sure you hear me talking to you everyday,
NO…I haven’t lost it…I just keep you close to my heart. I guess you saw the boots.(Forever with me),
pretty cool Huh? June 01, we celebrated your life…ate your favorite-(hotdogs). Arielle is doing great in school, but she misses you so badly, the afterschool grill-outs, and help with her math. Kelly misses you so much too…sometimes we just sit and talk about what if you were still here…Pop-Pop needs help with this crazy messed-up Jeep he’s building (or trying to) he has said a thousand times if Brandon were here he would know how to fix that. Send him some pointers…All your friends are still taking care of us. They come by or call at least once a week.You have some great friends. You were the best friend any of them could have. We are all blessed to have and have had each other. It feels good to write to you. I LOVE YOU NOW AND ALWAYS !!!
WITH ALL MY LOVE !!!
LOVE ALWAYS,
MAMA
Hey Brandon-
These next couple of months will be tough ones. While I have no doubt you are happy and carefully watching over each of us, I selfishly would rather have you here. Your family is strong and doing their best to cope with everything. Please help to remind me of their needs over the next couple of months. I welcome your little reminders and need them very much! I love you buddy and sure do miss your silly grin- but you already know that, don”t you!!
I can’t begin to imagine the pain your family must feel in this time of loss. Just in the short period of time I knew Brandon (about 3 years) he became special to me. I’ll never forget Mr. Scott letting me leave 4th period early because auto-tech wasn’t the easiest class for me so i’d sneak up to Mrs. Floyd’s class and Brandon would always help me out with my work. I didn’t see Brandon for almost a year until Brian and I started dating, when i realized they were such good friends. The many memories & black marks they shared together this past year will always be remembered! I’ll never forget me yellin at Brandon tellin him that he and Brian could NOT spin tires in the snow b/c i was pregnant now! He just laughed! He’ll be missed incredibly .. but .. ‘Do not be saddened by his passing. Take joy in the fact you knew him and had the honor of sharing the wonderful life he lived.’? Brandon your in a much better place looking down on us all, and i’m sure you’ve seen already Brian’s been layin black marks for you!!! :o) Our thoughts and prayers are with your family – if you need anything at all, even if its just to talk we’re here for you AnYtiMe!!
The Dash
A man stood to speak
At the funeral of a friend.
He referred to the dates on his tombstone
From the beginning….to the end.
He spoke the following date with tears:
(May 18, 1986- Jun. 1, 2005)
He said what mattered most of all
Was the dash between those years.
For that dash represents all the time
That he spent alive on earth…
And those who knew and loved him
Know what that little line is worth.
For it matters not, how much we own;
The cars, the house, the cash.
What matters is how we live and love
And how we spend our dash.
So think about this long and hard…
Are there things you would like to change?
For you never know how much time is left,
That can still be rearranged.
If we could just slow down enough
To consider what’s true and real,
And always try to understand
The way other people feel.
And be less quick to anger,
And show appreciation more
And love the people in our lives
Like we’ve never loved before.
If we treat each other with respect,
And more often wear a smile…
Remembering that this special dash
Might only last a little while.
So, when your eulogy’s being read
With your life’s actions to rehash….
Would you be proud of the things they say
About how you spent your dash?
Brandon it was very heartbreaking to hear the news that you had left us. We have all been friends for as long as we can remember. The funniest memory we have of you is pulling out of Taco Bell and you knocked the entrance sign out with that low rider truck of yours, and we will always think back to that day and laugh. Brandon you will be greatly missed but always remembered as the crazy boy who made everyone laugh. We could not attend the services but we wanted you to know that we love you and you will always be in our memories.
hey rene i would love to stay in contact with you (without having to talk across a memorial site)lol but right now my email is messed up and my mom and dad are trying to figure out whats going on.so whenever i get things figured out i’ll get my mom to copy your email and erase it out of the memorial cause i have no idea how to.lol oh and my prom went amazing!it was so much fun!and yep i still dont have a job…bummer.lol but anyways i gotta get back to class and i guess i will try to get in touch with you later!thanks again so much, byee!
Brandon: It’s been five months since you went to heaven and I want you to know that not a day goes by that your are not thought about. Doug has had a very hard time excepting the fact that his friend is no longer here. He misses seeing you, and still looks for you to pull into Autozone everyday. Doug, Peter and Clay go and visit you often, just to chat and hang out with their friend and talk about old times and the things you used to do. Gram and I have gone to visit you also. You were truly a gift to this world and one that will never be forgotten. Behave yourself Brandon, and continue to watch down upon your family and friends.
All Is Well
Death is nothing at all,
I have only slipped away into the next door room,
I am I and you are you…
Whatever we were to each other, that we are still.
Call me by my old familiar name,
speak to me in the usual way which you always used.
Put no difference into your tone,
wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrows.
Laugh as we always laughed
at the little jokes we enjoyed together.
Play, smile, think of me, pray for me.
Let my name be ever the household word that it always was.
Let it be spoken without effect, without the ghost of a shadow on it.
Life means all it ever meant, it is the same as it ever was,
there is absolutely unbroken continuity.
Why should I be out of mind, because I am out of sight?
I am but waiting for you, for in the interval.
Somewhere very near just around the corner…
All Is Well…
I want you here. That’s all I keep thinking. All of it still seems so unreal. Being away I can kind of pretend that you’re just waiting for me to come back. I don’t have to face it until it suddenly hits me that I can’t come home and see you. I remember on Christmas thinking that you were at Daddy Rick’s and that I’d just see you later. When we were at the bridge I thought about how many people had probably come by there and thought it was a pretty sight, never guessing. We never really realize, do we? We’re so wrapped up in our own worlds. Sometimes I still find myself thinking, ‘That didn’t happen. Tragedy like that doesn’t happen in our family.’? I keep hoping that you’ll come out of hiding and say, ‘Just kidding.’? I almost want to say, ‘Okay, Brandon, joke’s over.’? I know God has a plan and that He has things in control, but I can’t help but think it’s unfair. The grandkids are uneven now. That’s not how things are supposed to be. Not that I would ever mind being in heaven, but I always kind of wanted to live my life and experience things before I went. But I’d go to heaven right now just to see you. You flash in to my mind at the oddest times and while it hurts, I can’t help but think about how you’d respond, what kind of joke you would make, or how you would laugh. We didn’t have you long, but I thank God that I had you in my life at all. Thank you for being who you were- always there with you generous heart and your jokes. You are inspiring. The effect you have on your friends and family, the stories I hear, they make me want to have that kind of impact. I guess I just want to say thanks for everything and I can’t wait to see you again. I’ll miss you always and love you longer.
Hey Arielle,
I just wanted to say hello. I hope everything is going well at school for you! I fully expect to hear some really good things about your job hunt too! I have a feeling you have a knack for communicating your abilities to potential employers with complete confidence! Take care, and be safe!
Your friend, Rene’
Gimme a Kiss’
That’s what he always said to me!!
I will never forget that and I will cherish it forever!!
Brandon was great, crazy, fun, energetic, and another older brother to me. I will always remember him forever and cherish the time I spent with him, even the times when he and Peter use to ‘tourture’ me with their Evel Kenevel ways.
I never knew until my brother told me on the day of the funeral that Brandon tought of me as a sister and I am so blessed for that!!
Brandon you are always loved, everytime I make chocolate chip cookies I will remember you!!
Thank you for all the fun and Fast time!!!
Brandon – I LOVE YOU!!! THANK YOU FOR THE TIME WE HAD!
Blessed Be,
Emily
‘Peter’s Sister’
Gimme a Kiss’
That’s what he always said to me!!
I will never forget that and I will cherish it forever!!
Brandon was great, crazy, fun, energetic, and another older brother to me. I will always remember him forever and cherish the time I spent with him, even the times when he and Peter use to ‘tourture’ me with their Evel Kenevel ways.
I never knew until my brother told me on the day of the funeral that Brandon tought of me as a sister and I am so blessed for that!!
Brandon you are always loved, everytime I make chocolate chip cookies I will remember you!!
Thank you for all the fun and Fast times!!!
Brandon – I LOVE YOU!!! THANK YOU FOR THE TIME WE HAD!
Blessed Be,
Emily
‘Peter’s Sister’
hey…i’m just hangin out at school and i’ve got a ton of extra time cause i finished all my work in art.so i’m in the library wasting time.lol anyways…oh this weekend is prom and i’m so excited, i wish you could be here to see me all fancy and frilly.ya know i was never like that three years ago, anywho yeah so prom is saturday and i cant wait!i’m going with colton and i cant help but wish you had met him…he’s great, he kinda reminds me of you.lol kinda weird huh?i’m wearing the dress that i was sposed to wear at the formal and never got a chance to.mom did some alterations (oh big word!woo) on it and its absolutely beautiful.shes so amazing how she can do that.i would have the dress sewn to my finger if i even tried to do anything like that.lol oh and i was freaking out cause it was wrinkled really bad so dad surprised me and took it to the cleaners!its gonna turn out great!ok on to a different subject…well as you kno i just turned 16 and it feels great to be able to say 16 and not 15 and a half when ppl ask me how old i am.lol yep and i have my car!YAY!mom keeps talkin about how shes gonna steal mine and give me her old one.haha yeah right.jk i’m lookin for a job right now but nothing seems to work out.oh well i did work for pop-pop painting his new house that hes building and he paid me a littl but i could never do any of the fancy stuff up at the shop like you could.but i guess ‘i should stay young while i can’ as everybody says.anyway its not like career depends on it, ok so ive finally decided what i wanna be:a pediatrician!i would absolutely love that!i’m taking some allied health classes at school so i’ll graduate with a licensed degree in health.i’m pretty proud of that.lol right now i’m in the police academy at the asheville police station and they named me and 2 other guys the leaders of all the other ppl in the class, they prolly only named me that cause i’m so loud mouthed.lol its been pretty fun but its also emotional sometimes cause we talk about ppl we’ve lost in our lives so sometimes its pretty hard for me…lately ive really been thinking about how i can help the world and ppl who have gone through a tragedy or were born with a disability so yesterday i volunteered to help with the special olympics and it was so fun!i learned so much stuff too.my buddy was megan bishop.she won first place in the 10 meter walk and second in our bowling game!its amazing how ppl can get over the hardships in their lives and still be able to reach the goals they have for themselves.it really touched me…anyways mama and daddy are doing pretty great.ma has had some trouble sleeping lately and it kinda scares me but she says shes fine, you kno mama.lol and dads doing good.hes working on a jeep right now and i think its a pretty nice car but its getting on his nerves.lol i’m doing ok,ive had some problems with my friends though, everybody started doing drugs and since i hung out with them i got the bad rap that i was smoking and drinking like them but i never did.so eventually i just told them i was sick of the rumors and they were ruining their lives(you kno that made them mad).so i said go ahead and do what you feel you have to but i’m not that kind of person so i left that group and now i have tons of rumors going around that they started but at this point i really dont care.its their problem not mine!lol oh and lordy lordy autumn is pregnant.crazy right?!?but it seems to be helping her clean her life up, ever since she found out shes gone to church with me and stopped doing all the crazy stuff she used to do…everybody keeps saying it was stupid of her to do that and yes it was a big mistake but i’m excited for her.well…i miss you…so much,ive stayed up so many nights crying and crying,like my birthday night…that was a hard night.but i kno you’re up there watching over me and keeping me safe.i love you so much.bye big brother.
love your little sis.
To the family of Brandon Taylor,
I did not know your son at all, but yesterday I attended a graveside service at New Salem Cemetery and happened to come across Brandon’s grave and headstone’? I thought to myself after reading the stone, ‘this must be a very special young man’? and I could tell that there must be a lot of friends and family grieving his recent death. The headstone is so awesome and unique’? I just felt drawn and compelled to write something in his online guest book’? I have grown children of my own and a precious little granddaughter.. I can not even imagine what you must be going through. I wanted to post one particular verse from scripture in hopes that it might help to sooth your hearts. I am thoroughly convinced that satan is behind the bad things that happen to us in life He is the ruler of this age but will not always be. He is out to kill God’s precious children. Our God is a loving God and he would never want to hurt us. Satan knows that if we are dead and in the grave we can not tell others about him and his son, Jesus Christ’? This verse always come to my mind when tragedy happens. I hope you don’t think I am out of line by posting this condolence in your son’s guest book since I am a total stranger. If you feel any need to delete this entry, please do so. May the Lord be with you and comfort you in the days and years to come. God Bless’?
John 10:10 The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I
have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.
I am thankful for the opportunity I had in getting to know Brandon as a student in my class this semester. He was always friendly, helpful and kind in class. I am so sorry for your loss. I’m sure Brandon will be missed by many people. I will not be able to attend the services but wanted to let you know of my thoughts and prayers.
r.i.p brandon.i will always luv and remember you man!!!
Dear Tommy Sandy,Kay, Kelly, And all members of family, I am very sorry at the loss of Brandon. I know you are very very sad. This is such a terrible happening> You all are in my prayers. God sustains us in times of sorrow. God Bless You all. Love, Brenda Brigman
Dear Kay, Kelly, Tommy, and Family,
I enjoyed seeing Brandon when I visited Tommy’s shop. He was friendly and helpful. I felt like he was one of my own family. I will miss his smile. I was impressed with the respect he demonstrated for older people. I am thinking of you during this very sad time.
Love,
John Stephens
Dear Kay,Kelly,Tommy,and Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time. My last remembrance of Brandon is when he worked on my lawnmower and was so delighted when he pulled on the starter cord and the hum of the motor was heard. I was impressed with the work ethics he demonstrated. He was a sweet boy whom I know you will miss greatly.
Love in Christ,
Claudia
Hello Arielle, I just finished reading your entry tonight, and I feel so compelled to write you now. I stopped at Brandon’s gravesite this afternoon, after riding by it for several years now. I was with my sister and her 15 year old daughter really just looking at all of the very old headstones there. I saw a woman and a girl a few days ago at Brandon’s headstone, so of course I could tell that he is dearly loved. We were all so touched by the personal items you and everyone have placed at his grave. I looked at his photo and thought to myself how much pain this boys family has felt. You can’t imagine my surprise to see that today you have taken the time to sit down and write your feelings down. I can’t help but believe that Brandon has asked me to be the messenger to tell you he is still with you. I genuinely feel that he is the reason I feel so strongly in getting in touch with you! I have never met Brandon but it’s clear to me that he was a very special person to a lot of people. I think you are so strong and wise to continue to express your feelings to your brother here. I really admire your dedication to the process of grieving. It’s not a one month, or one year event…it’s a process which encompasses a series of feelings and emotions over a length of time. For you to take the time to so beautifully express yourself is a testament to the special person that YOU are as well. I guess I have Brandon to thank making me sit down and try to give you some words of comfort from MY heart. Thanks Brandon! Much love to you, Rene’
I am so sorry for your loss. I had the pleasure of working with Brandon this school year. He was such a kind young man to me, and was very helpful as well. He will be tremendously missed. My heart goes out to you.
Kay, Kelly, and Ariel. Brandon’s memory will always remain in your hearts. He will always be with you.
Love,
Joey, Angi, TJ, and Katie
We hope your family knows how much we will miss Brandon and how much we want to help in anyway that we can. We know that we can not possibly understand what it is that you are going through but hope that we can help. Our prayers are with you in this time of need and know that we love you. Know that Brandon had a heart of GOLD!!!
Daryl and Family
Kay, Kelly, and Ariel I hope you know your son was the best friend I have ever had!! He Changed my life and kept me out of trouble! I will never forget any of the times we shared!! Yes we had our bad times but brandon and I were the best of friends, at school we were unseperatable. Any where you would see him you would find me! He really is an angel and I feel as though he is now my gaurdian angel! I know he is watchin over all of us and is livin it up in heavin. I just cant wait till the day I will see him again and be able to walk the goldin streets with him! And to brandon I would like to say, Sleeptight my friend I love you more than anything and I will see you some day we just have to be patient! I know you are watchin over me Brandon I can feel you with me and I thank you for that! I love you
Megan
Dear Mrs.Kay,Mr.Kelly,Ariel and the whole family, I can’t imagine how hard it is to lose someone that close to you. I looked up to Brandon, he was my mentor in a way, everything i know about cars i learned from him, wether it was in school or around the house. If it was broke he could fix it no matter what it was. Im really going to miss him, I already do. To Brandon, try not to raise to much hell up there, and i’ll see you when i see you take it easy man i miss you. p.s. how bout keepin an eye out for everyone down here. just remember YOUR THE MAN!!
I will never be able to beleive what just happened to Brandon. Never in my wildest dreams would I think Brandon would pass away like this! Brandon was a good friend to me since my freshmen year! I always enjoyed talking to him about cars. I enjoyed cars as much as he did,being a girl that I am! To me Brandon was a joyful loving boy. Brandon will always be in my prayers and my heart! And I know hes watching over me! and I hope he keeps me safe after all the bad excedents I have been in. Brandon I will always love you like a brother I always wanted! I know we will be seeing each other one of these days when its my time.
Love always:
Krystal M Geoghegan
I knew brandon througout middle and high school, and to be completely honest I’m not sure what to say. There isnt really all that much that can be said in passing for this type of situation. I guess the only thing I can say is that I appreciate having known him and enjoyed hanging out with him, and wish I had know him better and spent more time with him.
Brandon was a wonderful friend and has been since the day I met him in kindergarten. There are no words to describe how I feel and I can’t even begin to imagine how your family feels. Brandon and I have had so many good memories together whether it be from TaeKwonDo, school, or even in AutoZone. I am very honored to say that I knew him and to say that he was one of my friends, and I am extremely honored to say I was a paul bearer who laid one of the best friends I ever had to rest. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this hard time. I love you Brandon and I can’t wait to see you on the golden streets of heaven.
Brandon was one of the funnest people to be around, when we went out, there was never a dull moment, i have known Brandon since grade school. i enjoyed talking to him about cars and the next big thing that was to come to them everytime i saw him at autozone. my fondest memory of Brandon was when we all went four wheelin with no windshield whippers or headlights, just a spotlight in his hand. my prayers are with his family, god bless.
To those who knew him, no explanation is necessary. To those who did not, no explanation is possible.
Few enhance our world by showing how compassionate and good people can be. Brandon was one such person. Recently, I read that when we depart the physical world, we leave small pieces of ourselves with others. The vast number of individuals, their pure emotion, and supportiveness validate the theory. Sources of inspiration, his integrity, honesty, compassion, and loyalty touched and changed many lives. Brandon found determination, through inner strength, t o pursue and obtain his aspirations in life. By example, some will find the courage and strength to chase their dreams and goals, never giving up, while remaining compassionate and loyal.
Brandon loved many things; above all, he loved his family. Kelly, Kay Brandon, and Arielle remain soundly encircled by a powerful love. Brandon received love from a large, caring extended family and from Ricky. They say that love is the heart of the soul. Eternal, with no beginning or end, no past or future, it just lives in the moment. If any truth lies within the statement, Brandon and his family will have hearts larger than souls.
Radiating beauty from both inside and out, his heart was pure and free of pretense. Wearing an eternal grin, his eyes always twinkled with mischief. More apparent now than ever, he genuinely loved his friends. Brandon’s heart was always with Alex. He never let him down, never missed a birthday sleepover, and suffered silently while surrounded by 10 pillow-slinging children. Loyal and true for 17 years, you never forgot him, disappeared, or broke a promise and you always cared. For this Brandon, I am forever indebted. Exceptional courage, nobility, and strength distinguish a hero. You, Brandon, are a hero to many.
The truly great and beautiful things of the world cannot be seen or touched, only felt within the heart. Brandon’s heart and soul lives in each of us. His remarkable influence will be evident in our words and actions. We will always remember his positive outlook and how special it made us feel. At those times, I will remember that the most powerful force in the universe is a single truth, we are all spiritual beings, and love lies within the soul.
With Our Love-The Caldwell Family
Arden, NC
June 13, 2005
Dear Kay and Kelly, we can not begin to understand the pain you are going through, but we are praying for you that some way God will strengthen and comfort you in His own loving way. We pray that His presence will be so real to you as you go through these difficult days ahead .We are sure you have many sweet memories of your time with Brandon. Why don’t the two of you come out and see us and get away for awhile? Love , Harold and Jean Ballard
Hey I am so sorry about your lose. I cant imagine how you all might feel. Brandon he was a really good guy. I never in my wildest dreams would have ever pictured this happening, we never know what is going to happen tomorrow. It’s a long journey between finding out that somebody important to you is dead, and saying goodbye. In between are many months of sadness, spinning emotions, and exhaustion. And, while other people around you are feeling the same loss of the same person, the journey we take is one we take alone. There’s no quick way to heal ourselves, either. Along the route, we are angry, we yell in outrage at our belief system which has let us down, we despair at being left behind, we are guilty for what we haven’t said or done, guilty for even being left to live. We search for a reason, bargain with the powers that be to turn things around. We’re exhausted, lonely, bewildered. We’re afraid. So many things crumble when somebody we love dies. Our faith in the future, in an anticipated order of things, takes a nosedive. Suddenly we realize that we won’t be hanging out with that friend, or we won’t be going on that holiday with your son. Suddenly we feel vulnerable, like it’s not safe anymore. There are no guarantees about our future. And by losing somebody when they die we come face to face with the ultimate loss in our own lives-our own death.
We might want desperately to put our arms around our friend’s mother when we see her at the shopping center. But instead we duck into the nearest shop. Fear keeps us from expressing our loss lest we make her cry. We’re scared to go to the funeral and scared not to. We lose faith in the world’s fairness and we realize that one day we too will die. We’re afraid because we’re not ready.The anger, the frustration will always be there. But by accepting that it has happened, our minds work through the grief journey and we come out of the other end of the tunnel. The feeling of healing doesn’t mean forgetting. We still think of them, we wish they were here to share a certain moment. But that sick, heavy , deep pain is gone. Fear freezes us on the steps of a funeral home. What do we say? How do we handle the tears of other people? With our own. Saying nothing but ‘I’m sorry…’ is more comforting than any attempt to find a reason for death. There are no miraculous words that will help. Holding a hand. Giving a hug. Looking into someone’s’ eyes will let them know you care.
An well i will always remember you Brandon and i will be seeing you again someday.
I’ve known Brandon for a couple of monthes. He was a sweet young man, And he will be greatly missed. May God send the great comforter to his family. ‘And he said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness. ‘ II Corinthians 12:9
‘Blessed are they that mourn: for they shall be comforted.’ Matthew 5:4 Brandon is greatly loved and him and his family will always be in my heart and prayers.
I’ve known Brandon for a couple of monthes. He was a sweet young man, And he will be greatly missed. May God send the great comforter to his family. ‘And he said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness. ‘ II Corinthians 12:9
‘Blessed are they that mourn: for they shall be comforted.’ Matthew 5:4 Brandon is greatly loved and him and his family will always be in my heart and prayers.
To Kay, Judy and Tommy and the rest of the family, I did not know your son, but my son Bryan Davis was deeply upset by what happened to one of his friends and classmates. I know that you probably don’t remember me, but I am Lawrence and Ruth Barnwell’s daughter. I could not believe that this was your son. I can only imagine what you are going thru. We will keep you in our prayers. If we can be of any help to you, please do not hesitate to call Bryan or me. 684-9643.
Dear Kay and Kelly,
We are so sorry too hear about your loss. Please know that you all are in our thoughts and prayers.
David and Linda
Words cannot express how heavy my heart remains after hearing of the loss of your son Brandon. I enjoyed getting to know Brandon over the years. I remember when my brakes desperately needed fixing on my car some time ago. He told me that if he needed to, he would fix them in the parking lot. 🙂 I will miss him greatly next year in school. He always made a point to say hello to me in the hall. I can still hear his voice saying ‘ Hey Mrs. Owenby’.. May the Lord give you comfort during this difficult time. I will continue to keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely,
Chet and Leigh Owenby
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family doing these times of sorrow. Brandon was always there for me when I needed something done and he never complain when you asked him to do something for you. I will never forget the smile he always gave me when he called me ‘Ms.D’. If there is anything that I can do for you and your family please feel free to let me know. May God be with you and yours.
tommy, sandy and heidi.. i am very sorry for your loss… i will pray for you and your family.
I am very sorry for your sons death. I didnt know him that well but what i did know about him was really good. He was cool to hang out with when he came over to Kayla’s house. I know this is goin to be a hard time for all of yall but one day you will all see him again some day. I am sorry and i hope yall feel better and know that he will be somewhere good and we will all see him again.
To Brandons family,
I am so sorry for your loss. May God comfort you through this time. I will be praying for you. I ask God to suround you with his holy arms. With all my love and prayer.
When I think back
On these times
And the dreams
We left behind
I’ll be glad ’cause
I was blessed to get
To have you in my life
When I look back
On these days
I’ll look and see your face
You were right there for me
In my dreams
I’ll always see you soar
Above the sky
In my heart
There will always be a place
For you for all my life
I’ll keep a part
Of you with me
And everywhere I am
There you’ll be
Well you showed me
How it feels
To feel the sky
Within my reach
And I always
Will remember all
The strength you
Gave to me
Your love made me
Make it through
Oh, I owe so much to you
You were right there for me
‘Cause I always saw in you
My light, my strength
And I want to thank you
Now for all the ways
You were right there for me
You were right there for me
For always
I love you always Kayla
Kay, Kelly, Ariel, I know I have already posted a few words but I just cant get brandon off my mind I really want you guys to know how much I cared for him!! I dont think I have ever known any one as good hearted as brandon. And as my mom said brandon has a heart of gold, he really did. He was so respectful, kind, caring, just an all around good guy! I dont think any one has a bad memory with him. He made it his ultimate goal to make sure no one was sad, mad, any thing but happy. Now we all know brandon and I had our one time, But brandon will always live in my heart and every one elses he knew! I will always remember him Sqewlin’ them tires in his lowrider and my neighbor came out running after him yellin ‘im ganna get you’! He was the best and he will NEVER be forgottin as long as I live! Brandon was and still is my best friend and I know he is watchin over not just me but all his family and friends. Kay, kelly, I cant imagin the pain your feeling right now and please dont hesitate to ask for anything. Areil, Im so sorry girl and I want you to know, we never really knew each other but if you need anyone to talk to im here because I know im going to need someone! Brandon, I love you I will always!! And again sleeptight sweet boy and dont make to much noise up there! I love you!
Megan Penland
hey brandon its me.im supposed to be doing my us history homework but u kept poppin up in my head…lol me and colton broke up a few days ago and it sure would feel alot better if i had my big brother here askin if i wanted u to beat him up.lol jk..but seriously it would…idk…things just seem to be getting worse instead of better…well…oh i did get my lisence.and mom is ACTUALLY LETTING ME DRIVE.lol i even have my own car.haha wow im a dork…school is getting pretty tough but if i can just get through this year things will hopefully get better…oh man autumn is getting so big!!!haley (thats what theyre naming the baby) she keeps kicking and moving around..lol yeah…moms doing ok…shes cleaning the camper out right now cause were going campin this weekend…fun fun…and dads doing good.hes fussin at the cat right at the moment.haha ya…omg u know kristen?well her sister, kelsey, is one of the big girls in the daycare that im teaching at school. (oh by the way, ‘big girls’ means one of the other teachers.lol)) so i was talkin about u to her this morning.it was pretty cool.she was like ‘omg no way?youre brandons sister?wow i didnt know that!’ lol anyways…well i guess i better get back to my homework seein as how its gonna take me 3 hours to get it all done.lol well i love u and i miss u so badly…i hope youll take care of all of us.bye bubba.oh yeah mamas birthday is tomorrow so make sure and wish her a happy birthbay…♥bye
To all of the family of Brandon.
I’m sure you will miss him and we will remember him also may the Peace of the Lord, be with you all
and may you feel his comfort and to his grandmother Hilda remember we are thinking about you God Bless Ina Allen
Kay,Kelly,Ariel,I can’t even imagine how much pain you feel right now.I honestly have to say I have never met anyone like brandon. we were’nt just boyfriend and girlfriend for 8 months but we were bestfriends.Brandon has changed my life forever he has taught me so many things like how to be paitient and how to love. He never put himself before others and he always was helping someone out.when I found out that mom had cancer Brandon was at work and I called him crying, he said ‘hold on i’ll be there in a minute’.he never failed at holding me and being there for me. Brandon,Baby,I held my tears the day you left. I want to look into your eyes,I want to know that you hear me,I want to feel your arms around me,I want to hear your voice and that goofy laugh of yours.I remeber the first time I ever got mad at you, our first kiss,the first time I told you that I loved you,the look on your face and I remeber you asking me ‘do you know how good that makes me feel inside?’ I remeber the time you asked me to marry you and we both laughed because we knew we were to younge. But what you did’nt know then was that I would have married you in a heart beat.Oh and about that fight that we had I was going to call you and apologize for the things that I said but I was the one that got the call instead. I miss everything about you,I miss your smile your dirty face from work,I miss the black marks you leave on the pavement,i miss calling your phone and actually hear you answer each time I think you might pick up but its all in my head.I remeber you telling me that you loved me more then anything and I always told you that god came before me.I still don’t know why god choose you but I think it was because you were ready.I remeber when someone sent you that text message on your phone and it said Jesus loves you and to tell ten other people and you gave it to me and my brother in a letter.Baby I just want you to know that I could’nt of loved you more at that moment. I froze that rose that you gave me for valentines day and I still have that letter you wrote me. So if you hear me now I want you to know that I love you with all my heart and I always will no one can take your place Baby love Kayla.
Ricky, we are so sorry to hear of your loss.our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family..we tried to get in touch with you .
Shirley Taylor
Dear Rick, Vera, Ashley, and Lexus,
I can not begin to tell you how sorry I am. Brandon will certainly be missed by all! I first met him when he was 7 and he has been a part of my life much of the time since then. He was always a sweet and helpful young man. He was also a great ‘big brother’ to Ashley and Lexus. My prayers are with you all!
Love Valera
I’m sorry of your loss. Most people dont know how it feels to lose something so close to them, so all they can do is just sit there and listen. Yet I know how you feel for I have lost my dad when I was the age of 3 mounths in a car crash almost the same way your son did. Brandon was there by my side trough all my pain and for him I am willing to stand by your side through your hard times!
I knew Brandon by his relationship with my aunt and as you know relationships has its ups and its down, but its the downs that we have to forget! Most of all you have to remeber that even if brandon is not here in person remeber that he will always be there in your heart.
Brandon never gave up in his dreams to succeed in things and this is why we must not give up for the sack of him. We all loved brandon in a way that was way to hard to tell others. SO most of all, we need to remeber he is always with us for we carrie a part of him with us in our hearts. Though most inportent for you is to remember that nomatter what he will always be your little boy!
We are so sorry for your loss.Your Family will be in our prayers. Pam Bryson & daughters, Ashley, Candice & Cassie
Dear Kay & family
We can not imagine what you are going through. All we can do is tell you we will pray for you and we are very sorry to hear of your loss. You have been on our minds since we first found out about Brandon. We love you CL Linda Fender
Hey, Meathead…I miss you !!! remember when we used to call you that, you were just alittle tot. I finally went through your wallet today. I found a thousand used Ingle’s gas cards…you know 3 cents on the gallon adds up, (you used to say). Arielle is having a rough time right now…she misses you when shes at school, then she comes home and everything here reminds her of the major loss of her WONDERFUL BROTHER, send an angel down to sit on her shoulder a couple of days, just to let her know you are O.K. I’m sad to say but by now I’m sure you and Alex Douglas are up there talking about old times. Give each other hugs and take care of each other. Arielle has decided to drive your truck… she wants to paint it just like your headstone (shiny black and a primered bed. Brandon, I LOVE and MISS you with all my heart…LOVE ALWAYS, Mama
I am very sorry for your loss. Brandon was a great guy that I had the pleasure to know. I send my condolences to the Taylor family and also to the friends of Brandon.
I met Brandon afew years ago while visiting my granddaughter Vera Lynn and family..I’ll always remember what a nice loving teenager he was at that time…Let perpetual light shine upon him and may he rest in peace..Joyce Jouron…p.o. box 347 Pahoa, Hawaii 96778
Hey buddy yesterday was your birthday…. but you already know that! Tuson grill wasn’t open, so we had to celebrate your birthday at your next favorite place… HARBOR INN, the whole crowd was there…we ate cookie cake and toasted you just like we did on your 20th and 21st birthday…you know your 3 year anniversary is coming up…JUNE 1st….I MISS YOU WITH ALL MY HEART…Arielle took you some balloons and flowers… after a few days I’ll get them and plant them at the tire..it’s still there–It will be forever WE ALL LOVE AND MISS!!! PS send down a little angel to sit on Arielle’s shoulder the next couple of weeks they will be especially hard for her..Daddy Kelly went to Charles’s on saturday he said he sure wish you were with him…I TOLD HIM YOU WERE…BRANDON, I LOVE YOU SO MUCH !!! LOVE ALWAYS MAMA
Rick, Vera, Ashley, Lexus, & all other family members of Brandon. We are very sorry to hear of this tragic accident. Brandon was a great person, and will be missed by all. Love, The Winnebergers.
Dear Kay, You will probally not remember me but I lived with Ricky for just a couple of months when your Brandon was around 5 years old. I have 3 boys of my own. I have known Ricky, Robert and the whole crowd since we were little kids in Haywood county. I was going thru a very hard time in my life when I meet your little boy. When I first saw Brandon I remember thinking that he was the image of his father and also thinking that Ricky could not be a Daddy (you and I both know why.)Then I meet you and Kelly and spent sometime at your house one day and I knew then why Brandon was such an exceptional boy. He had a wonderful Mother and Daddy (Kelly) that loved him and took care of him and taught him the values in life that were important. I have not seen any of you since then. I got away from the bad things and the bad people and I raised my boys. I can proudly say that all 3 of my boys are wonderful people and sometimes I remember the things you said to me that day at your house and I know that you helped set me on the right track. You let me know that putting your children first was the best thing to do. Thank you for that. I want you to know that you were a wonderful mother to Brandon and that you also got away from the bad things and the bad people and put your child first. Always know in your heart that Brandon was the kind, loving , great man that you gave him the reason to be. I also have a boy named Brandon and he sends his love and prayers as do Justin and Jacob, I will pray for your sorrow and for GOD to give you the strength that you will need to go on. Remember that your sweet little girl is there to love you. Once again thank you for everything you did for me even though you did not ever know you did it. Thank you again for bringing up such a wonderful, loving , caring young man as Brandon was and always will be. That came from you and Kelly and no one else. Be proud of that. In Loving Memory, Angie
Kay, Kelly and Arielle, Brandon , Justin and Jacob Lowery send their prayers,love,support. They knew Brandon when they were little. They have’nt seen him in years but this has hurt their hearts. In Loving Memory, The Lowery Family
we are saddened to hear of your sons death. our thoughts and prayers are wiyh you and your family.
Charles Edwards andLisa Shuller
I just dont know any words to say when such a tragedy like this happens. I am so sorry for your loss. May God be with your family & give you strength each day.
Hey Buddy Happy Happy Birthday
I left you a birthday message yesterday but it didn’t show up, so here we go again….we had your birthday dinner up at Pop-Pops on Sunday…we had collards, your favorite! I ate a big bowl for you.
We all miss you so very very much.Remember Mrs.Beth (your tutor) she left you a birthday card at the headstone. She is working at Valley Springs and says you can just imagine you running up and down the hallways. Arielle is going through some medical stuff so send down an angel to comfort her alittle. I’m at work so got to get busy…I LOVE YOU SO MUCH AND MISS YOU EVEN MORE !!!
LOVE MAMA
Hey buddy it’s exactly 1:20 pm on June 1st….4 years ago today at this very moment you were taken from us. We miss you so very much !!! Not a day goes by that I don’t talk to you. Crazy thing is you don’t answer me back. We are having your famous celebration hotdog get-together today just like always. I’ll eat one for you. Brandon, I love you so very much, and I miss you so badly.
With all my love, Mama
Wow, its been almost 7 yrs, I haven’t wrote in such a long time, but there’s not a day goes by that I don’t think of you! I wish so much you could see Hayden! He is 4a now and we are waiting for our second boy, I’m due in 2 weeks, I was hoping to have him on your birthday but I don’t think he can wait that long lol. Were naming him Silas Matthew owenby, Matthew after his daddy. You to would love matt Brandon, he treats me so good and is a great dad! I miss you so much, I can’t tell you how many times I have wished you were here to help me through so much! We moved to Fairview right down the road from where you wrecked, I use to go sit there alot when I was upset after we moved out here, I felt like you were there with me when I went! But it just to got hard to take in so I just sit at home and think of you and our memories instead. You were the bestest (is that a word lol) friend I could have ever asked for! You always new how to put a smile on my face 🙂 I love you 🙂
9 years now.. It doesn’t get any easier coming to this page.. Seeing your picture next to the words obituary. I would give anything to hear you, see you.. I have a daughter now. Makes my third. You would love her! I miss you. More then words can say. Until we meet again!
Wow it’s December 23rd and I’m not sure what compelled me to be here. Reading back I cannot believe it’s been almost ten years. To see that Alex posted a short comment nearly four years after you left is heart wrenching. I know you both are now in a place where their is only joy, love and peace. I just hate that Alex silently suffered and held in his pain alone for so long after losing his big brother. I know you both wish we wouldn’t shed tears for you two amazing young men. But, we are still living in the flesh and cannot help but miss your beautiful hearts, faces and love. I asked you on August 26, 2012 ( to be exact) to please watch over my boy. And that you did. I’m so glad you were there to welcome him home just a few months later. I love you boys so very much and while I miss your being here with us, I know you are in a place no parent could even begin to imagine or provide their child. You two behave up there. I know in the deepest depths of my soul you are both guardian angels of many. So don’t get ‘grounded’ we all need you both, wings intact.
Merry Christmas Boys.
Thank you Lord for your unimaginable sacrifice’s that are the reason we celebrate this blessed season and day. Without Jesus, there would only be sorrow filled, empty hearts void of the overwhelming gratitude for your grace and love. I am eternally thankful for the blood that covered our sin and gave Brandon and Alex a place in eternal life with you. And I pray, Father, that when it is my turn to join them that I have shown my gratefulness by achieving YOUR purpose for my life here in the flesh. These things I pray in Jesus’ most holy name, Amen.
Hey brother I miss you every day. It’s been over 12 years since I found out my brother from another mother was gone and in those 12+ years I still haven’t had forgotten about you. All the crazy things we did together and we never got hurt. I still remember you jokingly saying it was my fault when you broke your ankle riding bmx. Vacant lot and all the craziness that went down let’s not get started about Patton avenue. I think about you every day and it still hurts being without you. I love you Brandon
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