Mary Eveland Griffin

mary griffin

July 3, 1938 ~ November 12, 2024

Born in: Marlboro County, South Carolina
Resided in: Tryon, North Carolina

Mary Eveland Griffin, 86, of Tryon, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, November 12, 2024 at Mission Hospital. She was surrounded by her loved ones who had the opportunity to say goodbye.

A native of Asheville, Mary was born July 3, 1938. She was a daughter of the late Eugenia Brewster Monteith and Edward Thomas Traywick.

Mary grew up in Asheville and worked for the North Carolina Department of Transportation with the Human Resources Division. She represented the department and the state employees with professionalism and compassion, always striving for equality and fairness. She had an innate ability to help fellow employees as well as friends resolve the most complicated issues.

After retirement, her joy was to help others. She spent her time assisting friends and family with minor to the most complicated, complex problems with commitment and zeal. Her loyalty to all was beyond reproach.

Mary, known as “Me Me” to her family, leaves behind her beloved husband, Paul Royce Griffin; a step-son, Matthew Carlos Griffin; a brother, Edward Ethan Eveland and his partner, Karen Veazey as well as a niece, Lauren Martha Eveland and a nephew, Scott Edward Eveland. She is also survived by her former loving sister-in-law, Martha Macartney. Mary loved all of her family with an incomprehensible, unimaginable amazing love.

A Celebration of Mary’s Life will be held at 11:00 AM on Saturday, December 7, 2024 at First Presbyterian Church, 40 Church Street, Asheville, NC 28801.

In lieu of flowers, Mary’s family graciously ask that a contribution in her memory be made to a charity of one’s choice.

Groce Funeral Home at Lake Julian is assisting the family.

Services

Celebration of Life: December 7, 2024 11:00 am

First Presbyterian Church
40 Church Street
Asheville, NC 28801


Funeral Home Assisting The Family:

Groce Funeral Home at Lake Julian
72 Long Shoals Road
Arden, NC 28704

(828)687-3530
http://www.grocefuneralhome.com

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  1. Such a sweet photo, I see the Lady that I remember for many years,,my cousin
    My prayers are with your Husband and Brother, – Eddie.
    I remember our good times at the diner after work. Trips shopping!!
    God Bless you Mary Nan

    Love Ya,
    Barbara Jean Monteath Buchanan

  2. She was always a very nice person to me , her entire family grew up with my family , she will truly be missed! Prayers for Paul he is a good man.

  3. My sweet Mary, I will miss our conversations, I will miss your excitement, I will miss your wisdom and encouragement. The world has lost a tremendous treasure. Rest in peace my friend. To Paul there are no words to take the pain of this loss to you, you are in my thoughts and prayers. Mary was one of a kind and I am grateful to have been her friend.

  4. Dear Mary:

    I really can’t explain what you meant to me. I deeply loved and miss you. I am very grateful for the time we had together; it was amazing and felt like a lifetime of friendship. I thank God for the opportunity to be available for you and I would do it again and again. Thank you for sharing your knowledge and God-given wisdom with me, Quentin, my friends, and family. Most of all, thank you for making Quentin and me a part of the Eveland-Griffin family.

    Love always,

  5. My Sweet Mary, your passing has left a huge void in our hearts. You were always there for us when we needed you the most, both you and Paul. We will miss you so very much. Love you always. Paul and Ed, you and your families are in our hearts and prayers. Much love to you both.

  6. Dearest Mary,
    I miss you very much. I am so honored to have known you. You thrived on helping others. It gave you so much joy. You were one of a kind! God Bless you on your way home to God. I know you will still be here helping us all out in spirit.


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