Gregory Duncan Stiles
April 13, 1966 ~ September 20, 2017
Resided in:
Black Mountain, NC
It is with great sadness that the family of Greg Stiles announces his passing on Wednesday, September 20th, 2017 at the age of 51 in Black Mountain, North Carolina. Born on April 13th, 1966 in Montgomery, Alabama to Robin and Tom Stiles, Greg grew up in many places around the world including Germany, Alaska, and Florida. He lived his adventurous and full life in Pennsylvania, Colorado and North Carolina with his wife of 24 years and best friend Courtney (McVey) Stiles. He was most proud of their three children; Vance (18) a first year student at UNC Chapel Hill, Chloe (16) a Junior at Owen High School and Parker (13) an 8th grade student at The Learning Community.
Greg held a degree in civil engineering from UNC Charlotte. Bridge design was truly his art and passion and he was very proud to be employed as a Chief Project Manager at the firm of COWI Bridge Design, based in Vancouver, British Colombia Canada. He served for Engineers Without Borders and visited many middle schools sharing his passion and teaching them the elements of bridge design and building through a hands-on experience.
In his spare time he enjoyed travel and outdoor pursuits with his family spending many days hiking mountain tops, paddle boarding, experiencing and appreciating the best that life could offer. An athlete with a presence that could not be missed, Greg enjoyed running and competing in sprint triathlons. He was also an avid rugby player and held the friendships he gained on the field very dear.
Greg was truly loved by the community of Black Mountain and served as a Deacon at Black Mountain Presbyterian Church. He was an advocate of the Black Mountain Greenways development program and volunteered his time as a planner.
Greg is also survived by his parents, his brother Tommy Stiles, of Richmond, VA and his wife Leigh Stiles; his in-laws Gayle & Michael Fedigan of Newburgh, NY and Vera & David McVey of New York City as well as his many loving cousins, nieces, and other friends.
There will be a celebration of Greg’s life on Saturday, September 23rd at 2pm at Black Mountain Presbyterian Church, 117 Montreat Road, Black Mountain, NC. Immediately following there will be a time of visitation at the church.
Memorial donations may be made in Greg’s name through Eblen Charities at https://www.eblencharities.org/donations/ 50 Westgate Parkway, Asheville, NC 28806.
Groce Funeral Home on Tunnel Rd. is assisting the family, and the online register is available at www.grocefuneralhome.com.
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Prayers to the Stiles family. So saddened for your loss.
May the presence of Christ comfort and guide you and your family through this tragic time. We thank God for your 24 years of marriage to a godly man who ‘walked the walk’ as husband, father, and servant of the Lord.
With sadness and loving thoughts of your beautiful family, we pray for your family’s peace. Your neighbor and Kathryn’s grandma and PopPop … we are always here for you.
So sorry to learn of your loss of Gregory. My thoughts and prayers go out to your entire family and I pray that the many wonderful memories of times with Gregory will come to the forfront of your minds and that God the great comforter will uphold thru this time of grief. My sister is Mrs. Katherine Harris as a reference as to who I am. I’ve met Mike at the theater with my brother in law Jimmy. Again my prayers and thoughts are with you during this time. Sincerely Ms Lee B. Keefer
Truly sorry to hear about Greg’s passing. I worked with Greg in Engineers Without Borders and through projects with the City of Asheville. Greg was generous with his time, even letting me know about potential job openings when I was temporarily unemployed during the late 2000’s downturn – he called me a few times without me asking for his help, letting me know about positions he’d heard about. He also called me about Engineers Without Borders’ overseas trips he thought I’d be interested in, just because he thought I’d be interested in helping out.
Greg was a fine man and great to work with. I’m sorry for his loss, and wish his friends and family comfort in this sad time.
I’m deeply saddened by your loss Please accept my condolences.
My deepest condolences to the family and friends of Gregory. Jesus Christ came as a spokesman for his loving Heavenly Father Jehovah. During his ministry he healed some of the sick from whatever illnesses that they had. He also brought back to life some of the people that had fallen asleep in death one of them was his friend Lazarus that had been dead for four days John Chapter 11. This foreshadowed what Jesus Christ will do in the very near future right here on a brand new Paradise Earth no more sickness pain or death Life Without End Revelation 21:1-5.
Thank you, Greg, for the three beautiful children you gave the world. You have made the world better through them and through your life.
We are deeply saddened for the Stiles family. You all are in our thoughts and prayers.
so saddened by your loss. Thinking and praying for your family.
I’ve only known Greg a short time, but was impressed by not only his technical skills but also his friendly and personable nature. My thoughts and prayers go out to Greg and his family.
Black Mountain and BMPC loves this family! Rest, Greg and love to Courtney, Vance, Chloe and Parker.
We send love and condolences to the entire Stiles family. You are in our hearts and in our prayers. Greg now rests in Christ’s arms. Hoping for peace and comfort through the love surrounding you.
We send our deepest condolences, love and prayers to Courtney, the children, Gayle and Michael, and the Stiles family. May God give you strength and uphold you in your time of sorrow.
So very heartbroken to read this. Courtney we are praying for you and your beautiful family. So very sorry for your loss!!!
Courtney and children, I am holding you in my heart. I’m thankful for Greg’s positive, friendly presence. His life made the world a better place.
Courtney, I was shocked and saddened to learn of your husband’s passing. Please know that you and your children are in my thoughts and prayers.
My deepest sympathy and love to you Courtney, Vance, Chloe, and Parker in the loss of such a great husband and Dad. I pray that you will find peace and comfort in knowing that you are all loved by so many people.
Our deepest sympathy. We mourn this loss for the Stiles family, our community, and the world. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Our prayers and thoughts are with your family during these sad days. Sending our love. The Brandmans
Courtney, I am so saddened by the loss of your husband and best friend. Know that my thoughts are with you and your family as you move through this time. You have such a loving community and family surrounding you now, and your ‘work family’ is part of that, too. Peace to you, Kathleen Robbins
Sincere sympathy on your sad loss of Greg. May he rest in peace.
So sorry to hear about Greg’s untimely passing. He was both a mentor and friend to me. I wish his family comfort knowing that he was a fine individual and caring person.
So sorry for your tremendous loss. Your family is in my heart and prayers to find comfort and strength. He will always be with you so try to cherish all the good time you shared. Love and blessings to all.
We were so sad to hear, just today, of Greg’s passing. Our prayers will be with you and your family, Courtney. God bless you guys!
Mrs. Stiles…I was so very sadden to hear of your loss and the loss to your children and family. Please know that I am thinking of you and praying for you and your family…Much love Lisa Salisbury.
Courtney, it is so sad to hear of Greg’s passing. Please accept our deepest condolences.
Greg and I were roommates at UNCC for a couple of semesters.
We went on a ski trip to Colorado together. Though we lost touch he was often remembered for his very cool manner and lighthearted sense of humor. Though he was younger than I, I looked up to him as he was larger and smarter.
I’m glad to have been his friend and truly mourn for his loved ones.
I am so sorry to find that Greg passed. I worked with Greg at American Engineers in Raleigh NC. It was a joy to work with him.