Timothy Charles Milling

timothy milling

October 6, 1960 ~ October 13, 2025

Born in: Asheville, North Carolina
Resided in: Asheville, North Carolina

Timothy “Tim” Charles Milling, 65, of Troutdale, Virginia, died peacefully in Asheville, North Carolina on October 13, 2025, following a lengthy battle with cancer. He was a native of Asheville and the son of the late James Reaves Milling and Norma Boie Milling.

Tim was most at home in the natural world. He earned a master’s degree in biology from Appalachian State University and worked as a wildlife biologist with many different organizations including the U.S. Forest Service and his own firm DTE Environmental. While employed with the Forest Service, he was part of a crew that received a Presidential Award for their work restoring red cockaded woodpecker habitats in the Francis Marion Forest in S.C. following devastation left by Hurricane Hugo. He also did extensive work with saw-whet owls, bats, and other species.

He lived and worked in many locales across the United States, but he always loved returning to the beauty of Western North Carolina, Eastern Tennessee and Virginia.

Tim was a standout soccer player in middle school at Country Day School, high school at T.C. Roberson, and later at Brevard College and Warren Wilson College. He was also an avid rock climber, backpacker, canoer, hiker, whitewater rafter, and camper.

He took great delight establishing annual traditions with his children to go to area farms to pick apples and choose Christmas trees. He also enjoyed going to a variety of festivals and naturalist rallies.

He is survived by his children, Ben Milling and Hannah Milling of Asheville; future daughter-in-law Annie Hetherington; a brother, Ted Milling and sister-in-law, Cindy Milling of Burlington; a stepsister, Pam Haynes of Waynesville; an aunt, Marlys Kitzman of Elgin, Minnesota; a nephew, Jaycen Milling; niece Mary Beth Milling; and step-nephew, Cassidy Haynes. He is also survived by multiple cousins in Minnesota and South Carolina.

A memorial service in celebration of the life of Tim Milling will be held on Saturday, November 1, 2025, at 12:30 p.m. at Lutheran Church of the Nativity, 2425 Hendersonville Road, Arden, N.C., with Rev. Sean Barrett officiating.

Burial will follow at 2 p.m. at Carolina Memorial Sanctuary, a conservation and green cemetery in Mills River, N.C. Guests are encouraged to wear comfortable, casual clothing and sturdy closed-toe shoes if they plan to join the burial ceremony. Golf carts will be available at the cemetery to transport guests to the burial site.

For GPS directions to the cemetery, please use 2041 Old Fanning Bridge Road, Mills River. Turn onto Blessed Way at the Unity of the Blue Ridge Church sign and follow the road to the last parking lot on the left.

In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to a conservation organization of one’s choice, in honor of Tim’s lifelong dedication to protecting the environment.

Groce Funeral Home at Lake Julian is in charge of arrangements.

Services

Memorial Service: November 1, 2025 12:30 pm

Room: Sanctuary

Lutheran Church of the Nativity
2425 Hendersonville Road
Arden, NC 28704


Committal Service: November 1, 2025 2:00 pm

Carolina Memorial Sanctuary
195 Blessed Way
Mills River, NC 28759

(828)782-7283

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  1. So very sorry for your loss… I only met him a couple times while he was helping his stepsister, Pamela move but he seemed like a great guy!

  2. My thoughts and prayers for his family. Tim was a great guy. He was famous at Country Day and at TCR not only for his talent as a soccer player, but for some pranks that he and some of his friends played. At one point they made the national news (anonymously, of course) for having rolled the Biltmore Estate. Another time they hung a portable outhouse from a construction site off the roof of the TCR gym. Of course, I may be remembering wrong and it was somebody else and he was totally innocent.

  3. Tim was my close companion for the last year and a half of his life. I got to see a more serious side of him than those who knew him when he was younger, but experienced his fun side too. I remember him best as sincere, warm-hearted, always thinking of others and how he could help. I will miss his companionship.

  4. I am truly heartbroken. I did not know Tim as well as Ted, but he always impressed me as a gentle soul. The Milling brothers always first class folks in my book. I wish I’d known him better. My thoughts and prayers to his family.

  5. Bill and I are thinking about Marla, Ben and Hannah during this difficult time. Love and sympathy. Alice and Bill Hart

  6. I first met Tim in the mid to late 1960’s at Asheville Country Day becoming great friends through the 1970’s atT. C Roberson then through the 80’s. I last saw Tim in the early 2000’s when I was blessed to meet his family.
    Tim had a smile for everyone and I never saw him treat anyone unkindly. He was the kindest man I have ever known.
    Rest in peace Tim…🏕️🏔️🌲

  7. Marla Hannah And Ben also miss Annie so sorry for you guys’ loss Hannah and Ben your dad was awesome person ever loved single so. I never forget when your dad came to charlotte to watch me and Annie also ben competed special Olympics tennis and we stopped gas stations get subway and took me home to Asheville to my mom’s house I know how you guys feel very Difficult and sad all they emotions it is hard to lose a parent I still sometimes cry about my mom I am here if you guys need me

  8. Tim was one of the kids chasing the soccer ball, giving us parents in the stands memories of a special time in the lives of our boys. Rest in peace, sweet boy, your good work is done….

  9. I’m so sorry to hear of this news. Tim and I climbed together at Looking Glass a time or two, and I know he enjoyed being outside in nature. Sending warm thoughts to his family.


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