Dr. Diane Baer Wilson

diane wilson

February 10, 1949 ~ June 7, 2022

Born in: Flint, MI
Resided in: Fletcher, NC

Diane B. Wilson, Ed.D, dancer, professor, health researcher, fashionista, mother, grandmother, fiancée and dear friend to many, passed away from complications after hip fracture surgery on June 7, 2022 in Asheville, North Carolina.

Diane is survived by her beloved daughters Robin (Oakland, CA) and April, April’s partner Kyle Allen, grandson Henry Allen Wilson (all of Asheville, NC), her sister Sue Baer, niece Megan Cruz, great-niece Elizabeth Tenyah (all of Nyack, NY), her devoted fiancé, Don Jordan (Glen Allen, VA), and countless friends.

Diane was born in Flint, MI and moved with her family to Westfield, NJ in high school. A lifelong learner, Diane earned degrees from the University of Delaware, Louisiana State University, and the University of South Carolina. She was dedicated to her education, earning her doctorate while working, caring for two young children, and commuting two hours each way for her coursework.

Diane spent much of her adult life in her favorite place, Charleston, SC, where she raised her daughters and always had room for the fried chicken dinner at Magnolia’s. She loved weekend dancing with friends at the Radisson, and was an active member of the Unitarian Church of Charleston and founder of their Women’s Support Group. Diane moved to Richmond, VA in 2001 for a new job, where she adopted Charlotte the cat, got engaged, and was active in The First Unitarian Universalist Church. She continued dancing in Richmond, with her fiancé at Rigby’s Jig and as a featured dancer in the “Dancing with The Richmond Stars” fundraisers.

Diane’s career was spent as a public health and cancer prevention professor and researcher. She held faculty positions at Louisiana State University, College of Charleston, Medical University of South Carolina, and the Medical College of Virginia. Select awards include: Developing Scholar of the Year Award from the College of Health Professions at MUSC (1995), the Primary Care Policy Fellowship from the US Department of Health and Human Services (1998), and the award for Outstanding Service in the Fight Against Breast Cancer from the Virginia Breast Cancer Foundation (2010).

Diane was a member of the Phi Delta Kappa National Honor Society, a Board member for the Primary Care Policy Fellowship Society (99-01), and a Board member for the Oncology Nutrition Practice Group (2001-2003), among numerous other board positions and memberships to professional organizations.

One of the remarkable things about Diane was her ability to make lasting friendships, staying close to her best friend from kindergarten, neighbors, mothers she met at her daughter’s dance classes, former colleagues, and residents and their families while in assisted care. She developed a close connection with a group of women she met in her Richmond church – the “UU Sisters” – and loved spending weekends on the river with her sister-friends.

While the Primary Progressive Aphasia she experienced in the last several years diminished her ability to speak, it never impaired Diane’s sense of humor or ability to charm (and flirt). She endeared herself to her wonderful caregivers and co-residents of Somerby of Mount Pleasant, Harmony at Reynold’s Mountain, and Silverbell Homestead.

Her daughters are grateful for the fact that she never forgot her friends or family and are incredibly proud of how hard she fought her illness.

On her last day, Diane opened her eyes briefly, held hands with April and Robin, and danced with them both.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the PPA Research and Education Fund in the Mesulam Center for Cognitive Neurology and Alzheimer’s Disease at the Northwestern School of Medicine. Mailing address: Mesulam Center’s PPA Research and Education Fund, c/o Northwestern University Feinberg School of Medicine, 420 E. Superior Street, 9th Floor, Chicago, IL 60611 If donors wish to make a credit card donation by phone, they may do so by calling 312-503-8933 and referencing the name of whom they are honoring.

One of the things for which Diane will be most remembered is her love of music and dancing. Her daughters have compiled a list of songs that Diane loved and which hold special family memories that they hope you will enjoy when you remember Diane. https://open.spotify.com/user/robinewilson/playlist/3gm650mJX6CCwHMxlxP8Tn.

Memorial services will be held for Dr. Wilson’s friends and family in Richmond, VA, and in Charleston, SC. The first will take place on Saturday, August 6, at 11:00 a.m. at the First Unitarian Universalist Church, 1000 Blanton Ave., Richmond, VA 23221. Street parking is available.

A week later on Saturday, August 13, at 10:00 a.m., a service will be held at the Unitarian Church in Charleston, 4 Archdale St., Charleston, SC 29401. Parking is available at the the Queen Street parking garage (93 Queen St) and Majestic Square (corner of Archdale and Market streets). Each cost $1/half hour and accept either cash or credit card. For those who can’t attend in person, the service will be livestreamed at: https://www.charlestonuu.org/nonchurch-event-streaming Note: the link will only be available as the service is happening, as it is not being recorded.

Services

Memorial Service: August 6, 2022 11:00 am

First Unitarian Universalist Church, Richmond
1000 Blanton Ave.
Richmond, VA 23221

(804) 355-0777

Memorial Service: August 13, 2022 10:00 am

Unitarian Church in Charleston
4 Archdale St.
Charleston, SC 29401

(843) 723-4617

Funeral Home Assisting The Family:

Groce Funeral Home - Patton Ave.
1401 Patton Ave.
Asheville, NC 28806

(828)252-3535
http://www.grocefuneralhome.com

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  1. Diane lit up Silverbell with a constant bright smile. I always looked forward to her greeting. I’m sorry for you all for her loss.

  2. I will truly miss Diane. She was such a joy to spend time with at Silverbell. Although her speech may have been impaired, her facial expressions and body language told it all. She was SOOO sweet. My condolences to you April and Robin, and to those who knew this beautiful lady.

  3. Robin,
    I am sorry for the loss of your mother. I have fond memories of you as a fourth grader at Fishburne Elementary and of her as an involved supportive parent. May God’s peace surround you as you mourn her and may your many happy memories comfort you.

  4. Diane was a sweet, loving, kind person. We met in Mrs. Lane’s kindergarten class at Northwood school in Royal Oak, Michigan. The next six years of elementary school we were in the same class, friends for life. Your mom loved you girls so and in writing me in later years, she was so proud of your accomplishments. Savor the memories as I will cherish mine. Love you Diane. 💕

  5. We had so many Noyle family dinners and gatherings in both Flint and Royal Oak, MI. I am Lynne Anderson Ruth, one of the many “Noyle” cousins and we sure had many good times together in our growing up years. She was one of the younger ones and close to my sisters, Lee Ann Anderson King and Laurie Anderson Horn. Many, many years have passed, but seeing her picture here I would have known her immediately in a huge crowd. My thoughts a prayers are with Sue and all the rest of Diane’s family.

  6. My heartfelt condolences to the family and friends of Diane Wilson. I know this is a difficult time and I pray God continues to comfort and strengthen the family during this time of bereavement. May the many loving, cherished, and fond memories of Diane continue to comfort her family and friends. A comforting promise is stated at Isaiah 25:8 “He will swallow up death forever, and the Sovereign Lord Jehovah will wipe away the tears from all faces.” May you all have calming and pleasant thoughts during this time.

  7. Dear ones who loved Diane,
    She and I worked together on several things during her last decade at First U U Church of Richmond. She was truly intentional and amazing to work with.
    Sending love to all,
    Carol Wayne

  8. Dearest April, Robin, and all of Diane’s family and friends,

    Diane and I spent many wonderful times together when she moved to Richmond. As “UU Sisters” we enjoyed such happy times together sharing a deep friendship amongst the eight of us. As members of First UU, and fellow health care practitioner/researcher, we met for many a lunch in the MCV (VCU Health Care System) hospital cafeteria, discussing our professions with their joys and concerns, as well as the usual love life issues…bringing us much laughter and many smiles. I’ve missed our friendship for the last several years, and must send my dearest condolences to all who loved her, as we will all continue to grieve her absence.

  9. Diane and I met when we both worked at VCU/MCV and also enjoyed being First UUs in Richmond together. I remember that whenever we talked, there was a lot of laughter and I remember her with a beautiful smile on her face. Her daughters brought a lot of joy to her life! Sending love to April and Robin and her other family and friends.


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