Barbara O'Neal Cooke
June 5, 1933 ~ December 30, 2023
Born in:
Fletcher, NC
Resided in:
Asheville, NC
Barbara “Meemaw” O’Neal Cooke, 90, passed away Saturday, December 30, 2023 at Givens Estates Healthcare Center.
Mrs. Cooke was born in Fletcher, NC. She was daughter to the late Lillian Helen Thomerson O’Neal and George Earl O’Neal. She was also preceded in death by her husband, Edward “Ed” Lee Cooke and a son Edward Lee Cooke, Jr.
Barbara graduated high school from the Fassifern School for girls in Hendersonville. She was a talented singer and extremely athletic exceling in field hockey and multiple sports. She was an avid golfer and had won one of the local Women’s Senior Tournaments. She loved her family, especially spending time with her grandkids and great grandkids.
She is survived by a daughter, Barbara Cooke Philips and her partner Richard Witt; a son, Billy Cooke and his wife Lori; three grandchildren, Daniel Cooke and his wife Angela, Nicholas Philips and Natalie Philips; two great grandchildren, Emma Cooke and Bennett Cooke; a brother, Bobby O’Neal; a sister Peggy O’Neal; her companion dog, Buddy and her granddogs.
A funeral ceremony will be held at Groce Funeral Home on Saturday, January 20th at 2:00pm. The family will receive friends 30 minutes prior to the service from 1:30 to 2:00 pm. The interment will take place at Lewis Memorial Park’s Mausoleum above the Beaverdam Baptist church in Asheville following the ceremony.
Services
Visitation: January 20, 2024 1:30 pm - 2:00 pm
Groce Funeral Home at Lake Julian
72 Long Shoals Road
Arden, NC 28704
(828)687-3530
http://www.grocefuneralhome.com
Funeral Service: January 20, 2024 2:00 pm
Groce Funeral Home at Lake Julian
72 Long Shoals Road
Arden, NC 28704
(828)687-3530
http://www.grocefuneralhome.com
Entombment:
Lewis Memorial Park
415 Beaverdam Road
Asheville, NC 28804
(828)252-5081
Funeral Home Assisting The Family:
Groce Funeral Home at Lake Julian
72 Long Shoals Road
Arden, NC 28704
(828)687-3530
http://www.grocefuneralhome.com
Barbara was a great friend and will be missed! Janet David
Courtney, Tia, and I are all thinking of you. Aunt Barbara was a very special lady with a contagious laugh and loved life. She will be missed by so many. I know Uncle Ed and Eddie were there waiting on her and she is free from illness forever more!
Barbara was my Aunt, and I will always have fond memories of her (Aunt Barbara), Ed, Eddie, Billy, and Barbie. As children we played together and in more recent days, I remember her from visits at Givens Estates. She was always very upbeat, funny, witty and full of life and joy…. just fun to be around. My only regret is not being able to attend the services on Saturday and visit Billy and Barbie. May God bless the Cooke family.
I met Barbara at Givens Estates & enjoyed working with her. Even on her worst days she brought a positive energy & joy with her that was infectious. I loved hearing her many stories about growing up in Asheville & how it used to be. One of my favorites was about hanging out on Tunnel Road as a teenager. “There were three drive in’s on Tunnel Road, each with a different crowd, the jocks, the country guys & the greasers” I asked which one she hung out in & she said “Oh I went to all of them, I made the rounds”
That hasn’t changed. At Givens she & Buddy “made the rounds” bringing a smile & joy everywhere they went.
I will miss her. I am happy she is at peace.