Curtis Joel Gudger
August 22, 1958 ~ March 9, 2008
Resided in:
Candler, NC
Curtis Joel Gudger
Candler ~ With great faith and much love, Curtis Joel Gudger, 49, passed away on March 9, 2008 after a courageous battle with pancreatic cancer.
A native of Asheville, he was born Aug. 22, 1958 to Glenn and Ruth Gudger, of Hiawassee, GA. He spent most of his life in Asheville, but also resided in Tampa Bay, FL from 1979-1986.
Curtis spent most of his childhood playing football and nurturing his considerable mechanical talent with cars and motorcycles. He graduated from Enka High School in 1976.
On Nov. 22, 2000, Curtis married Tammy Spivey. A marriage of much love and laughter, Curtis exemplified his devotion to family through his role as a caring husband and father. Curtis was loved and admired by everyone that knew him. His smile and loving ways were an inspiration to so many people. He has touched our lives in a special way that will never be forgotten.
Since returning to Asheville, Curtis has been employed in the automobile business, the last 13 years as an employee of Jim Barkley Toyota.
An avid Harley fan, Curtis would take long rides through the countryside with his wife, friends, son and daughter-in-law. Everyone who traveled with Curtis on his bikes considered it an honor to share the road with him. His honest and kind presence always brought out the best in the many lives that he touched.
In addition to his parents, he is survived by his wife, Tammy Spivey Gudger; his two sons, Ryan Gudger and his wife, Kristal, of Candler and Caleb Gudger of Asheville; four daughters, Shannon Bell of Asheville, Jennifer Jones and her husband, Christian, of Pinehurst, NC, Amber Gudger of Asheville and Heather Mundy of Candler. He was also a wonderful grandfather to his six grand-children, Nathaniel, Connor, Amaya, Noah, Alexia and Andrew. In addition, he is also survived by his sister, Diane Campbell of Candler; one niece, Courtney and one nephew, Cody.
A funeral service will be held at 2:00 PM on Wednesday, March 12, 2008 at Groce Funeral Home at Lake Julian with the Revs. Ian Walker and Thomas Freeman officiating.
Curtis' co-workers from the used car department at Jim Barkley Toyota will serve as pallbearers. Weather permitting, there will be a motorcycle procession from the funeral home to Forest Lawn Memorial Park, where the interment will take place.
The family will receive friends from 5:30-8:30 PM on Tuesday, March 11 at Groce Funeral Home at Lake Julian and at other times will be at the home, 15 Tanager Court in Candler.
Flowers are welcome, but donations may also be made in Curtis' memory to the Noah Jones Fund at any of the Asheville Savings Bank locations in Asheville or at the Enka-Candler branch, 907 Smokey Park Highway, Candler, NC 28715. The Noah Jones Fund was recently established for Curtis' grandson, Noah, who has undergone two major brain surgeries and may be facing a third in the near future. Memorial donations may also be made in Curtis' name to the American Cancer Society for Pancreatic Research, 120 Executive Park, Building One, Asheville, NC 28801.
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Dear Gudger Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with each and everyone. I knew Curtis in high school and will always remember his pleasant smile. Prase God that Curtis is healed and pain free. God bless each and everyone.
Love,
Teresa Morgan
Dear Ruth,
Debbie and I were deeply saddened to hear about the passing of Curtis. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May God bless and comfort you in this difficult hour.
To the Gudger family.
We are sorry to learn of you loss.Curtis and me worked together at Apple Tree Chevrolet several years ago in the parts department.He was a very fine person and a good friend as well as a good worker.He will be missed very much by all of his working friends and more than ever by his family.May God bless you all.Our prayers are with you.
Uel and Doris Evans
With much love to the Family.Aunt Ruth and Uncle Glen,Diane,Tammy and all the kids
What can we truly say to fill the void you feel in your life right now.I know you all miss Curtis, what a wonderful person he was and you know he still is. He has left us all great memories and somewhere in each of us there is a little piece of him.I see Curtis in each one of you. Let the Curtis in you shine everyday.
Greet others with as much love as he did.That is probably the thing I remember most about Curtis. Curtis was so happy to see everybody,always smiling and great big hugs.
Now To Curtis:
Well, just as I predicted you would do, even after you left this old world you weren’t done. Your life will be a testamony in its self, but you making sure your family and friends were asked at your funeral if they knew the Lord, well that said it all. I know heaven is wonderful and that all the angels are so glad to have such a precious soul enter the gates of heaven. I am happy for you and for all the loved ones who have gone on before. We are sad now, but one day we will be there and be ‘Known as we were Known’ and what a happy day that will be. Please Smile down on us daily and give your loved ones the assurance they need.Be the sweet breeze, the quiet in the storm, the birds in the sky and shine through the darkness.I will see you someday on the street of pure gold, Hope you,Joey, Granny and Grandpa Arrowood meet me at the gate.
Tammy, Heather and family..I’m so sorry for the loss of your wonderful husband, father, son, and brother. He was a remarkable man who will live forever in your hearts. His life was filled with so many people who loved and respected him. The memory of Curtis will always bring a smile to all who knew him. Please know that your friends are here to help you in any way possible. God Bless you all.
Daddy,
I’ve never really been the greatest with words-I wasn’t blessed with that gift like Jen was, but I’m gonna say whats on my mind. I want you to know I that already miss you, but I know you are in a much better place. Call me crazy but as soon as I heard the news all I kept hearing over and over again was the song that was sung at Grandmother Arrowood’s funeral by mom- ‘I Bowed on My Knees and Cried Holy’-the chorus keep playing over and over. A little later I got upset again, as I’m sure you may have seen from above and I could literally hear you singing- ‘If you could see me now, I’m walking streets of gold, if you could see me now, I’m standing tall and whole, If you could see me now, you know I’ve seen his face, If you could see me now, you know the pains erased’. I know God healed you with that first breath you took in Heaven. I hope you told Grandmother Arrowood that I would always be thankful for the gift she passed on to me. I also promise that Amaya and Alexia will always know what a wonderful grandfather you were and just how much you loved them. By the way, Amaya wants you to find all the pretty blue flowers up there, pick them and save them for her because she’s never seen one she said. I love you and I miss you.
It was a blessing and privilege to know Curtis. Our friendship dates back to high school days and attending church at Deaverview Baptist. Most recently, he sold us a car and we renewed our friendship. Curtis blessed our lives by his courage and faith as he battled cancer. We rejoice in knowing that He is at home with the Savior He loved. We pray that God will uphold His precious wife and family with His righteous hand.
Daddy I just want you to know that I love you!!! You will never ever be forgotten because you were such a good man……. Even though I was not out at your house all the time I still thought of you and I was doing everything in my power to make you and mom happy and proud of me! I see that I did that when I came to see you on WED. and you smiled and smiled because you got to see me in my scrubs. To see you smile like you made me smile even though at that moment I knew you were going to have to leave! But I know that one day down the road I will be able to help someone get through this same story…. or maybe even find a cure so that no one else has to suffer from cancer of any kind……… And you know what daddy I will live with Christ as the center of my world!!!!! Also I know that for my graduation and prom you are going to be right there and you will have the best seat of all….. And when I get married I know that you will be there for that even if I cannot see you I know that you will be there in that front row watching me!!! If I ever have kids they will know what has happened to you and they will to live with Christ as the center of their life. Even if I have another sleepless night all I know to say is that your last breath here was your first breath in heaven and I know I will see you again one day!!! I LOVE YOU DADDY and I will never ever forget you!
Love,
Your daughter Amber!
Dear Tammy, my dear precious children, and Curtis family,
My heart breaks for you all. Curtis loved you all dearly. I will never forget all the wonderful things he did for me through 33 years of knowing him. His last words to me and his last days on this earth said it all…Curtis was a gentelman that was greatly admired by many.
My relationship with him grew into a very wonderful friendship and the way he helped raise our children will forever be embedded in their futures.
Curtis I love you and I will miss you terribly. I will miss your advice, your wisdom and your love for our family.
God bless you Tammy in this time of loss. I know that you two shared a very special love and that was great. Ty for being the wonderful second mom to my children that you are. Booky those grandkids need us both.
Love,
Tammy and Mark
Diane, Glen & Ruth – Our family knows all too well the loss that you are experiencing. There are no words that will ease the pain and grief; only God and time. My prayer for you is that God will bless you with the memories and the knowledge and comfort that Curtis is with Him. Curtis is among family and I’m sure Daddy was one of the first to welcome him home. Keep the memories strong and lean on Jesus.
Love you all.
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this difficult time.
DAD I AM PROUD OF WHAT YOU WERE ABLE TO ACCOMPLISH IN YOUR LIFETIME. NO WORDS CAN EXPLAIN WHAT A FATHER YOU HAVE BEEN OR A MENTOR TO ME. YOU HAVE ALWAYS TAUGHT ME TO ‘KEEP ON GOING’ NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS AND THAT IS WHAT I AM GOING TO DO. I THANK YOU FOR ALL THE BLESSINGS AND WISDOM YOU HAVE GAVE ME OVER THE YEARS. YOU HAVE SET ME UP FOR LIFE AND DONE WAY MORE THAN ANY FATHER HAS DONE FOR ANY CHILD. I LOVE YOU MORE THAN I COULD EVER EXPLAIN AND WILL MISS YOU GREATLY. I PROMISE TO NEVER STOP GOING BECAUSE YOU ARE THE REASON I AM WHERE I AM TODAY. THE BUSINESS, THE LOVE, THE BEST FRIEND OF MY LIFE. YOU WILL ALWAYS BE RIGHT BESIDE ME NO MATTER WHERE I WALK AND WHEN I MAKE A DECISION IN LIFE I WILL ALWAYS THINK ‘WHAT WOULD DAD DO OR DECIDE IN THIS SITUATION.’ YOU ARE MY BEST FRIEND AND WHEN I RIDE MY HARLEY WILL ALWAYS THINK ABOUT HOW WE ROAD EVERYWHERE TOGETHER AND ALWAYS KEPT OUR MIND ON WHAT MATTERS MOST, OUR FAMILY.I CAN ONLY IMAGINE WHAT YOU ARE SEEING TODAY IN HEAVEN BUT I PROMISE WHEN I RIDE I WILL ALWAYS LOOK FOR YOU OVER MY RIGHT SHOLDER. I LOVE YOU AND WILL MISS YOU THE REST OF MY LIFE. THANKS FOR EVERYTHING AND I KNOW YOU MAY BE GONE BUT THERE WILL NEVER BE A DAY THAT I DON’T THINK ABOUT YOU.
LOVE YA DAD
RYAN G.
Gudger family – Our thoughts are with you in this difficult time. Curtis will be remembered as a wonderful person. I hope you find relief in the fact that he is no longer in pain. I know the used car building won’t be the same without him. He will be greatly missed. If your family needs anything, ever, please don’t hesitate to give us a call.
Curtis, we love you man, and miss you terribly! Love the Mooney Family
Cousin Glenn,Ruth and Family,
After reading all the tributes in this guestbook you should be very proud to have raised a son who had the qualities of such a good person.
We want you to know that even though we could not be with you in person at the funeral (due to my accident & our daughters illness) we greived in our hearts…. Oh! to have been there to give you a great big hug!
Our love and prayers still go out to all of Curtis’s family. May you find peace in the love of God, friends & relatives.
Bless You All,
Jewell & Jack
Family,
Just thinking of you during this time of grief. What seems to be your loss is heaven’s gain. I know that he will be missed by all his family and friends. Praying for you all.Lord bless,
Pastor Tony Parham
Laurel Pines Baptist Church
1co 2:9 But as it is written, Eye hath not seen, nor ear heard, neither have entered into the heart of man, the things which God hath prepared for them that love him.
God has lifted up His son to be with Him now, for the rest of us Curtis would want each and every one of us to live life to its fullest. God Bless each of you as the days appear long and lonely, but please remember God loves you and Curtis will always be with you in Spirit.
Tammy, Heather, Ruth, Glenn & Family,
I can’t begin to tell you all how my heart breaks for you. The love & devotion you’ve all shown throughout Curtis’ life is amazing. Curtis was very blessed to have you in his life and you were (as were we all) blessed to share in his. Tammy, Curtis was given the opportunity to be a wonderful husband because you were such a wonderful wife. He was a good man, a good father, and a remarkable friend, and my life is so much better for having known him. My love and prayers are with you all.
Anna Challenger
Tammy and family,
Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. There are no words that truly relieve the pain of loss; only hearts and hands that reach out to hold you at this time.
Love in Christ,
Brenda & Louis
Our greatest sympathy goes out to the entire family. We were saddened by this world great loss of a Soul filled with Joy of Heaven’s Gift that he gave away so freely, that has been called home. I know as soon as Curtis walked through the gates he was asked what took you so long… His response I would imagine was, ‘I’m sorry but I had work to do!’
Curtis was an genuine caring soul through and through. God’s light always shining bright for all to see and hear if you would let him. A smile that would warm any heart around. I worked with Curtis and Tammy at Deal Buick so many years ago. I can remember his children and how small they were, now how grown they must be. You must be so proud of your Dad. I know he loved each of you immensely. Curtis married me and my husband those many years ago. It was one of the happiest day’s of our lives. I can’t imagine it without him helping us pledge our vows to eachother. It was an honor to share that day with him. Keeping in touch over the busy years of our lives was not always easy but God always crossed our paths. Realizing Curtis had passed a great sadness came over us. BUT..then we looked at each other and smiled, while tears in our eyes, because we knew what eachother was thinking. He was a light sent here for only a short while but what a glorious impact he made. We will cherish each memory we have of Curtis and remember him forever as we will remember his family in our prayers.
Sincere Sympathy,
Stacey & Kimberly
We met Curtis when he worked for Deal Buick. He was a kind and wonderful man with a great smile and personality. He always shared his faith and was very uplifting. You’re lives were blessed to have him and his to have you. He will be missed by all those who knew him. What a strong courageous man he was. Our love and prayers are with you.
hey dad hows it goin in heaven you are lucky i wish i was in heaven i bet you are shakin gods hand right now well dad ill see ya soon i love you and always have though sometimes weve had our rough times i always forgave you and you always forgave me thank you for making me the man i am today a great man just like you i love you and will see you soon
To my second family,
A few years ago Curtis took me under his wing and showed me how to be a successful business man, friend, and father. Although I to was blessed with a good family, you guys took me in like I was your own. Whenever we had a hard time(from a bolt too tight to running a business) I always knew who to call, and he always did everything with integrity and faith. Our prayers are with all of you, and if you need anything at all please let us know(Ryan and I will probaly be @ your house anyways) We love you all. Josh, Julie and Addison DeHart
Dear Tammy & Family,
I’m sorry that this illness took Curtis from us way too soon, but The Lord needed him more. We now know that He is no longer in pain, or suffering, and the sadness, greif, and pain that is part of our lives in this Earthly realm are no longer a situation that Curtis has to endure. He is now in the presence of our Lord and the conditions that plague our earthly bodies do not hinder Him from worshipping the Lord forevermore.
Curtis we will miss you and this is not goodbye, but we will meet again someday.Godspeed and ride long and ride free, Eddie & Pat
Dear Gudger Family,
We feel deeply for your loss, and ours. We are better people for having known Curtis. Even Miss Sydney, whom at the tender age of 5 has really only been able ‘know’ someone for two years, has become a better person having known Curtis Gudger. In her nightly prayers for the last year she has always began with ‘I pray for Curtis, Tammy and Heather’ and then ‘Mommy, Daddy etc..’ If he can have this kind of positive impact on neighbors he knew for a relatively short period of time imagine what impact he has had on friends and family he has known well for a long period of time!
The world is a better place for having had him in it. We are better people for having known him, and his life did matter. A life well lived, a life well received. What more could any of us ask for of our lives?
Our deepest sympathies for your loss. Our deepest gratitude to Curtis for his friendship. Mike, Traci and Sydney Roberts
Gudger Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all in this time of sorrow. Thanks to Jesus it’s sorrow mixed with hope. Curtis has been a friend since high school though the years have seperated us we loved him dearly. The last time I talked with him he was facing this final battle with faith in God and love for life, not just life here but life that is eternal in Christ.
Though it’s been years since I was last with him I know we will make up for it in eternity. Face this the same way he faced life, with faith in our Lord, Jesus Christ. We would love to be there with you but will keep you in our prayers. God’s grace is sufficient for all things.
Curtis,
I am so honored to have known you for such a short time, but to still have been counted in your heart as family. The way you cared for and raised your family in Christ will always motivate and inspire me to do the same with my own. You have proven to me that it’s not possible to have too many people to love. With you, there was always more than enough heart to go around. The love you shared continues to touch us all, just as your memory will continue to inspire me to be the best father and husband I can possibly be. Not a prayer will go pass from my mind without a warm greeting to you, one of the greatest men I have ever none. Thank you for everything, I love you, and God Bless.
Christian Jones
My Precious Daddy,
As I rest here in your house and go through many pictures of you from over the years, numerous memories and emotions cloud my mind. Through it all, the only thing I can picture is you being welcomed with open arms by the Lord above. I have complete and total confidence that you were not only crowned, but healed as soon as you walked through the gates of Heaven. You were greeted by loved ones that have long since passed. You breathed in the fresh aroma of all that Heaven has to offer. And, Daddy, you were scooped up by our Heavenly Father’s gentle hand and finally welcomed home. You see, when Heaven welcomed you, everyone there was gaining a remarkable man. In your earthly body, you touched thousands of lives through kind words and gentle smiles. You loved, witnessed, and shared joyous times with anyone that would listen. You lived your life to the fullest in every way imaginable. These are just a few of the qualities that will forever be ingrained in my mind and in my heart.
As you can probably figure, I miss you immensely. The boys do as well. Earlier Nate and Connor were reminiscing about how they would always be able to ‘make pancakes and even break the eggs’ when they cooked breakfast with Papaw Curtis. These memories and many more will be mulled over time and time again as the years pass until one day we are all together again. I promise to raise Nate, Connor, and Noah in a way that you would approve: providing a life full of love, laughter, and most importantly, God. You have instilled only the best in me, and I promise to pass that down to your grandsons that love you so dearly.
For all that you are and all that you have been to me, I love you, appreciate you, and adore you…always!
Jenny and Family,
I just wanted to send my deepest sympathy to you and your family. It sounds like your father was a wonderful man. The greatest comfort of all that he was ready to go and as you stated he has been healed from his cancer. My father also died with pancreatic so I know what you all have been through. Hold on to your faith. My prayers continue to be with Noah as well.
To Jen, Chris and Boys, God bless and keep you now and in the days ahead. As sad as we are in times like these, as I also lost my dad when I was about your age, how close we suddenly feel knowing they are with our Lord and Savior and in such JOY wd can not fathom. God does provide and the boys will have many men come and go in their lives that will pass on bits and pieces of life that I am sure you dad would have, but God had other plans. Jason does not remember my dad at all, but he enjoyed J as I know your dad did your boys. I sm glad you got some time to spend together these past few day. Know you are all in our love and prayers.
Aunt Mary and Uncle Steve
DEAR PARENTS OF CURTIS;
SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. I REMEMBER CURTIS AND TERRY (MY SON) PLAYING FOOTBALL AT ENKA. CURTIS WAS ALWAYS SUCH A FINE YOUNG MAN.
IT’S WONDERFUL THAT YOU HAVE THE ASSURANCE THAT HE IS IN HEAVEN AND THAT YOU WILL SEE HIM AGAIN!
SINCERELY, PATSY
Tammy, Heather, Ryan, and Gudger Family,
I want to tell each of you what a blessing and a pleasure it has been for me to know Curtis. He was one of those people that you instantly liked. His smile,laughter, and personality drew you to him like a magnet. My life is better for having met Curtis, he was a wonderful friend. I enjoyed each and every time I got the opportunity to ride with him. I always said that he was one of the best riders I had ever seen or had the chance to ride with. Let Curtis’ faith and love comfort you in the days and times to come that will seem so dark. He was a fighter, and I am sure that he instilled that in each of you as well. Keep on going. You will see him again. As for you Curtis, ride long and ride free. Forever.
My thoughts and prayers are with Curtis’s family. He has reached his destination, the journey is over and some day I will see him a again. Curtis was a good friend all through high school. May God bless his family.
Dear Gudger Family,
Kathy and I wish to express to you our deepest sympathy at the passing of your precious son, brother, father and grandfather. I remember good days had at Deaverview Baptist Church with Curtis and family. We will look forward to seeing Curtis in heaven along with many others who have gone before us! May God richly bless you with His grace and comfort in these days!
To reach heaven, the body must die and free the soul. God’s grace be to all of you at this most difficult time. His spiritual presence will remain in all of you, and that is yet another blessing.
Jen, Christian and Family:
Wanted you to know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Just knowing that your father is healed of his cancer and walking the streets of Heaven will comfort you and bring you peace. I know, because I lost my father last week. I miss him, just as you will miss your father, but I know that he’s happy and with the Lord and that brings me peace. I pray that you will have the same peace.
To all of Curtis’ family,
When I met Curtis, many years ago, I met a Brother (in Christ) and a friend. Over the years, that never changed. The last time we talked, we talked about Heaven and getting to go there. I don’t feel like I have lost my Brother and friend, because ‘nothing is ever lost, if you know where it is’ I am comfortable that I know where he is! This is not ‘Good Bye’ because I’ll see him again. When King David’s son died, he said I cannot bring him back, but I can go to him. Curtis, my friend, I’ll see you soon! Save me a place at the table! Family, YOU are in our prayers!
Roger, Diane & Sarah Boone
Glenn, Ruth, Tammy and family. We are saddened by your loss. It is a joy to know he is with the Lord. It is so hard to loose a loved one but to know they knew the Lord makes it easier. We cannot be there in person but our hearts are with you. May God be with you all.
Jennifer and Family,
What a beautiful memorial and obituary you have written for your dad. Although I did not have the honor of knowing him, I know from the part of his family I know and care for, that he was a wonderful man. May God continue to bless you all. My prayers are with you.
Tammy, I am so sorry for your loss. For the little time that I spent with Curtis, he seemed very special. He is in a better place, no more pain and suffering and in that hopefully you will find comfort. I pray that you and your family will find peace in all of this. Love and Prayers, Sherry C. Dyer
We are very sorry to hear about the loss of your loved one. Curtis was an outstanding man. We liked him a lot. We are going to miss him. We will keep you all in our thoughts and prayers.
My condolences to the Gudger family. God Bless.
Betty Jane Tarwater
Lake Panasoffkee, FL
We feel you was a wonder guy and you will be missed it was pleasure knowing you may God Bless all your loved ones.
My deepest sympathy to your family. I am a co-worker of Jennifer, she’s a blessing to me. I’m saddened because she’s lost her dad at such a young age. Friends grieve with friends. ‘HOPE, it conquers the sorrow, SHOUT, it eases the heartache, CRY, it soothes the pain, PRAY, it brings peace.’ God Bless Each Of You! -Gala LeGrand
Hi Jennifer and Family.
Sorry to hear of your lose, but just think of heaven’s gain. Although you hate to lose your father, just think your family now has another guardian angel. My heart goes out to you, Take care and we love you. Jackie, Tommy and family.
Tammy and children, Ruth & Glenn, Dianne and family
We are so sorry for your loss but peace be with you and Curtis as he has now passed. He now has the chance to be with you in a much better way and everyone can live for the future. We are all here for the future in whatever you need. We love and honor you!!
Love always, Dan, Tina, Mikey and Leah
Dearest Tammy, Diane & Curtis Family,
We are deeply saddened by the loss of ‘Curtis’. We can only imagine the loss you are feeling now. Curtis truly loved you, his friends, God and life. Anyone that knew Curtis saw this. He was such a strong,thoughtful, kind and giving person. He touched the lives of so many in a positive way. We will all miss him. We have only the fondest of memories of Curtis. If any of you need anything please call us. Lovingly, Mark & Pam Wright
Dear Gudger Family,
Our arms are wrapped around you and hope that you find some comfort. Curtis will be missed by us enormously. Our prayers are with you Tammy and your extended family. If you need us for anything do not hesitate to contact us. In deepest sympathy wishing you peace at this time of sorrow.
Sincerely,
Tommy McClellan & Serena McCann
Shannon and family,
My prayers and thoughts are with you. ‘Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the LORD your God goes with you; he will never leave nor forsake you.’ Deuteronomy 31:6
Cousin Glenn & Ruth,
After reading all the tributes written in this guestbook, you must have been very proud to have raised such a wonderful son.
We’re so sorry we couldn’t be with you at the service (due to my accident & our daughters illness), but want you to know our hearts were greiving with you. Oh! If only we could have been there to give you a great big hug !
To all of Curtis’s family….. may the love of family, friends and God give you peace.
Blessings to you all.
Love,
Jack & Jewell
Noah is one of our special kids at Sandhills Pediatrics, Inc. Your family will always be in our thoughts as time will heal all pain, sorrow and adjustments with this great loss. A special family you have. God bless.
To Curtis’ Family:
I am Lucy Cornwell’s daughter (Glen’s cousin) and want to say how much I am sorry about your loss. I met Curtis a few years ago when I purchased a car from him. I had not seen him in probably 40 years and just by chance I figured out who he was. I have to say that I was very impressed with him and am grateful that I met him again after so many years. Even though I do not know his family, I want you to know that you are in my prayers.
May God take you in his Welcome Arms For now your suffering is Gone and you are in a Better Place
Dearest Curtis Gudger Family,
We are praying that God’s comfort will be with all of your family at this time. Tammy, Glenn, Ruth, Diane and family we do cherish all the loving memories of Curtis and all of you through the years in Ruskin, Florida.
In Christ’s Love,
John, Mona & Jessica
Isaiah 26:3,4
Ryan, Kristal, and Gudger family,
We just want you to know how blessed we feel every day having known such a wonderful family as you all are. You are in our prayers and if there is anything we can ever do for any of you please don’t hesitate to ask. We fell so thankful to have known Curtis and what a wonderful person he was, and how happy he is now in heaven.
All of our love and prayers go to you.
Curtis you will be missed,, we only met a couple of times at our church.. i will be praying for your family. god bless mike..
The Endo Staff here at St Joe’s was touch by Curtis’s Great Courage and Spirit. Just wanted you to know we are thinking of you and offering our prayers up for you and your family.
Dear Gudger Family,
I was deeply saddened by the news of Curtis’ death. I have known Curtis most all of my life. My brother, sister, and I grew up as neighbors and as friends with Curtis all through school. Even though our families lives grew apart, I have often thought of Curtis and tried to keep up with him through family and friends. I just want you to know that my thoughts and prayers are with your entire family as you go through this most difficult time. I am sure that Curtis will always keep a watch over his most precious family.
Ryan & the Gudger family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all in this time of sorrow. Rejoice that there is peace to come. Bob & Dianna Walker
Dear Heather,
I am saddened to hear of your daddy’s death. Even though you were aware that his death would be soon, the pain of your loss is still the same, I’m sure. Take time to grieve and lean on your family and friends. Your first period class misses you and our thoughts are with you.
Love, Ms.Thompson/Enka High School
I am Curtis’s 2nd cousin and remember Curtis from reunions, etc. in Hiawassee, GA. My Mother, Annabelle Berrong Hardy, was a sister to Ruth’s mom, Clara B. Arrowood. I am so sorry for your loss. You are family and you will be remembered in my prayers. God bless you all. Please tell Ruth and Glenn that our thoughts are with the entire family.
Gudger Family-
I am saddened to learn of Curtis’ passing. I have known him for many years and considered him a good friend. He always had a smile and a kind word any time I was roaming the lot at Jim Barkley. I know your grief well, as I just lost my father on February 19….you will be in my thoughts and prayers in the coming days and weeks. May God give you the strength and peace that only He can.
Jen and family – With deepest sympathy. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Brittany Ferguson
Dear Tammy, Heather and Family,
We were saddened to hear of Curtis’ passing, but know that he is in a much better place and will suffer no longer. Curtis was the friendliest/happiest guy we have ever met and know he will be missed tremendously. Our prayers go out to you in this most difficult time as you say your goodbyes and also during the healing process to follow. You have many friends who will be there to support you. We love you.
Diane, Ruth, Glen & family – We were so sorry to hear about Curtis. We have not seen any of you in a long time but we did see Curtis from time to time at Jim Barkley’s. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Heaven has a new angel but we on Earth have lost a good man/friend. Let us know how you are doing.
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Tammy & family,
I am so sorry to hear about Curtis. But I feel very blessed to have know him, I remember reading his testimony when we worked at Deal together and I have no doubt where he is today. I could tell you a zillion great things about Curtis but you already know all of them. I will miss him as a friend and as a great used car salesman. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Call if you need anything.
Sincerely,
Diane Rowland
Dear Tammy kids and Family
Just wanted to let you know how much Curtis meant to me.He was such an
awesome christian and such an inspiration to me and everyone who came in contact with him.I have been truly blessed to have known Curtis in my life.He will be truly missed as a friend and co-worker.You and your family will always be in our thoughts and prayers.Our loss is jesus’s gain.And those of us who choose to live right will once again see Curtis again very soon in Heaven.He will never be forgotten.
My condolences go out to the entire Gudger family. I can only say that Curtis was a wonderful, spiritual man that touched so many lives, including mine, and my children. He was so very wise and caring- a much appreciated, Godly man. I know w/o doubt, that God is holding his hand now, and I pray that his family knows that they too are held in that same hand. God will heal all wounds. No words can begin to express the sympathy I feel for his wife,his children, grandchildren, and extended family. I will certainly place a donation to Noah at the bank in his memory and honor, and if there is anything else that I can do to help, I will. May you all find peace and comfort with the many prayers that will be sent up in your names. With dearest sympathy,
Dear Gudger Family, I grew up with Curtis in Candler and have many fond memories of the times we spent riding motorcycles for hours at a time. Those were good times when everyone in the neighborhood were friends and we spent a lot time playing with each other. I remember going to the lake with Ricky Roger’s family and Curtis’s family and waterskiing with both families. Those were good times that I will never forget. I hadn’t seen Curtis in many years but I always considered him a friend and hope he remembered me as his friend. I am greatly saddened by the death of another one of my childhood friends but after reading the things that have been written about him I know that he was loved by many people and had made a positive impact on many people’s lives. I will miss Curtis and wish I had remained in touch with him these last few years.
To Tammy and your daughter and his parents we offer our prayers and pray that God will be your resourse. To Ryan,Shannon,Jennifer,Amber and Caleb only God can give the strength for the journey. We know where your dad is and his one prayer I’m sure would be that you meet hime there..He made it home but we still have to get there.Your mom has our number if you need to talk just know we love you and are praying for you. I know the loss you are feeling. Dads are special people and when that void is placed in ou lives we have to let the lord help us .
Dear Gudger Family,
Michael and I have Known Curtis most of our life. We loved him dearly. I will never forget after a high school reunion Curtis telling me ‘Charlotte, we just need to go back in there and tell them about Jesus.’ I believe if Curtis could talk to us now, he would say ‘Make sure you have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ.’ Our love and prayers are with all of you.
Michael and Charlotte Jones
Ruth, Glen, Diane, Tammy and children. Linda and I send our deepest sympathy and condolences and are praying that God will continue to bless you and give you strength in this time of great need. I met and got to know Curtis when he lived in Florida many years ago and I can honestly say I’ve never known a better, kinder person and true gentleman. The definition of the word christian is ‘Christ Like’, which fits Curtis perfectly. He is a son, brother, husband and father that you all can be extremely proud of.
Dear Jennifer,
I have only known you for a short time, but my heart goes out to you. I just wanted you to know that I was thinking of you and you are in my prayers. Take care and much love,
Becca
Curtis was a wonderful Christian man which will be in our hearts forever. His laugh and smile will never be forgotten. God Bless!
Tammy and family,
So sorry to hear about Curtis. He was a wonderful person. I feel lucky to have known and worked with him at Deal. He will be missed by so many people. You are in my prayers.
Sharla Rhinehart
Dearest Glenn & Ruth…also Diane,
Tammy and all the beloved children:
The apostle Paul said, ‘Forgetting
the things behind’ (sorrow and heartache)…..I give you this
scripture REGARDING CURTIS:
EYE HATH NOT SEEN, NOR EAR HEARD,
NEITHER HAVE ENTERED INTO THE HEART
OF MAN, THE THINGS WHICH GOD HATH
PREPARED FOR THEM THAT LOVE HIM.
1 Cor. 2:9
We love you Glenn and Ruth, our
friends.
Pete & Pastor Shirley Dail
CHURCH ALONG THE WAY
Ruskin, Florida.
To Tammy and Extended Family:
My deepest sympathy,and condolences go out to each and every one of you.I have known curtis for about 10 to 15 years .The first time I met curtis I had an immediate respect for the man.A very likable fella,and one that you would want to do anything for.He was a man of integrity,honesty,love for his fellow man,family,and church.He has certainly set a great example for all of us.I am extremely honored to have known curtis ,and to be aquainted with his family.Curtis was a giant of a mna,and one that will be deeply missed.We rode lots of times in the past,and will forever keep those memories close to my heart.Tammy and curtis fit like a glove,both just wonderful people,and always easy to be around.I have a lot of fond memories that will always be with me as I ride.Ride free,ride hard my brother.Till we meet again.
Tammy and family,
Rebekah (Ashley to you) graduated from High School yesterday. She and I were just sitting here going through the Baby Book you made and I decided to see if I could find your email address.
Needless to say, I was shocked to see Curtis’ obituary after doing a Google Search.
Please know that you will be in our prayers during this difficult time.
If you’d like, drop us an email – Rebekah would love to hear from you.
Scott & Rebekah
Tammy & Heather, I just wanted to thank you so much for bringing happiness into Curtis’s life. I will always have the comfort of knowing the last 9 years were filled with Love, Happiness and Companionship that Curtis diserved. You could always see in his eyes how much joy the 2 of you brought into his life. Tammy you were and are still the most important person that has been in Curtis’s life and you know as well as I do that he would have given everything in the world up for you. I will remember the things we all shared in his last days with Curtis still trying to make jokes and also letting everyone know you were so special to him, remember the ‘come here’ when Ann Marie was next to him. And especially when you sat on the bed and he told you how beautiful you are. Tammy always remember you are the one he LOVED and was devoted to. Heather you hold tight to the last conversation that Curtis had and what he said, ‘Heather has my necklace on?’….oh so special. I have the comfort of knowing that I have the best brother ever and a lot of memories. Curtis will always be with us and wants us to be happy. We have to hold him in our hearts and live the life he would want for us. Ryan you need to stay strong and have the comfort of knowing you and Curtis had a very special Dad & son relationship and pass this on down to Drew. Jenny I’m so glad that you found that special bond and can hold the comfort in your heart of knowing it’s ok now. Shannon threw the difficult time you are in remember to pull strenth from God the way your Dad did and follow his example. Amber you made Curtis so proud when you walked in with your nursing clothes on keep this in mind if you ever get discouraged thru your training. And Caleb keep the Love of your Dad for God in your heart and remember you are going in the right direction. CURTIS WE LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU!!!! I can’t wait to be your Sister in Heaven.
TAMMY &FAMILY
VIVIAN & I WERE BLESSED TO HAVE MET CURTIS & HIS FAMILY.
OUR PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU THROUGH
THIS DIFFICULT TIME.
Dear Diane,Cody,& Courtney,Tammy & Heather,Ruth & Glenn,
I am so deeply saddened by Curtis’ passing & the pain you’ve all been through in the last year & experiencing now. But I’m smiling through the many tears right now as I pay tribute to a great man because I know he is where he worked all his life to be, with our Lord & Savior Jesus Christ. You are all in my thoughts & prayers. I’ve only known Curtis for about 13 years but I feel like I’ve known him all my life. When I think of Curtis I think of what an awesome human being in every respect. He just makes people feel good. He accepted me into his heart as the sinner I am with no questions asked & I am proud I had the privelege of knowing such a special person. I was rewarded for this by being able to spend a lot of time with him in his last couple of weeks as he courageously battled cancer & anticipated his greatest reward in Heaven. Thank you for being my friend. I Miss You Buddy. I’ll meet you for our camping trip later. I Love You Curtis
Dear Ruth and Glenn:
Shirley told us about Curtis passing over and we want you to
know that you are in our prayers,
you and all of your family.
Love in Jesus,
Gene & Minnette Moore
Shannon,Jennifer,Ryan,Amber&Caleb,
Know that we loved your Dad alot. He was a great man. He was a joy to be around. Know that we love each of you and are praying for you.
Tammy,Heather,Glenn,Ruth& Diane,
We are praying for you also,Curtis was a great friend to us during his life. We miss him greatly.
Dear family members,
Our hearts ache for each and everyone of you. Please know how deeply sad we are for your loss.
Curtis, fond memories of you will remain with us.
Love to all,
Aunt Blanche and Uncle John
Tammy and family,
I am so sorry to hear of Curtis’s passing. I feel truly blessed to have met both you and him. Curtis was the kind of person that we all have the desire to be like. His life was an example for us all. I have admired the love and respect the two of you shared for each other. My prayers are with you and your family. God Bless each of you.
OUR DEAREST FRIEND CURTIS & FAMILY,
‘WE ARE STANDING,ON HOLY GROUND, AND I KNOW THAT THERE ARE ANGELS, ALL AROUND, LET US PRAISE, JESUS NOW, FOR WE ARE STANDING IN HIS PRESENCE, ON HOLY GROUND’ I KNOW THAT CURTIS IS NOW 1 OF THOSE ANGELS, BUT THEN AGAIN HE HAS ALWAYS HAS BEEN! WE WERE SO BLESSED TO MEET HIM AND BECOME VERY CLOSE FRIENDS. HE WALKED WITH US THROUGH THE NEAR DEATH OF OUR DAUGHTER SAVANNA 7-14-97.HE WAS THE ONE WHO WALKED WITH ME AND EXPERIENCED THE VISION WITH THE MOON ABOVE AND 2 STARS. THE NEXT YEAR, 8-22-98, THAT LITTLE BOY IN MY VISION JOINED OUR FAMILY, OUR SON TJ, TO SHARE THE SAME BIRTHDAY AS CURTIS, WHAT A BLESSING! WOW!THE MOON AGAIN CURTIS ONCE USED TO LET US ALL KNOW THAT HE IS FOREVER SMILING DOWN ON US! REMEMBER? THE NIGHT HE WENT HOME AND THE MOON SMILING! ‘THE ANCHOR HOLDS, THOUGH THE SHIP IS BATTERED!’ HIS SHIP IS NOT BATTERED ANY LONGER. BUT THAT WAS 1 OF THE SONGS THAT HELPED US THROUGH AND IT KEPT PLAYING AGAIN & AGAIN FOR THE LAST COUPLE OF WEEKS. CURTIS REALLY COMFORTED US WHILE HE WAS PREPARING ALL OF US, WE WILL NEVER FORGET EVERY MOMENT WE GOT TO SHARE WITH HIM, UP UNTIL THE LAST FEW DAYS WHEN HE STILL CUT UP WITH US AND MADE US LAUGH! TONY NEVER GOT HIS KISS(REMEMBER)BUT 1 DAY HE WILL. HAHA! AT THE CEMETARY, WHAT BETTER PLACE FOR HIM BUT ‘HIGH ON THAT MOUNTAIN’ AND RIGHT NEXT TO JESUS! WOW! HE IS STILL AROUND, JUST PAY SPECIAL ATTENTION TO ALL THE THINGS THAT WILL HAPPEN AND BEFORE U MARK THEM OFF AS BEING WIERD OR STRANGE JUST KNOW, ‘THAT’S ACTUALLY CURTIS VISITING YOU.’ IN HIS PASSING I WAS ABLE TO MEET A BEAUTIFUL FAMILY, ALL OF YOU I NEVER MET BEFORE, I JUST ADORE, I KNOW NOW WHERE HE LEARNED TO LOVE SO DEEPLY, FROM ALL OF YOU. I WANT TO KEEP IN TOUCH AND IF U NEED ANYTHING, JUST CALL. LET’S CONTINUE WITH CURTIS’ LIFE THE WAY HE WOULD WANT IT, ALL HIS PLANS, LET’S FULFILL! HE WILL BE WITH US EVERY STEP OF THE WAY. FOR NOW, HE IS LIKE GOD, WE CAN’T SEE HIM, BUT WE KNOW HE IS THERE!!!! JUST REACH OUT AND TOUCH HIM! WE LOVE YOU ALL AND WE WILL SEE U SOON!!!
Ruth, I was very sorry to hear of your lost. May God continue to bless you and your family.
OUR PRAYERS AND THOUGHTS ARE WITH YOU ALL.
I am saddened by the loss of my former school mate.
I did not know you were gone to Heaven until today when I met your Son.
I thought you still lived in Florida. I’m so sorry you left us. My wife Becky & I
remember you at Storehouse Christian Center up until our Paster Rev.Billy
Pressley was Killed at Asheville Motor Speedway. It has never been the same since then. Its my Prayer that I will get to see you & Billy someday.
God Bless you Curtis and I know without a doubt you are in Heaven because
I know how you lived while here on earth. We love you.
I did not know you were gone to Heaven until today when I met your Son.
I thought you still lived in Florida. I’m so sorry you left us. My wife Becky & I
remember you at Storehouse Christian Center up until our Paster Rev.Billy
Pressley was Killed at Asheville Motor Speedway. It has never been the same since then. Its my Prayer that I will get to see you & Billy someday.
God Bless you Curtis and I know without a doubt you are in Heaven because
I know how you lived while here on earth. We love you.