Kevin Matthew Maitland
November 18, 1978 ~ June 21, 2002
Resided in:
Asheville, NC
Kevin Matthew Maitland, 23, of 700 Biltmore Avenue, Apt. 201, Asheville, died Friday, June 21, 2002, of injuries sustained in an automobile
accident.
Kevin was born in Grosse Pointe, MI and moved to Asheville with his parents in 1987. He was a
graduate of Asheville Catholic School, attended The Asheville School, and graduated from Asheville High School. He was a natural sports
athlete and excelled in soccer, tennis and basketball.
He had worked as a finish trim carpenter with his father at Maitland Construction Company and
his most recent plan was to become a boat captain and operate his charter business out of Charleston, SC. He was a member and former altar boy at the Basilica of St. Lawrence.
He is survived by his mother, Michele A. Maitland of Asheville; his father, Larry R. Maitland of Hendersonville; two brothers, Larry Robert Maitland and his wife Katrina and Andrew Dwyer
Maitland; his maternal grandmother Noreen Kavalar of Caseville, MI; his paternal grandmother, Mildred Maitland of Roseville, MI, and a number of aunts, uncles and cousins from Michigan and California.
A Funeral Mass will be celebrated at 2:00 pm Tuesday at the Basilica of St. Lawrence by the Very Reverend Wilbur N. Thomas and the Rev. Mr. Michael Zboyovski. Burial will be at Mt. Elliott Cemetery in Detroit, Michigan.
His family will receive friends from 7 - 8:30 pm Monday at the Basilica of St. Lawrence in
Asheville and request that memorials be made to Asheville Catholic School, 12 Culvern Street, Asheville, NC 28804.
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I was on the Asheville School website this morning and read the devastating news. Although Kevin and I did not part on the best of terms 4 years ago, I have thought of him frequently over the years wondering where he was and how he was doing. Despite the differences that we had during our time in Charleston together mainly due to immaturity and, for lack of a better word, stupidity, our friendship meant so much to me. I had so much fun being with Kevin. He could always find a way to make me laugh. My memories of Asheville School years all include him. They include everything from he and Bill Pollard picking on me, as young boys do, every day sophomore year in Ms. Anderson’s English class, to Kevin being bound and determined that he was going to make a soccer player out of me which I actually became decent at due to his persistancy, and to all of the road trips that we took together with our group of friends. Kevin was someone I could alway count on. He had such a good heart. I remember him discussing on several occasions his outlook on life and his strong religious beliefs. I don’t know very many teenage guys who feel comfortable enough discussing or are really even concerned about their faith in God. During the time that I knew Kevin there were some changes; however, one thing remained constant- his spiritual connection with the Lord. That always really impressed me about him. I am so saddened for your loss. I have so many good memories of him and he will truly be missed. I just wanted to express my sympathy and share a bit of how much of an impact Kevin had on my life. I have a number of photos of him with friends during high school that I would love to share with you. Please let me know if you would like me to send them to you and where.
I don’t know if you remember me or not but I was at the Asheville school
for only two years. I started in the class of 96 and ended up in your
brothers class. I was very sorry when I just read of his passing. I will
always remember Kevin as a really nice kid who always had a smile on his
face. I know he will be truly missed. My thoughts are with you and your
family.
Sincerely,
Jacob Wright
Boston, MA
I remember Kevin and Thomas Stern as being the coolest Freshman( if there is such a thing). Even though I was a junior I enjoyed Kevin’s company, he was rather pretentious, not afraid to talk to someone older. I have a little sister who came to visit school and when she meet Kevin was quite taken with him. Even though she was only twelve he was very kind to her. When school pictures came out I got one of Kevin’s for my sister. He signed the back of it for her. The beginning of his fan club I am sure. She still has it today at our mothers house. I was speaking to my mother about Kevin. She meet him once almost ten years ago and still remembers him vividly. He made quite an impression on everyone who meet him. I am living in Asheville now and saw Kevin at the Fresh Market in April. I had not seen him since I had left Asheville School. He was not the scrawny kid that I remembered him as. He told me he was living in Charleston, I believe he said you were in Vegas that weekend. I think of Kevin often. Peace be with you and your family.
Sarah Boniface Turner
Happy 26th Birthday
LARRY, KEVIN WILL ALWAYS BE IN OUR HEARTS AND PRAYERS.
WITH LOVE, AUNT JEANNE, TAMMY AND DAVID
There isn’t a day that goes by that you are not in my thoughts. I was at my grandparents farm last weekend riding on the golf cart through the fields with my children and definitely felt your presence. I’ll never forget the fun times we shared down there. You loved that golf cart!
Kevin popped into my dream last night. I’m in the jungle right now and it was a fitful,sweaty dream probably from malaria meds. When I saw Kevin my rest became peaceful. For years we were best friends and then we drifted. Two weeks before he passed we were in a bar and ran into each other in the restroom. We had a brief chat at the urinal and it was like old times. I see death everyday through my work here in Asia and I’ve learned not to be scared. Kevin had faith in his God and is with him. I look forward to seeing my boy again.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Kevin was a great friend to Robert.
To the Maitland Family:
I am very sorry. I can’t begin to imagine the pain and loss you must feel. I know mere words or canned phrases won’t ease the hurt, but know I will remember Kevin in my prayers, as I will remember you. God Bless.
Jeffrey C. Ledford
Larry, our deepest sympathy to you and your family during this tragic time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May God shine his light upon you. Cindy and William Maitland
Michele, you may not even remember me from St.Mary’s choir but Melissa emailed me this tragic news. My heart goes out to you as you cope with the worst thing that can happen to a parent. Indeed you are in my prayers as you endure your grief. I send you my love.
Michele, you may not even remember me from St.Mary’s choir but Melissa emailed me this tragic news. My heart goes out to you as you cope with the worst thing that can happen to a parent. Indeed you are in my prayers as you endure your grief. I send you my love.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time.
WE ARE DEEPLY SADDENED TO HEAR OF KEVIN’S DEATH. WE REMEMBER HIM AS BEING VERY POLITE WHILE WORKING ON OUR HOUSE. I THOUGHT HE WAS A VERY GOOD-LOOKING YOUNG MAN WITH A VERY SPECIAL DREAM. IT WAS AN HONOR AND PLEASURE TO HAVE LARRY AND KEVIN AT OUR HOUSE. WE ARE PROUD TO HAVE THEIR MARK ON OUR HOUSE AND IN OUR HEARTS. I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER ASKING KEVIN WHICH GOODIES WOULD HE LIKE FOR THE DAY. WITH A HUGE GRIN, HE SAID HE’D LIKE THE BIG CHOCOLATE CHIP COOKIE.IT WAS A TOSSUP BETWEEN THE COOKIE OR RICE CRISPIE SQUARES. I HOPE CAPTAIN KEVIN IS SAILING HIS CHARTERBOAT THROUGH PARADISE AND EATING A BIG COOKIE WITH A HUGE GRIN ON HIS HANDSOME FACE………..
SO LONG MATE, WE WILL MISS YOUR SHY SMILE AND COOL HAIR UNDER THE TOBOGGAN ………
WITH MUCH LOVE AND SADNESS,
KATHY,ROB,ADAM & HANNAH ALFORD
411 NINTH STREET
ERWIN,TN 37650
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dear aunt michele~
i remember when Andrew and Kevin came down to visit us in California. we had a great time. we even went down to Tijuana, Mexico. i thought that it was really funny when andrew bought the horn things.i love you, and i want you to know that nothing like this should have ever happened to you! but now it can only get better. My nieghbor and i have been praying all the time for you!!!i love you~ love, kate
Kevin must have been born with fishing in his genes. As long as I can remember he always loved to fish. If he wasn’t out on a pond somewhere he was in front of a T.V. watching a bass tournament or a deep sea fishing show. So naturally came his dream as a captain of a charter boat. God had other plans for Kevin though and took him to heaven. And although Kevin will be missed dearly down here I know I’ll once again see Kevin again, IN HEAVEN. Ronnie Moore
Dear Michele,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and Andrew and Larry. May God continue to hold you in his precious arms during this tragic time. Love you! Gerry Hagarty
Michelle,
My heart goes out to you and your family. Life seems so unfair, especially at a time like this when you are having to live every parent’s worst fear. I truly believe that God has a plan for us all and he must have something very special in mind for your son. I will be praying for you and your loved ones and may God give you the strength you need to make it through the days to come.
Dear Michele,
I am so sorry for the loss of your son. My prayers are with you and your family. I can’t begin to understand the pain this loss has brought your family, but I do know that the tremendous love and support of friends and family can be incredibly powerful and a source of healing. Never stop sharing your stories and memories and Kevin will always be with you.
Peace be with you,
Jennifer Roberson
(from Biltmore 1995/96)
Hi Aunt Michelle, My mom dad and I are watching the video that Larry put together of our family. I am praying for you and Uncle Lar, and I know Kevin is in God’s place now! I love you guys!
Kevin
I think of Kevin often. I know he’s your guardian angel
Love Nancy Tepatti