Jeffrey Scott McVay

jeffrey mcvay

February 23, 1956 ~ November 4, 2020

Born in: Marietta, OH
Resided in: Swannanoa, NC

Jeffrey Scott McVay died Wednesday, Nov. 4, 2020, at his home in Swannanoa, N.C. A celebration of his life will be held at a later date.
Jeff was born Feb. 23, 1956, in Marietta, Ohio, to the late Richard E. McVay and Revanell (Dunn) McVay. He graduated from Findlay (Ohio) High School in 1974, from Bowling Green State University in 1979 and again in 1980 with a master’s in accounting. He began his financial career with Owens-Illinois, Inc. and Kayser-Roth, Inc., moving to Asheville, N.C., to become the controller of Beacon Manufacturing Co., Inc. He later worked for Community Care Partners, Roberts & Stevens P.A., Asheville Area Habitat for Humanity, International Home Fashions and The Fresh Market in Asheville.
Jeff enjoyed scouting as a youth. He began backpacking with his wife, the Rev. Sallyanne Irwin McVay, hiking and camping with immediate family, church family and friends. He was a former member of Findlay Masonic Lodge, many United Methodist church choirs and Asheville Symphony Chorus.
He is survived by his wife and two daughters, Caitlin McVay Stanton-Rich of Todd, N.C., and Corey Anne McVay of Asheville. Also surviving are his mother, Revanell, sister Rebecca Greeno of Findlay, Ohio, sister Mary Jo McVay of Reynoldsburg, Ohio, and several nieces and nephews.
In lieu of flowers, memorials may be sent to the Shriners Hospital for Children, Cincinnati Hospital, 3229 Burnet Ave. Cincinnati, OH 45229.

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Funeral Home Assisting The Family:

Groce Funeral Home - Patton Ave.
1401 Patton Ave.
Asheville, NC 28806

(828)252-3535
http://www.grocefuneralhome.com

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  1. Worked in the adjoining office with Jeff at Roberts & Stevens, P.A. Very nice person. I enjoyed working with him.

  2. We sang a lot of songs together over the years and shared many laughs and good times! The Groce UMC choir was always fun with Jeff around! Sally Anne, Caitlin, Corey and family- you are in our thoughts and prayers.
    Sing on key with the angels, old friend!

    • Jeff enjoyed singing with you, and I enjoyed listening. Thank you for the imagine of him singing with the angels.

  3. Such good memories of song, camping and laughs with Jeff. Very sorry…hugs and prayers to you all.

  4. So very sad to hear this news! Worked with and went to church with Jeff, what a great guy with a wonderful “can do” attitude, willing to help everyone! Our Prayers and Sympathies are with the family.
    God bless & strengthen you all.

  5. Dear Sallyanne and family,

    Know that our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.

    Chuck and Susan Wettergreen

  6. Sallyanne, Caitlin and Corey,

    I am so sad to hear of the death of Jeff. He was always so helpful to me when we worked together at Carepartners and more recently when we reconnected at the Fresh Market. We shared the successes of his children and my grandchildren as they traversed cross-county meets and the Youth Symphony. Safe journey Jeff and hugs to Sallyanne and the girls.

  7. SAllyanne and family. So sorry to hear about Jeff passing. Times are so sad for everyone with the pandemic and not able to spend time with family and friends. Prayers and love sent your way

  8. I’m so very sorry to hear this news. I worked with Jeff at CarePartners & always appreciated his kindness. Prayers for grace, peace and comfort to his loved ones.

  9. I sang with Jeff during his time with the Asheville Symphony Chorus. He was an asset to our group. Jeff will be sorely missed. My condolences to your family.

  10. I got to work with Jeffrey at the fresh market when he would come and help us out. He was so much fun to work with. He will be missed.

  11. I knew Jeff from Findlay Senior High. We both graduated in 1974 and were in the Findlay High School Band together. He was a good friend and very intelligent.

  12. Sending love and prayers to Jeffrey’s family. I worked with him at the Fresh Market, and he was always smiling and sharing stories. He will be missed.

  13. Jeff and I were officers for the campus ministry Active Christians Today at BGSU during the school year 1977-1978. We had fun times. I have recently been thinking about Jeff and a friend from ACT shared of his passing. He will always live with me through the memories from college.

  14. We were so sorry to hear of your husband’s passing, Sallyanne. I don’t know how you are managing to do so many things for Givens at this sad time. We appreciate all you do for so many of us and we want you to know that we are thinking of you at this sorrowful time.

  15. So sorry to learn of Jeff’s passing. I enjoyed being in a Sunday School class with Jeff at West Market Street UMC when he was in Greensboro. Prayers for Sallyanne and all of your family.

  16. Sallyanne,Family, and Friends, I share your grief in this sad loss. Jeff was always a force for good in my life and helped a lot in the district when I served as Superintendent. I appreciate the ways his spirit touched me and others in many positive ways.

  17. I was so sorry to learn of Jeff’s death! I sang with him in the Asheville Symphony Chorus! Please accept my prayers and condolences.

  18. Sallyanne, Caitlin and Corey,

    I was so sorry to read of Jeff’s passing. I knew that he had heart surgery not long ago. My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this time.

  19. My sincerest condolences to all in the family. Sallyanne has been a strong presence in my life at Givens. She is a beacon of light and love to all. I send prayers and well wishes during this time.

  20. Sallyanne, Caitlin, Corey,

    I’m so sad to hear of Jeff’s passing! My heart goes out to the three of you. Y’all will be my prayers. Jeff was one of so very few Blue Devil fans at Asbury Memorial I had to lean on for support each fall during basketball season. : (

  21. I just heard the news and am profoundly saddened. It was such a pleasure seeing Jeff occasionally around town since our kids have grown — his smile and friendly words always lifted me up. Corey, Sallyanne, and Caitlyn — you’ll all be in our thoughts and prayers.

  22. Sallyanne, Caitlyn and Corey,

    We are so saddened by your loss. Jeff was always a kind and pleasant face to meet. We’ll miss him and hope his memory will bring you comfort.

    Blessings,
    The Slosman Family

  23. The world lost a bright light with your passing. I looked forward to seeing you at Fresh Market and over the years, your kindness and smile brightened even the darkest of days when I was struggling or sad. I will always be grateful for your friendship and you will be remembered and missed. Sending prayers and peace to your family.

  24. I knew Jeffrey from shopping at The Fresh Market. I enjoyed our chats about family. I will miss those moments. My sympathies to his loved ones.

  25. I’m an “unknown person” who always looked for Jeff when I came to the Fresh Market because of his welcoming smile and our conversations; even though I am not acquainted with your family it was a joy to hear him tell about Corey. There are few people today who share goodness and gladness as he did with those who luckily crossed his path. I love the post who told him to sing with the angels – I’m so glad I heard his earthly song.

  26. We were very sorry to hear the news of Jeffrey’s passing. We enjoyed seeing him at The Fresh Market and he was a friend to our entire family. Always a kind word to our young children. I enjoyed chatting about sports and hearing updates on Corey & Caitlin. He spoke with such love and pride of his children. He will be missed greatly. Thoughts, prayers, and peace to your family.
    The Flink Family

  27. Dear Sallyanne, Caitlin and Corey,
    How Jeff loved knowing his families’ accomplishments, values and character were the best possible. I have to think he is still very proud of each of you. God bless each one of you.

  28. Hey, Caitlin,
    I forgot to mention how he loved your husband and was so happy for the two of you. We are too.


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