Jay Gilbert Innes
January 19, 1958 ~ July 18, 2013
Resided in:
Arden, NC
Asheville Butterfly Trail
Jay Gilbert Innes
Arden- Jay Gilbert Innes, 55, of Arden, died unexpectedly Thursday, July 18, 2013.
A native and life long resident of Buncombe County, he was a son of Donna Mae Eberding Innes of Asheville and of the late Dr. John Lael Innes.
Jay was a very loving son, husband, father and grandfather who will be greatly missed by all that knew him.
In addition to his mother, he is survived by his wife of 32 years, Vicki Bradshaw Innes; one daughter, Julie Innes of Hendersonville; one son, John Innes of Arden; two sisters, Coral Jefferies of Asheville and Sue Hall of Ohio; one brother, Mark Innes of Asheville and one granddaughter, Isabelle Innes of Arden.
A graveside service will be held at 11:00 AM Monday, July 22, 2013 at Calvary Churchyard in Fletcher. The family will receive friends from 6:00-8:00 PM Sunday, July 21, 2013 at Groce Funeral Home at Lake Julian.
The family graciously asks that in lieu of flowers to please consider making a donation in Jay's memory to either Charlie's Angels Animal Rescue (wncanimalrescue.org), New City Christian School (newcitychristian.org) or to a charity of one's choice.
The obit just came thru my email & I’m in shock! I feel like I’ve lost my dearest & oldest friend & brother! We didn’t keep in touch, unfortunately, but we had fun growing up 2 doors away! You’re all in my prayers & he will sure be missed!
God Bless!
While Jay was a man of few words, his expressions said a lot! His mischievous smile always kept me guessing as to what he was about to say or do.
We have lost one good man and he will be missed by everyone that knew him.
Vicki, I am so sorry to hear of Jay’s passing. You are very much in my thoughts and prayers.Remember Isaiah 26:3.
We will remember Jay as a man wholly devoted to his family. Quiet, strong and humble best describe his attributes. We loved him, Vicky, Julie ,John & Isabelle. May you all find peace in his memory. LOVE YA MUCH!!!!
Vicki, Julie, John, and Isabelle, I am so very sorry for the loss of a great man. Jay was always so nice to me and I know he loved his family very much. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this trying time. Love and prayers, Robin.
Sorry for your loss, Jay will be missed more than words can tell!
I pray that God will comfort you and your family in this time of bereavement; and that He will fill your heart and thoughts with good memories of your life with Jay!!
It’s hard now but thank of that Great reunion we will have one day when God calls all His children home!!
Love Danny and Adeline
Vicki, Just a little note to let you know my prayers will be with you and your family during this difficult time. So sorry for your loss.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you as you deal with this unexpected loss. Jay will be remembered for his quiet, calming influence and his love of his family. May God give you comfort and peace.
Vicki and Mark, so sorry to hear of Jay’s passing. You have my condolences.
Just a not to say how sorry for the loss of your husband Ms. Vicki. May God give you the strength that you need to walk through this…and surround you with people who love you…..remembering the Kmart (3253) days and your smiles….you were a trooper then and you still are…just keep looking to God, He will hold your hand all the way through this…..
Just a not to say how sorry for the loss of your husband Ms. Vicki. May God give you the strength that you need to walk through this…and surround you with people who love you…..remembering the Kmart (3253) days and your smiles….you were a trooper then and you still are…just keep looking to God, He will hold your hand all the way through this…..
My thoughts, prayers, and love are with you all! Jay always showed Adison and I complete kindness, he will be greatly missed.
Vicki, Doug and I are so sorry to hear about Jay. What a sad time for you and the kids. You are in our prayers.
Vicki, Doug and I are so sorry to hear about Jay. What a sad time for you and the kids. You are in our prayers.
Vicki, Doug and I are so sorry to hear about Jay. What a sad time for you and the kids. You are in our prayers.
I am so sorry for the loss of your loved one, Jay. You are in my prayers for comfort and peace as you move forward. Love you all.
Our deepest sympathy to the family. May God bless you all and give you His comfort.
My thoughts, prayers, and love are with you all! Jay always showed Adison and I complete kindness, he will be greatly missed.
Dear Vicki, Julie, John,
I was so shocked when I saw Jay’s obituary on F/B this morning. I don’t know what to say, except I am so very sad to hear of his sudden passing and your tragic loss. Since meeting him at WCU with you, Vicki, and spending so much time together those early years – Dale and I – you and Jay, inseparable, I remember many good times together. I remember him always the same quiet, kind, dependable rock of a man, who loved you and his children without question. He was a wonderful husband, father and grandfather, and I know he was proud of his family and each of your accomplishments. We pray for God’s grace for you, Julie, John, and those who loved and knew Jay best. I wish we could be there for you, today Vicki, to give you some small comfort. Our hearts are so heavy, and our prayers go up for you all in the days and weeks to follow. Our sincerest condolences…the Anderson’s – Dale, Deborah, Brian, and Lauren
Vicki and Family So sorry to hear about Jay passing. My thoughts are for you and your family. Perry Gasperson
Jay was always so welcoming and kind. I will miss him very much and I am terribly sorry for your loss. I am praying daily for you and yours. Remember that we do not mourn as those who have no hope because we know we will be together again where there are no more tears and no more nights of sorrow. God bless you.
I would like to send my condolences to you for your loss. I know this is a difficult time for your loved ones, but the bible gives us comfort in assuring us that one day sickness, pain and death will no more. (Revelations 21:3-4) The Bible also comforts us in knowing our loved ones are no longer suffering but are in a sleep-like state.(John 11:11-14, 23-26) I hope these scriptures will be encouraging for you and bring you comfort throughout your day.