Richard "Rick" Douglas Phillips

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Richard Douglas “Rick” Phillips, 76, passed away peacefully Friday, December 4, at Asheville Specialty Hospital.

Rick was born April 24, 1944, in Syracuse, NY, to the late William A. and Dorothy Elizabeth Van Dyke Phillips. He received a bachelor’s degree in physics from the State University of New York at Plattsburgh where he met Joan Mary Kopyta. The two wed in 1966, shortly before graduating. Joan survives him after 54 years of marriage.

After graduation, Rick joined IBM in Poughkeepsie, NY, where he began a successful 28-year run with the company as a computer programmer. His career took him to Rochester, MN in 1975, where he and Joan lived and raised their family for the next 40 years. In 1982, IBM invited Rick to join a 14-month European assignment. The entire family moved just outside Portsmouth, England. When not working or going to school, the family enjoyed touring and cycling. Rick and Joan became involved in square dancing where they met wonderful, lifelong friends.

Noting the dawn of the Internet and taking advantage of an early retirement buyout opportunity, Rick left IBM in 1994 to launch Bismark Internet Services. With his expertise, commitment to excellence, and as one of the first Internet consulting and web hosting services firms in Minnesota, Bismark flourished, including securing a top 20 U.S. life insurance company as a long-term client. In 2009, Rick retired from his professional career.

A man of faith throughout his life, Rick’s belief in God was always present yet was estranged during his early-to-middle adult years. Later in life, a friend asked Rick to participate in the Walk to Emmaus spiritual renewal retreat during which he was inspired to reconcile with God. What followed was a spiritual journey that gained continuous momentum throughout the remainder of Rick’s life. At first, he began to study the bible and regularly attended church with Joan. Eventually, he re-enrolled in college and earned a second degree, a bachelor of theology, from Crossroads College in Rochester, MN, graduating as valedictorian in 2007.

Soon after graduation, Rick was appointed the pastor of two country parishes in Minnesota: Bethlehem United Methodist Church (UMC) in Hammond and Douglas UMC in Douglas. Rick continued to preach at both parishes until 2014. In addition to his work in these parishes, he taught bible study, and Rick and Joan were active in numerous community programs including a prison ministry, Walk to Emmaus, and leadership of Alpha programs where people discuss faith, life and God. Rick delivered his final sermon (at 41:34) entitled, Amazing Grace, to the parishioners at First Christian Church of Marion NC on October 25, 2020.

In 2015, Rick and Joan moved from Minnesota to Asheville where the mountains are similar to those of his youth. Rick and Joan enjoyed bluegrass culture, annual passes to the Biltmore estate, mountain drives with the top down in the 1956 Mercedes 190SL convertible he fully restored. He enjoyed taking classes at the University of North Carolina at Asheville’s Osher Lifelong Learning Institute and engagement with the local church community.

Above all else in his life was Rick’s intense dedication to family. He was completely committed to his marriage; to connecting with his children, grandchildren and extended family; and to doing whatever he could to ensure each was better off for having known and been loved by him.

In addition to Joan, Rick is survived by son Richard Douglas Phillips, Jr, (Kelly), daughter Deborah Joan Swanson and son William Charles Phillips (Amy). His ten grandchildren include: Adam Douglas Swanson, Andrea Dorothy Swanson, Matthew Richard Phillips, Megan Kelly Phillips, Shannon Deborah Swanson, Sarah Jean Swanson, Caitlin Anne Phillips, Erica Elizabeth Phillips, Emily Joy Phillips, and Garrett William Phillips. He was preceded in death by two sisters, Barbara Ann Phillips and Joan Crane. He is survived by his youngest sister, Kathryn Phillips-Duniho (Dan).

Mr. Phillips will lie in repose at Groce Funeral Home on Patton Avenue from 10:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m. Friday, December 18 and again from 10:00 a.m. to 3:00 p.m. Saturday, December 19, at which times friends may pay their respects and sign the register. Face masks and social distancing will be required.

A private family memorial service will be held at 5:00 p.m. Saturday, December 19. The service will be live streamed at Facebook.com/Grocefh for those unable to attend in person. A celebration of life ceremony will be scheduled summer 2021, exact date to be determined, for family members, loved ones, and friends who are unable or who feel unsafe to travel at this time.

Flowers are appreciated, or donations may be made to the Asheville Buncombe Community Christian Ministry, 20 Twentieth Street, Asheville, NC 28806. Online donations will be accepted.

Services

For those who wish to pay their respects: December 18, 2020 10:00 am - July 16, 2025 5:00 pm

Groce Funeral Home - Patton Ave.
1401 Patton Ave.
Asheville, NC 28806

(828)252-3535
http://www.grocefuneralhome.com

For those who wish to pay their respects: December 19, 2020 10:00 am - July 16, 2025 3:00 pm

Groce Funeral Home - Patton Ave.
1401 Patton Ave.
Asheville, NC 28806

(828)252-3535
http://www.grocefuneralhome.com

Private Service: December 19, 2020 5:00 pm

Groce Funeral Home - Patton Ave.
1401 Patton Ave.
Asheville, NC 28806

(828)252-3535
http://www.grocefuneralhome.com

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  1. Joan my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I was always grateful to you and Pastor for making me feel so welcome at the Hammond church. Pastor was so refreshing with his natural way of giving a sermon and keeping us interested. I really miss you guys and know that virtual hugs are coming your way. Please take care of yourself and let us know if there is anything we can do.

  2. We are so saddened to hear of Ricks passing. Rick lived his life with passion, passion for Christ, and passion to serve. We appreciated his leadership in ministry and his friendship. We are sending hugs and prayers for Joan and the family.

  3. All of you are in my thoughts and prayers. He was a kind and wonderful man. I met him the weekend of their 50th wedding anniversary and had numerous phone conversations with him after that. What a wonderful man with a wonderful family! God Bless all of you. Hugs, prayers and love to all of you.

  4. We’ll surely miss Rick’s quirky sense of humor and positive attitude. He set a good example for Christian living. We were blessed to know him. May good memories ease the pain of loss that Joan and the family must be feeling.
    With deep sympathy,
    Lowery and Mary Ann Smith

  5. Joan,
    I always enjoyed being with you and Rick at church at Fellowship Asheville and Fellowship Weaverville. We are so very sorry for your loss and ask our Lord to give you peace and great joy as you reflect on your wonderful days with Rick and your family. Rick always brought smiles to my face as we would banter with one another and you always shined with a sparkle in your eyes. You both brought joy to my life. Thank you!

  6. We are heartbroken to get the news of Rick‘s passing. We met he and Joan when they first moved to Asheville and became very good friends with them. We loved spending time with them and hearing Rick’s funny comments and loved his contagious enthusiasm for life. He was very devoted to Joan and he shared his love for Christ with everyone he met. He was a wonderful human being and will certainly be missed. Much love and prayers Joanne and the family.

    Vivianand Bill Cheek

  7. I love u Joan so much. U and Rick were an amazing couple who showed me love and encouragement. I’m here for u and love u both. Blessings to y’all

  8. Love and prayers for u, Joan and all your family. I treasured our time together over the past several years 💕

  9. It was an honor to have served with Rick on more than one weekend. Rick had joy in his heart and was able to be an example to the pilgrims. I am really saddened at the news of his passing. My condolences goes out to hi family. I will always have wonderful memories of his service to God.

  10. I was one of the clergy present the weekend of Rick’s Emmaus pilgrim walk and remember it well. It is an amazing thing that God can do when we are ready to (re)open our hearts. Blessing Joan, you are in my prayers…As Always,

  11. As previously mentioned, a wonderful sense of humor comes to mind when thinking of Rick. Joan joined Song O’ Sky Chorus Sweet Adelines and Rick was an honorary member because he was part of every function we had. Joan and family, I am so sorry that you are dealing with this pain. May God wrap His arms around you even tighter to help you endure.

  12. Rick will be missed by many of us in the Blue Ridge Emmaus community. I am so saddened by his death and will be praying for Joan and their family during this very hard season.

  13. Rich, Matthew, and Family,

    My deepest condolences on the passing of your father and grandfather. I read his obituary. What a full and inspiring life! I wish I had known him.

    May he rest in eternal peace with our heavenly Father, and may you find comfort in your grief and recall with joy in the life that he led.

    Mark Meyer
    Montrose, CO

  14. Rich and family

    I was so sorry to hear of your fathers passing. My sincere condolences and hope 2021 brings you comfort and joy.

    All the best
    Mike Mayer
    Telluride CO

  15. Dear Rich and family,

    I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.

    Rona Seams
    Telluride, CO

  16. I have been privileged to know and work with descendants of Reverend Phillips — his son Rich and his grandson Matt. They have brought honor to the Phillips Household through the excellence of their professional work, their character, and their integrity. And after reading this obituary, I can see where they inherited some of his traits and valued integrity above the rest. His wife must be incredible,for Rich and Matt have also learned talents and character from Mrs. Phillips. Nobody could ask for more.

  17. We had the blessings of having you, Joan, and Rick to our home and getting to know him. He will certainly be missed. The two of you are very special to us….With love, Dennis and Beverly

  18. Enjoyed every moment I spent with Rick. He challenged me to ask questions about my faith that I most likely never would have asked. I will surely miss him.

  19. To Joan and your family,
    Sending prayers and consolation to all of you at this time. May the warmth of your shared memories curb the chill of your loss.

  20. To Rich and Family,
    You are all in my thoughts and prayers as you grieve the loss of your father, husband and grandfather.
    May you find comfort and peace in your memories and the gifts he left behind in each of you.
    Kathy Brown

  21. To Rich and family,
    You are all in my thoughts and prayers as you grieve the loss of your father, husband and grandfather. May you find comfort in your memories of Rick and in the gifts he left behind in each of you.
    Kathy Brown

  22. Russ, Kathy, Rusty and Patrick Stocker. We are saddened to have lost a good friend. We have great memories. We will never forget Rick and the good times we shared.

  23. Joan and family, We are so thankful for the opportunity to know Rick through the MN Emmaus Reunion Group. We pray that you will continue to find comfort in the many memories of your love for Rick and for the promises of his eternal life with Jesus. Love, Bill & Shirley Jackson, Mpls., MN

  24. Joan and family–please know that we are thinking of you at this difficult time. We have enjoyed knowing you all through the years. Our best wishes for the future.

    Emily and Hayden


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