Kirby Ray Whitaker

July 20, 1920 ~ September 9, 2013
Resided in:
Asheville, NC
Kirby Ray Brown Whitaker was called to her heavenly home on September 9, 2013 at 4:44 a.m. She had been married to the late Lloyd G. Brown, Sr. of Colorado and Thomas H. Whitaker of Fairview, NC.
She was preceded in death by her parents, Clarence B. and Grace A. Ray of Asheville and Yancey County, NC, and two brothers, Clarence V. Ray and Vincent L. Ray, and by two of her 5 children, Donna Brown Lewis, (Samuel M. Lewis), of Marion, NC and Lee Roy Brown, Sr. (Jeanette R. Brown) of Asheville.
She is survived by three of her children, Naomi Brown Burton (Edward M. Burton) of Asheville, Lloyd G. Brown, Jr. (Diane M. Brown) of Bryson City, and Dean Brown, Sr. (Kelly B. Brown) of Clover SC.
She has 17 grandchildren and numerous great, great great and great, great, great grandchildren.
She was a Red Cross volunteer during WWII and retired from the Oteen VA Hospital. She was a member of Beverly Hills Baptist Church and taught Sunday school for many years. She was a former president of the Buncombe County WMU and a proud member of "The First Families of Buncombe County." She authored two books on the "Ray" families and helped organize the Ray Family reunion in Burnsville, NC. She was also the editor/publisher of the "Ray Family Newsletter" for many years.
A funeral service will be held Thursday, September 12, 2013 at 11 a.m. at Beverly Hills Baptist Church. Rev. Dr. Billy King and Rev. Randy Melton will officiate.
Interment will be in the Ray Family cemetery in Yancey County.
Groce Funeral Home on Tunnel Road is assisting the Whitaker family.
Kirby, We are going to miss you. Thank you for being one of the best PRAYER WARRIORS we have ever had. Thank you for being a good Mother Inlaw to me and a good Grandmother to Ted and Tim. Thank you for all the cards through years.
Love you Sam
I know that Donna &you are having a glorious time in heaven. We will miss you but will join you one sweet day. with love in Christ Betti
Dear Family,
My wife and I would like to offer our sincere condolences to you. You are in our thoughts and prayers. May God sustain you with His love through this difficult time. Phil Sorrells, Kirby’s deacon at Beverly Hills Baptist Church
I regretfully never got to know her as much as I would have liked, but she always thought of me growing up and would send me cards for my Birthday and Christmas every year. What I do remember and the times that we did spend together will forever be in my heart. I Love you, Kirby Granny.
I am very sorry to hear of the passing of Kirby. She was powerhouse in the Ray family and was a great help to me in doing my family history. She was great lady.
Since I first saw you pull a trout out of one of your local lakes near Asheville when I was very young, you were my favorite Aunt. My Dad loved you so I knew I was going to as well, and I did. You never forgot a birthday and that was hard cause you had MANY to remember! Now you are whole and without pain and we can rejoice in that. I will always love my Aunt Kirby!
Love,
Chip
Our thoughts and prayers are with the family and so sorry to hear of Kirby’s passing. Tedd & Gail Smith on behalf of Ruth Ballard Smith, Doug and Nancy Smith
So sad to find this. I didn’t know Kirby, but I was fortunate enough to have a book she did on the Ray families and it has all my family info. If anyone reads this that can help me get in touch with family, the info on any new books, the Ray reunion or any info please contact me. jonray76@gmail.com