Jason Patrick Quinn
September 5, 1973 ~ January 5, 2001
Resided in:
Candler, NC
Jason Patrick Quinn, 27, of 280 Ridge Road, Candler, died Friday, January 5, 2001 at his residence.
A native of Orlando, FL, Jason has been a residence of Buncombe County for the past 7 years and was employed as Area Manager with Home Depot. He was the son of Kevin B. and Barbara McCluskey Quinn of Winter Springs, Fl.
In addition to his parents, he is survived by his wife, Agnes Jablonska Quinn; a daughter, Rachel Catherine Quinn both of the home; paternal
grandfather, Glenn P. Quinn, Jr. of Winter Springs, FL; paternal great-grandparents, Glenn P. and Orpha Quinn Sr. of Charles Town, West Virginia; paternal great-grandparents, Arnold and Vera Michlik of Binghamton, NY; maternal
grandmother, Margaret McCluskey of Orlando, FL; mother-in-law, Danuta Jablonska of Altamonte Springs, FL; and brother-in-law, Andy Jablonski of Altamonte Springs, Fl.
A memorial service will be held 2:00 p.m. Tuesday in the Patton Avenue Chapel of Groce Funeral Home with Reverend Dennis Thurman will officiating.
His family will receive friends 7-8:30 Monday at the funeral home.
The family request that in lieu of flowers, memorials be made to the Children’s Miracle Network, 4525 South 2300 East, Salt Lake City, Utah, 84117.
You are all in our prayers and thoughts every moment. We love you.
Dear Agnes & Rachel,
We’ve spent many happy times with you and Jason, and we will miss him very much. We hope to see you again after you go to Florida, but we know it is best for you to be around family now. Please take care of each other and know that you are loved by many.
Love,
Kristine, Herb, Katie & Anna
Kevin and Barb,
Sorry to hear of your loss.
If there’s anything you need we are not very far away. Again very deep felt sympathy for Jason’s wife and daughter.
Love,
Terry and Pat
To all that loved and were loved by you we will all miss you with all of our hearts.May God be with you and your Family in this time of sorrow and grief. We will love you and remember you forever.
Love,
The Council Family
Becky,Brad,Kanyon
Barbara & Kevin,
Our deepest sypathy to you and your family. May God be with you in your time of need. We will continue to pray for you every day. And if you need us we will always be here for you.
Agnes & Rachel,
God will be there for you to lean on whenever you may need him and so will we. You are our family and we love you. Deepest sypathy for your loss.
With Sympathy,
Debbie, Tony, Jennifer & Krystal
He designed our kitchen cabinets. He was such a nice young man and so helpful. My prayers go out to his family and co-workers.
An online memorial – Jason would have approved. This is the perfect venue to post some thoughts to family & friends.
Try to picture Jason without a smile. You can’t,can you? The image just doesn’t take. As a 35 year old associate, I often admired the ambition of this 27 year old manager. Current events nonwithstanding, this guy was together! By the young age of 24, he had built a strong family, career and stock portfolio. You should have seen his personalized start up page on Yahoo – it was a masterpiece of organization. In my four years of working with him, I never once saw him down, negative or critical of anybody or anything. Could that have been the problem? Men do internalize stress. Shy ones more than most. Or perhaps,if your just ‘stuck in a moment you can’t get out of’ you can’t see how much beauty tommorrow holds. Whatever it was, we are not to know. Bottom line,we are all islands – some of us feel more cast away than others. The fact is, Jason was not alone. In all the years I knew him, not once did he talk to anyone with disrespect. Remember his hushed tone choosing words with care and precision? To supervise without offending anyone is nearly impossible. Jason pulled it off.
Last March, Jason and I spent 80 hours as reach truck partners receiving two million in freight for the Hendersonville store. Having many things in common, we could read each other’s mind silently communicating logistics. I will miss this mind link. I never read suicide in our link. Not for a second in four years.
As I look at my own six year old daughter, I want to help/comfort Rachel. Yet, anything I could say to Jason’s family would be trite words from a stranger in a very awkward situation. It’s hard to say anything at a visitation or funeral without putting your foot in your mouth. It’s all so surreal. All I can do is offer my Email to friends and family for comments or counselling. Search the web for support under keywords ‘grief’ or ‘suicide survivor’ and you’ll find years of assistance. Some of the best sites are:
Grief Net – http://rivendell.org/
Survivors of Suicide –
http://www.thewebpager.com/sos
Online Resources for Survivors of Suicide-
http://www.main.org/sos/links.html/
My love to the departed and the survivors – because we are survivors in this wonderous dance of life.
Chris Nevel