Robert "Bob" Jeffrey Carr

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March 7, 1945 ~ February 2, 2024

Born in: Albany, New York
Resided in: Asheville, North Carolina

On February 2, 2024, Robert “Bob” Jeffrey Carr – the longtime owner of Tops for Shoes who played a pivotal role in the revitalization of Downtown Asheville in North Carolina – passed away from Parkinson’s disease in Asheville. He was 78 and surrounded by his family.

Under Bob’s leadership, Tops for Shoes became a Downtown Asheville anchor institution that attracts customers from throughout the Southeastern United States and is known for its wide selection, full-service and exceptional staff with decades-long tenures.

As a past chair of the Asheville Downtown Commission, Asheville Merchants Association and Bele Chere festival, he helped to orchestrate the transformation of Downtown Asheville during the 1980s and ‘90s from a ghost town into a thriving business district and tourist destination.

Bob was born in Albany, New York on March 7, 1945, to the late Theodore and Eleanor Carr and raised in St. Petersburg, Florida. He was also preceded in death by his sister Joanne.

After serving in the U.S. Air Force for four years, he graduated with honors from the University of Florida with a Bachelor of Arts degree in Journalism. He then earned a Master of Science degree in Broadcast Journalism from Syracuse University’s Newhouse School of Public Communications, which he attended on a full academic scholarship and graduated from first in his program.

Bob started his career as a television announcer for the CBS affiliate in Atlanta, Georgia where he met and married Ellen, whose parents – Louis and Sylvia Resnikoff – founded what became Tops for Shoes in 1953. When Louis’ health started to decline in the 1970s, he called on Bob and Ellen to move from Atlanta to help run the business.

Bob and Ellen expanded Tops for Shoes in the early 1980s from 3,000 to more than 30,000 square feet, at a time when other stores located downtown were either closing or flocking to the Asheville Mall. Tops for Shoes is now run by their son Alex.

Bob also served on the board of directors of Mission Hospital and the Community Foundation of Western North Carolina, among others, as well as a president of Beth Israel Synagogue and member of the Rhododendron Royal Brigade of Guards.

He was deeply loved by and most proud of his family. He is survived by his wife Ellen of 50 years; children Teddy, Dana and her husband Jan, and Alex and his wife Lauren; grandchildren Zoe, Jack, and Allison; brother Lloyd and his wife Irene; and nephews Edward and Charles.

A funeral service will be held at 1:30 p.m. on Sunday, February 4, 2024, at Congregation Beth HaTephila (43 N. Liberty St., Asheville, NC 28801) with grave site burial to follow at Lou Pollock Memorial Park (N. Louisiana Ave., Asheville, NC 28806).

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in his name to MANNA Food Bank in Asheville or the Asheville Area Habitat for Humanity.

Groce Funeral Home’s Lake Julian team is assisting the family.

Services

Funeral Service: February 4, 2024 1:30 pm

Congregation Beth HaTephila
43 N. Liberty Street
Asheville, NC 28801


Burial:

Lou Pollock Memorial Park
Louisiana Ave.
Asheville, NC 28806

(828)285-9995

Funeral Home Assisting The Family:

Groce Funeral Home at Lake Julian
72 Long Shoals Road
Arden, NC 28704

(828)687-3530
http://www.grocefuneralhome.com

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  1. We are so sorry for the loss to the Carr family. There are many great things that Mr. Carr had a hand in. He was a strong force in the footwear industry. He will be missed.

  2. Our thoughts and prayers go out to the Carr family a great family to work for Bob will be greatly missed

  3. Dear Ellen and family, I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your Husband, Father and Grandfather. Please know that my thoughts are with you!

  4. Oh, Ellen, I’m so very sorry. I’m sending my best to you and your entire family. My prayers will be with you.

  5. To say this family is part of the fabric of my life is an understatement.My beloved Father “Mr D” was part of the team that made Lexington Avenue a destination Defying trends and that 4 letter word “MALL” Tops thrived and continues to set the standard of Style Community and Business Ellen was pregnant at my Bat Mitzvah in 1975.May his memory be a blessing a lesson and may his family know peace Dawn Dubinsky Goodfriend

  6. I worked for Mr Carr in the business office back in the late 80’s. He was literally the best boss you could ever work for. He led by example. He was on the floor fitting shoes, stocking in the back. He never asked us to do anything he wasn’t willing to do himself. I loved working for him. I am so sad to hear of his passing but what a legacy he has left for his family and for Asheville.

  7. Ellen, Teddy, Dana, and Alex, I am so sorry for your loss. Bob was such a kind soul and I have fond memories of our time together in my childhood. I am keeping you all in my prayers.

  8. So sorry to hear about Bob’s passing. He was a visionary and a person who had many positive attributes. Taking care of his employees and giving back to the community are two that I always thought of over the years when Bob’s name came up. In some of my community fund-raising efforts for local non-profits, Bob was always generous in helping out those in need. My condolences to Ellen and the family during this difficult time.

  9. Oh, dear Ellen. We are saddened to learn of the death of Bob. We know that this is such a huge loss, for you, for your family, for the Tops for Shoes family and for the Asheville community. It is a clear reminder of the finality of life for all of us and takes us back through so many good memories of our friendship with you, that now spans more than 60 years. May you feel our support, care and love going forward and know that our prayers for you and your family will not end.

  10. Dear Ellen, I have just now learned of Bob’s passing-Sandy and I are so sorry . Please know that you and your family are in our prayers


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