Jimmy Carter Parham

jimmy parham
Jimmy Carter Parham, 70, of Fletcher went home to be with his Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ on Friday, November 6, 2015 at the Elizabeth House. He was a native of Haywood County and a resident of Henderson County for 49 years. Jimmy was the son of the late Rev. W. Carter and Mary Parham. He was also preceded in death by his infant brother Boyce Parham, a sister Gail Lewis and his father and mother-in-law Bobby Joe and Edith Mease. Jimmy was the NC Highway Department District Engineer for 18 years for Haywood, Henderson, Polk and Transylvania Counties. In 1985 Jimmy became the owner and operator of Hendersonville Tire & Oil Co., Inc. He was a member and Deacon of Skyland First Baptist Church. Jimmy was also a Gideon for the Henderson County North Camp. Survivors include his loving wife of 47 years Shirley Mease Parham, two daughters Lisa Norris and husband Keith of Fletcher and Kellie Frank and husband Jason of Hendersonville. His four grandchildren Triston & Tyson Norris and Abigail and Emma Frank. A brother J.L. Parham of Canton. A sister-in-law Debbie Huskey and husband Gary of Raleigh and several nieces and nephews. A funeral service will be held at 2 pm on Monday, November 9, 2015 at Skyland First Baptist Church with the Reverend David Honeycutt and Evangelist Randy Bane officiating. Burial will follow at Hooper's Creek Baptist Church New Cemetery. The family will receive friends from 2 to 6 pm on Sunday, November 8, 2015 at the Groce Funeral Home at Lake Julian. In lieu of flowers donations may be made to Skyland First Baptist Church Family Life Center, PO Box 278, Skyland, NC 28776; Gideons International Henderson County North Camp, PO Box 2641, Hendersonville, NC 28793; or Four Seasons Compassion for Life, 571 South Allen Rd., Flat Rock, NC 28731.

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  1. Love you Uncle Jimmy. Celebrating your life with us. Celebrating your life with Christ now. Aunt Shirley, Lisa And Kellie know we are there with you. Love and prayers for the family.

  2. To all the family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you.Praying for peace & comfort during this difficult time. Love to all…

  3. God bless you all family; he is a dear friend and great servant of the family of God. What a great supporter of the ministry both around the World and at home. I know you will miss him and Heaven’s gain is today tremendous. We are praying for you all with love from Shane Jackson and family.

  4. So sorry for your loss here on earth. I’m sure he and daddy are enjoying laughs and good times together in heaven. Love you all.

  5. A beautiful man of God has left us and joined our eternal family to await our arrival . In the meantime, God surround each family member still here with his peace that passes all understanding. We love you and pray for you at this heartbreaking time of temporary separation.

  6. Holding your family in our thoughts and prayers. Mindful of the Good News that comforts us all and especially you in this time of need. Remembering Jimmy’s smile and wonderful sense of humor and fun. Peace and love.

  7. To it concerns jimmy from butch jackson,Keith Evans have known jim fa many years i am sending my condolences to the family

  8. He was such a kind sweet man. was a joy seeing him walk into the church with that big cowboy hat & great big smile. So sad to hear but we know he is at peace in his heavenly home. Love to Shirley and family. Sheri Ray with Jessica & Chris

  9. Our deepest sympathy to all the family. Jim was a very sweet and caring man. May God give each of you peace and comfort! God Bless! Don and Dianna Birchfield and family.

  10. Our hearts and prays are with you all. May God give you peace through this time of loss and assurance that we will meet again.

  11. We have very special memories of Jimmy always with his smiling face. Your family is special to us with our kids going through school together and raising them in the same church. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this time. Rejoice in knowing that you will see him again in heaven.

  12. My deepest sympathy and prayers for the family. Jimmy was a very loving and caring person. He helped alot of people. He will be missed.

  13. Shirley and Family, our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Jimmy was such an admirable man. A hard and honest worker, a great father and grandfather and a devoted and loving husband. We know you will miss him desperately. God welcomed home a good man on Friday. Let us know if we can do anything for you all.

  14. God bless Shirley and family. We will miss Jimmy tremendously. He was such a delightful person to be around! We know God is with you during this sorrowful time. Sorry we could not get to the visitation or funeral. Just know that we are all praying for you and thinking about you at this sad time.

  15. Shirley and Family,
    Please accept our deepest sympathy in the loss of your loved one. He will be remembered by all who knew him. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May God sustain you at this time.

    All our love,
    Ronnie and Becky Owen

  16. You are in our thoughts and prayers, may God send you the peace that passeth all understanding and keep safe within his arms of love.

  17. I did not know Mr. Parham that well, but what I did know of him made a definite impression on me. His weekly articles on the nuances of the automobile and truck repair services offered by Hendersonville Tire and Oil led me to patronize his business. Through his associate Norman Chubb, I came to trust my vehicles to Hendersonville Tire and Oil. I know that he will be sadly missed by his wife, daughters, sons-in law and grandchildren and his legacy as an honest businessman and staunch disciple of Jesus Christ will be his legacy. May the peace of Christ which passes all understanding guard your hearts and minds until you meet him again in a place that know no suffering, sorrow or tears.

  18. I am sorry we did not know earlier. We send our love, thoughts and prayers to all of you. Your whole family has given us such wonderful memories and Jimmy will never be forgotten. Wishing you peace, Dave and Bev Johnson

  19. Praying for everyone and thanking our Lord for the peace He is giving each of you through this time.

  20. Shirley,Lisa and Kellie,
    We were so sorry to hear about Jim. We know our Lord will get you all through this difficult time. His grace, mercy and healing is just a prayer away. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

  21. Shirley and children,
    You know how much you all are loved. I pray for peace for all of you. He was a wonderful, loving man and I will miss him so much. Love you all, Dotti

  22. GOD BLESS YOU ALL AT THIS TIME..I JUST HEARD OF YOUR LOSS SHIRLEY ANN..THIS IS YOUR COUSIN NANCY RUTHERFORD ALARCON FROM SAN ANTONIO TX..YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ARE ALWAYS IN MY PRAYERS,,I LOVED YOUR MOM AND DAD SO VERYMUCH..IF I CAN BE OF ANY HELP JUST CALL 210 241-7671

  23. Dear Shirley, so sorry for your loss, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, may your guardian angel bring you faith and joy through these tough times.
    Love
    Linda Rutherford Guinta (Dorothy’s daughter)

  24. I am so very sorry for your loss. The few times that I met Mr Parham, I found him to be such a joyful and positive person! I know that he was loved by all so much, a wonderful father and grandfather. May your hearts be comforted.
    With love and prayers, Linda Stirk

  25. Shirley,
    I am Norman’s niece Tamilla Rector.I was Carolyn daughter.
    I am so sorry to be just now finding out about Jim.
    he was very nice to me and to my family especially when my grandmother and mother died.May the Lord bless you through these times

  26. Shirley and family,
    I am Marshall Coble and knew Jimmy when we were in school at Gaston Tech in Gastonia. I am so sorry that I had not reached out to find him and his “Darling Jewel”.
    As you know Jimmy was a good person, loved God and his savior Jesus. I know you miss him.


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