"J. Ray" Elingburg

Asheville, NC-James Ray “J. Ray” Elingburg, 80, passed away on February 24, 2020 at the John F. Keever, Jr. Solace Center (Hospice) from complications of diabetes.

Born on March 16, 1939, and a native of Buncombe County, Ray was the son of the late Raymond Dalton and Mary Ann Gregory Elingburg. He was preceded in death by his wife, Roberta “Dolly” Straine Elingburg of 46 years who passed in 2009. He was also preceded in death by his brothers Charles L. Elingburg, Carroll S. Elingburg, Robert Louis Elingburg, and Raymond Dalton “Ted” Elingburg and sisters; Anne Morgan and Shannon Elingburg Capps.

He is survived by two daughters, Julie Elingburg Gifford of Seneca, SC and Jennifer Elingburg (Lewis Sprouse) of Hendersonville, NC; one granddaughter, Sabrina Gifford Simmons (David); grandson, Richard Lee Gifford II (Leslie) and step grandson, Jacob D. Sprouse; four great granddaughters; and many wonderful nieces and nephews.

He is also survived by brothers: Jack Earl Elingburg, John Thomas “Tommy” Elingburg, and William Richard “Rick” Elingburg (Jan) and a sister: Shelia Elingburg (Robert Maxwell), sister-in-laws: Mary Ruth Elingburg and Karen Lane.

Ray graduated from Valley Springs High School (now known as T.C. Roberson) in 1957 where he played basketball and baseball. He also played with his brothers on the Elingburg Family basketball team, which was coached by their Dad and raised money for Skyland-based charities.

Ray entered the U.S. Army in 1959 and served one year stateside and almost 3 years in Germany.

As class President at Asheville Biltmore College (UNC-Asheville) he graduated with his Bachelor’s Degree in History and with his Teacher’s Certification in 1966, the first class to graduate as the college’s newly accredited 4 year college status. Ray later achieved his Masters Degree in Secondary School Administration from Western Carolina University in 1971. He also played college basketball and baseball, and coached J.V. Basketball at Asheville Biltmore College.

Upon completion of his Bachelor’s in 1966, Ray became a History teacher and basketball coach at A.C. Reynolds High School. In 1968, he became the Vice Principal for the high school.

In 1970, Ray ran on the Democratic ticket and won the Buncombe County Clerk of Court position while he finished the last year of his Master’s Degree. He was elected for 5 consecutive 4-year terms until he retired in 1990.

Then he was appointed by the county manager to head a study and implementation for a new county jail, which lasted about 3 years. Next, he was hired to oversee Buncombe County’s Child Support Office for 2 years. Following that position, Ray was hired as the interim Director of the Automated Criminal Justice Information System for 2 years. For the better part of the next 3 years, he headed the NC joint state/county Criminal Justice program- a “Re-entry” program to assist criminals back into society and the workforce.

Then he “retired” again and volunteered at the local Habitat for Humanity. After his wife Dolly passed in 2009, Ray became a visiting home Hospice volunteer for Care Partners. Being a proud UNC-Asheville Bulldog, Ray was a contributor and instrumental in making the Kimmel Arena a reality for the basketball program.

Proudly, he served 19 years on the A-B Technical College Board of Trustees from 1983 to 2002. He was subsequently elected to the Board of WNC Historical Association in Fall 2001, overseeing the Smith-McDowell House and Museum until 2008. He continued to be a day volunteer for Smith-McDowell House and has been an integral part of WNC Historical Association’s fund raising for a history museum and the Civil War Trails program.

His lifelong dream to research and publish his Elingburg family history led him to volunteering at Old Buncombe County Genealogical Society & Library (OBCGS) in 2003 when it was a small room at the Innsbruck Mall. He served on their Board as Public Relations Coordinator from then was elected 2nd Vice President of the Ways and Means Committee in 2008. His tireless campaigning to raise money to relocate the operation to a larger site resulted in their current location at the old Square-D plant on Bingham Road in Asheville. He loved his days volunteering there helping others research their family history while using the resources to work on his own.

J. Ray was known for his witty sense of humor and being a practical jokester. He loved spending time with his family, traveling, dancing with Dolly, sporting events, reading his Asheville Citizen Times newspaper every day, and endearing to him was going to lunch with his buddies “the lunch bunch”. He was a long time, active member of Jubilee! Community Church. J. Ray’s life was made complete by his love for helping others.

“We regret due to current state event restrictions, the Reflection of Life Service has been cancelled at this time.”

Ray was honored in a private ceremony on March 2 at the chapel/graveside of the Western Carolina State Veterans Cemetery in Black Mountain, NC.

In lieu of flowers, Ray’s request was for memorial donations to be made to Old Buncombe County Genealogical Society (OBCGS) PO Box 2122, Asheville NC 28802 or online at https://www.obcgs.com/

Services

Funeral Home Assisting The Family:

Groce Funeral Home at Lake Julian
72 Long Shoals Road
Arden, NC 28704

(828)687-3530
http://www.grocefuneralhome.com

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The family greatly appreciates donations made to these charities in "J. Ray" Elingburg 's name.

Old Buncombe County Genealogical Society

PO Box 2122
Asheville, NC 28802

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  1. My sincere condolences to the Elingburg Family. Ray was truly an Asheville treasure!
    Annette Coleman
    Enka NC

  2. Julie and Jennifer.
    Words cannot express how much I loved your dad and the kind and funny personality he had. He always made me feel good about myself and i learned so much from him. He loved life and helping others was something the he lived for everyday. I know we will all miss him dearly but I know he is dancing the streets of gold with the love of his life Dolly. My thought and prayers are with you. Love, Mona

  3. Great memories of Coach Elingburg at AC Reynolds. He had a lot of good influence on the students. Thoughts to the family.

  4. Your Dad was one of “Old Asheville’s” finest men. His service to his community, friends, and family will always be remembered. He and Dad are having a good time in Heaven, I just know it! We’ll see them again one day.

  5. Jennifer and Julie my sincere condolences to the family. Working for your dad in the Clerks Office was a pleasure. I thank him everyday for believing in me. I send you my love and prayers. May he Rest Peacefully in the arms of Jesus.

  6. Julie and Jennifer prayers for you both, as well as your entire family. Remembering your dad with love and respect. He truly was “one of a kind”.
    May your dad “Rest In Peace” as he spends eternity with your mom and Jesus Christ our Lord and Savior.

  7. J. Ray and my Dad, the late Francis Huntley (Principal at Reynolds High School in the late 60s) were close friends and educators. I knew Ray from my years at UNC-A about the same time when I was completing my degree there. Ray was such a giving person and made a difference in everything he did. This is a great loss for the community. We rarely see someone like Ray come along and do so much good in so many areas. To his family and many friends my deepest sympathy. Eternal rest, Ray. You left your mark on us all. Gerry Huntley (Reynolds High 1965 / UNC-A 1968). gerryh1947@yahoo.com

  8. RIP friend! What a quality human being and friend to all! So proud to call him a friend! God bless & strengthen the family.

  9. I love you man, very sad you have moved on – I will always cherish you. You never judged me, only there for me – along with your wonderful family…thanks for looking past my bruised exterior! Because of you dear sir, I did make it out –

  10. Love and prayers for the Elingburg family, what a tremendous loss. I had the honor of being mentored by J Ray when I “volunteered” at the courthouse in my teens-his words stuck with me more than anyone and I am forever grateful and will never forget.

  11. Dear Family, Have known your Dad since he did student teaching at ACR, when he and I were passengers many days riding with another teacher in a Volkswagen riding to ACR, and I can hear Ray saying, “Jake, we need to hold our arms out the window and we could fly.” He was in the front seat and I was in the back, and Tomi Goosman was the driver. He was hired to be a social studies teacher, and I must say he was fantastic at the job of teaching and coaching and being a mentor to our students. Then he was hired to be an assistant principal, again he was very effective and such a good person for this position. He wanted to become involved though in politics, so he ran for Clerk of Court and was
    elected and served the people in this position many terms. No matter where you saw him he always had a kind word and a smile on his face. He was loved and admired by so many people. He loved his girls and his wife, Dolly. Prayers that God will give the family, Peace, Grace and Comfort in the coming days, weeks and months as they face life without this gentle giant of a man.
    Love in Christ,

  12. Ray was faithful to all his loves: family, church and community. The Biltmore park community loved seeing Ray around and about and cherishing his independence in living. His long time seat at the back of jubilee church setting ,where he was most Sundays and his pre church brunch at the Hilton will bring many memories. We treasure Ray’s life and contributions.

  13. My Heartfelt condolences to The Elingburg Family. I enjoyed my time serving on several boards with Ray.
    He was special to all that knew him.

  14. Sheila and family, I am so sorry for you loss. Please know I thought highly of Ray. You all are in my thoughts and prayers during this time of sadness, and I know you all will miss him greatly. However, Ray was a special person for representing Asheville and Buncombe County.

  15. Fond memories fill my sad heart today, since having known Ray since our years of classes together at Valley Springs H.S. He was a kind gentleman with a remarkable legacy, and one who will be missed by so many. All my prayers and love to his family. Rest In Peace, Ray…

  16. My condolences to the family! I remember Jennifer wearing her dad’s Re-election button She was so Proud of him!

  17. Our hearts are so saddened to hear of Ray’s passing. Please accept our most heartfelt condolences. We wish you hope for peace and comfort in the coming days.

  18. In his retirement years, Ray Elingburg was an active participant of the Old Buncombe County Genealogical Society. And when the Society outgrew its quarters in the Innsbruck mall, after intensive effort which included a choice of buying or renting, Ray finally located affordable rental property at Square D in northwest Asheville. As it turns out, his directing of moving of thousands of books, dozens of large filing cabinets, strings of bookcases, not once but twice [and overturning a large moving truck in the process] was a notable experience. But with the assistance of ten or fifteen other volunteers, including myself, the job was well done. We wish Ray the best in his new venture – may he finally rest in peace.

  19. I thought your daddy was the sweetest man ! Always so kind and always was smiling every time I ever saw him !! I know you will all miss him so much !
    I’m so sorry julie and Jennifer…and all the rest of the family that loved him …you are all in my prayers …and my thoughts ! I’m sooo glad I had the pleasure of knowing him 💕

  20. My thoughts and prayers go to Ray’s family. Enjoyed working with him in recent years on the Museum of Western North Carolina project.

  21. Sorry to hear of the passing of Ray, a dear friend of my dad who passed away in 1998 & our family! He had a beautiful smile & was very well thought of in Asheville! Ray you are now with your beautiful sweet wife Dolly & home no longer suffering with your Diabetics, RIP! Lifting up the Elingburg Family in our Thoughts & Prayers!

  22. to the elingburg family. my deepest sympathies from the silvey and funderud families as our times growing up on atkins st and lance lane.

  23. I am very saddened to hear of the great loss of Ray. He was a longtime friend, colleague and mentor. He will be missed by many. I send my deepest sympathy to all of Ray’s family.

    Ruth Williams, Retired Clerk of Superior Court, McDowell County

  24. I was so sad to hear of the loss Of Clerk Elingburg. I remember him from my early years in the Clerk of Court’s office. He will be missed.

    Diane Cornett Deal
    Watauga County Clerk of Court

  25. In sympathy to all of you; your daddy was always kind and dear to me as an employee of A-B Tech when he was on the Board. I remember him so fondly.


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