Lois Farquharson Hayes
October 7, 1927 ~ October 3, 2023
Born in:
Buffalo, NY
Resided in:
Asheville, NC
Lois Irene Farquharson Hayes, a resident of Asheville, NC, died at home on Wednesday October 3 due to congestive heart failure.
She was born and raised in Buffalo, NY, where she attended the Park School prior to earning a Bachelor’s degree in Plant Science at Mount Holyoke College. She earned a Ph.D. in Botany at Indiana University, then became an Assistant Professor of Botany and Bacteriology at Franklin College. After taking an around-the-world trip with her best friend, she met her husband, the late Charles Marshall Hayes, an aviator. Upon marriage, they moved to the south suburbs of Chicago where they lived for four decades.
While raising her children, Lois developed a deep interest in nutrition and organic gardening. As the nest emptied, Lois returned to graduate school and earned a Master’s degree in Library Science at Rosary College, then worked as a medical librarian at the Chicago College of Osteopathic Medicine. After retirement, she enjoyed many years living with her son and his family in New Jersey and, more recently, with her daughter in North Carolina. Lois was wise, kind, giving to others, and had a delightful sense of humor that impressed all who had the good fortune of being in her life. To honor her, plant a tree, dig a garden, or enjoy a walk in the woods.
She is survived by her daughter Alison of Asheville, NC, son Stuart and grandchild Kalani of the Bronx, NY.
Services
Funeral Home Assisting The Family:
Groce Funeral Home - Patton Ave.
1401 Patton Ave.
Asheville, NC 28806
(828)252-3535
http://www.grocefuneralhome.com
Lois will be in our hearts as she was a wonderful presence in our lives.
May the light and love Lois brought to the world help heal the sadness of her loss. Wishing peace and comfort to all.
My heartfelt condolences to the Farquharson Hayes, Chen-Hayes family. It was an honor to meet Lois. I will never forget her kindness.
Lois, thank you for sharing your light in the world!
Lois and her family are lifelong friends of ours. She and Virginia enjoyed many years of exchanging letters and email. It was such a pleasure to know her and she will remain in our memories forever.
Lois was an amazing person. She was a loving & caring individual. She was a committed devotee of the Princeton Meditation Group of Self Realization Fellowship. God rest her soul in Peace.
Lois is a wonderful person with beautiful soul . I’ll always remember the joy that she brought into our lives.
Lois’s intelligence, kindness and independence are the model of contemporary women. There was a lot of gain in the time she share to me. I will miss her forever.
Lois loved the chant “His Love Is Marching On”. Whenever we sing it at the Princeton Meditation Group’s Chapel, I will think fondly of her.
May wonderful memories sustain you as you celebrate a long, full life.