Roscoe Edward Conner

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Roscoe Edward Conner, 87, of 28 Nebraska Avenue, Asheville, graduated Wednesday, January 19, 2005, at Hospice Solace Center. A native of Rutherford County, he was a son of the late Thomas Gordon and Bertha Price Conner and was preceded in death by three brothers, L.M., Paul and Bruce Conner; two grandchildren, Brian Swayngim and Debbie Swayngim. He was founder and pastor of Faith Tabernacle since 1953 and also worked as a builder. Survivors include his wife of 66 years, Grace Curd Conner; two daughters, Betty Swayngim and husband Bob; Blanche Eller and husband John; two sons, Ben and wife Marcia and Brent and wife Karen; three sisters, Ann Husted, Louise Hines and Lib Alford; seven grandchildren, 10 great-grandchildren and three great-great-grandchildren. A memorial service will be held at 4:00 pm Saturday in the Patton Avenue chapel of Groce Funeral Home with the Revs. Al Riggs and Jerry Watts officiating. The family will greet friends following the service until 6:00 pm. Memorials may be made to Mountain Area Hospice, PO Box 25338, Asheville, NC 28813.

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  1. Blanche and family, I am sorry to hear of your Dad’s passing. While we know he is in a better place it does not ease the hurt of missing him. It is so difficult to give up the wish that you can always have your parent with you, but all of the wonderful memories of that time on earth with him will comfort you……

    God bless you all
    with Love and Sympathy

    Linda Goldstein

  2. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. I am going to miss Roscoe (‘Preacher Conner’) and the always knowing that he was there if he was needed. I’m sure, as the saying goes, that he was
    ‘The Real Deal’.

  3. Dear Grace And Family members, My love and prayers are with you at this time of sorrow. Grace, I have known you and R.E.as long as I can remember, and you have toched my life through the power of Jesus Christ.I can still see Brother Conner and his mother singing ‘Ananias, tell me what kind a man that Jesus is’.Yes, we do grieve,but we have many happy memories of days gone by. We are blessed to know it won’t be long untill we will be with the lord Jesus and our loved who are waiting for our arrival.This is the hope we as Christians have. I am here for you anytime,day or night. Your brother in Christ, Ray Woodby

  4. To Nanny and the rest of my family. I am sorry I could not be there with all of you to say goodbye to Papaw. I know he loved all of us just as we are and in return I loved him just as he was, knowing that none of us is perfect in life. In Papaw’s passing this is one of the things I have come to learn, love, and appreciate about him. Papaw will be greatly missed but always be part of us. Love to you all. My heart and thoughts are with you. Shelly

  5. To R. E. my Pastor, long life best friend who was always there for me and my family thanks for everything.
    Words can’t say how much I love and already miss you.

  6. Blanche,

    You and your family are in my prayers over the passing of your father. Your father was so well known and so loved over the years he will be sorely missed by all in the community and by all those from his Churches that he pastored.

    Barbara

  7. Conner Family,

    I am the Son of Bob Conner who lives in Candler, NC which was Roscoe’s cousin. I remember the Faith Tabernacle when I was growing up in Candler, NC. I joined the Army in 1984 and just retired in January 2005. My family and I would like to offer our gratitude to Rev Conner for all of the lives he and his familiy have touched over the many years he has served GOD! This is a bitter sweet occasion but must come to pass for us all. We are not promised tomorrow but too our Graduation Day will come as did Rev Conner’s. Please pray for me and my familiy as we lift up your family in this time of sorrow. I lost my Mother, Margaret (Grooms) Conner to cancer when I was 6 years old. Though I can’t remember her, she made a positive impact in my life for the short 6 years. I’m sure Roscoe and Momma are cutting a rug on those streets of Gold!!!!!! May God give you the strength to move ahead and celebrate the 86 years Roscoe was with you all….God Bless you all.

  8. Blanche and Family,
    I am so sorry for the loss of your Father. I can remember him when I was a little girl and that seemed just like yesterday. He is now in peace and in a really wondeerful place. I know all of you will miss him, but you will always have those ‘Precious Memories.’

  9. Blanche,
    I’m not sure when you’ll get the chance to read this, but I want you to know just how sorry I am for you and your whole family. Mom told me that you were all with him when he passed, which I know gives you tremendous peace. I’m so happy to hear that he decried all his loved ones that were awaiting his arrival on the other side. This is such a blessing for you and all others to hear him describe the family members awaiting his arrival. You will see him again..and in the meantime…he’ll be busy catching up with old friends and family members that are so glad to see him again! Truly, I think the grief and sadness we experience is merely from the standpoint that it is us that is left behind and alone to go on without them. They are really the lucky one in all of this. We’re just left holding the bag, and we don’t like it one bit! Life would be so much easier if we could believe this and really allow this faith to consume our being, rather than slipping up and letting the grief turn us into putty. It’s hard to be strong and maintain ones convictions every moment of the day…and still function in this fast paced and negative existence. I guess this is the time we are in need of weekly church visits, or keeping up with our readings that keep us grounded.
    Well, sorry to be so wordy. I just wanted to tell you how beautiful that photo of your Mom and Dad was! I remember your mentioning it at the shop last time, and when I saw it…I knew immediately that this was it. Both of them looked so good and happy together. Have peace in knowing that there was love between them. If there is anything at all that I can do now or even later, please feel free to let me know. You’ve had to do a lot of driving these last few months, so I know you are worn out. I’ll be thinking about your entire family!
    Much Love,
    Rene’

  10. So sorry to hear about Preacher Connor. My sister, Peggy (Rogers)Butler called and told me that she had spoke to Mary Robinson. I have fond memories of the years we had with the Connors’ while living in Asheville, NC. My mother Dollie Rogers passed away in ’95. I was married to Bill Huie (who sang with many of the top gospel music groups in the 50’s & 60’s and he passed away in ’92. My deepest sympathy goes out to the entire family. I just lost a son 1 month ago (Rusty Rogers) who was 44, so I know what loss you must feel. Take care and May God gless all of you.

    Norma Jean (Rogers) Huie

  11. It has been so very hard to watch you leave our presence. However, I will always cherish the last months of time I shared with you. With your passing, I have found a peace that you are in God’s loving hands.

    Love forever,
    Blanche

  12. RE,

    I love you, I’m going to miss you, may God keep you in his loving care. I’ll see you on the other side.

    Love,
    Grace

  13. Roscoe,

    When I think of the word ‘dignified’ it makes me think of you. I thank God for letting me visit with you one more time this past Monday and for letting me hear the sermon that you preached in Texas that we have on tape. What a message! I will miss you and think of you often, but when we do meet again, it will be forever. I will always love you. Rest with the angels, Judy

  14. BLANCHE AND BEN….

    I THINK OF BOTH OF YOU OFTEN, BUT MY THOUGHTS WERE GREATLY EXACERBATED THIS MORNING WHEN I READ THE PAPER. I SEND MY LOVE AND SYMPATHY TO YOU AND ALL OF YOUR FAMILY MEMBERS.

    LOVE AND KISSES…..
    PIPPA

  15. We will miss you. You will always be in our hearts with the great teaching you placed there.
    Thank you.
    Mahdeen

  16. My Pastor My Friend, I thank you for all the love that you have shared through the years. The projection that you taught me is something that could have only come from someone that lived to let his light shine.You have touched my life in a way that only you could. The love that we shared was ordained by GOD. His hand on your life and mine is what made it special. Always remember who loves you. I do
    Trish

  17. Conner’s Family,
    God called a good man Home.He will be missed by all the people down here,But GOD needed him more. God bless all of you.
    Mary Rose Hagood

  18. Papa,
    I am so glad that you let me share on your ‘journey’ to heaven. I would not have missed it for the world. I miss you terribly, but I know ‘Big Guy’ ……You are now walking those streets of gold and singing with that choir of angels you kept telling us about.
    I love you!!
    Tammmy

  19. Papa,
    I am so glad that you let me share on your ‘journey’ to heaven. I would not have missed it for the world. I miss you terribly, but I know ‘Big Guy’ ……You are now walking those streets of gold and singing with that choir of angels you kept telling us about.
    I love you!!
    Tammy

  20. Papa,
    I am so honored to know that I was your’s and Nanny’s first great granddaughter and to know you got to know your first great-granddaughter! Bobby is also honored to have met you and we’re both honored you were able to say a prayer at our wedding. We will love you and miss you!
    Love
    Shan, Bobby and Mai

  21. Tammy and family..
    (A friend of Tammies)
    My deepest sympathy to all of you. God bless and keep you you in his love, and peace in the months and years ahead. He’s resting, peaceful, and smiling beautifully I’m sure. Tammy from reading the guestbook, your ‘Papa’ sounds like a beautiful ‘Man of God’.. I say sounds..because he still is..forever in glory! You all were so blessed to have him as a husband, father, grand and great father. I feel blessed just having read the guestbook! God’s love and blessings always. Special hug Tam ok, to your (((((Grandma)))))) God be with her.

    Love in Jesus, Jan

  22. Papaw Conner,
    It’s been a long journey for you here on earth but to think that you have just now started your new journey in Heaven excites me beyond belief. I know you are now where you can be happy and share in all of God’s many blessings just like you did here on earth. I am truly blessed to have known you for the last 22 years and I look forward to meeting you again in Heaven. Christian is so glad to have met you and your great-great grandsons will always know who their Papaw Conner was. I will always think of you when I look into Connor’s eyes, just as blue as yours, and he will know how much of an honor it was to have been named for his great-great grandfather and grandmother. You and Nanny are my inspirations.
    We miss you dearly,
    Jennifer, Christian, Nate & Connor Jones

  23. I’d like you all to know I have fond memories of the Conner Family & I send my sympathies at the loss of Roscoe. God has a Plan & we are all included in it. I look forward to us all being together in God’s Kingdom if not in this life. I love you all & will pray for God’s peace & comfort for your loss. Take Care!!

  24. I sure am going to miss the sweetest brother that anyone could ever have. I know that he has gone to a better place and that I will see him again one day.

    Love,
    Lib

  25. We’re sorry that we are unable to be there, but all of you are in our thoughts and prayers. Uncle Roscoe was a very caring man who never met a stranger in his life. We’re sure he will be missed by many!

    Love,
    Diane, Heather, and Family

  26. Sorry that we are unable to be with you guys, but you are all definately in our prayers.

    Love,
    Billy, Tina, William, and Hunter

  27. Just wanted to let all of you know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.

    Love,
    Cathy and Stacy

  28. My late sister-in-law, LaVenia Smith played the piano for Rev Conner before she left Asheville and I attended services with her on several occasions and felt so welcomed. He indeed was a blessed man and truly a good human being. May God continue blessing his family.

  29. All I can think of when I think of Brother Conner, is that great big smile that always welcomed everyone into his presence. He always just bubbled over with such a spirit of joy. A joy that he was always willing to share and let it pass from his heart right onto yours.
    And I know that his life always was an example of what he preached, that being love without condemnation.
    He followed the great example of our heavenly father, in that he would love and accept people right where they were, and then encourage them to try and walk a little higher in life.
    I know that most of the greatest things that he accomplished were not always just through the sermons that he preached in the church, but more often were just a few simple words spoken to someone caught in the midst of a battle, words that often would change the direction of that persons life.
    I know that he accepted me back in the 1970’s when I was just a recently saved long haired hippie, someone that most preachers didn’t even want to darken the doors of their church, much less welcome them and embrace their life like a father would his own child.
    I know that he was a sower of the word of God, and many of the seeds that he planted will not reach the mature stage that others will see for maybe many years to come. The greatest thing that Brother Conner taught me is that it is alright to laugh at yourself every now and then, and don’t be afraid to be honest and just be your self. He said that it is easir to be yourself than to try and act like somebody else.
    I know that he would not want us to be sad, because he is walking with Jesus today, but still it is very hard to see such a bright and joyful person, graduate on out of this world, because there will always be a void there until we get to see that great big smiling face again.
    I hope that if Brother Conner has given me nothing else in the few years I was allowed to know him, he gave me the ability to just pick my self up and smile and walk on with God.
    I pray that God’s blessing and His great comforting presence of love and grace, will be greatly upon Grace and all of the family, friends and loved one of Brother Conner.
    I can remember how when Brother Conner would dedicate our babies, that he would hold them up in one of those great big hands and smile with joy and pride as he would offer the little child to God. I know that now Our heavenly Father is holding Roscoe up in his great big hand and showing him off to all that are in heaven.
    We love you!
    Tommy, Kristie, Thomas, Levi and Caleb Propest

  30. I will always remember how Roscoe taught me to always ‘touch’ the people who came into my life. He would say, ‘touch them with your love or your spirit, just be sure you touch them.’

    Roscoe you have forever touched my heart and I will always be grateful you shared a special place in my life. One day we will sit and talk again about your favorite topic ‘Love’. I will see you on the other side.

    Grace, you and the Faith Tabernacle family will be in my thoughts and prayers. I am sorry I could not be there.

    Lenny & Lovell

  31. I pray that God will give all of you the strength and support you need to make it throught his difficult time. God Bless!

  32. We all know our time on this earth is limited…however, only the special ones make this time truly meaningful.

    Roscoe was one of the special ones…a tower of faith and a larger-than-life force who spread the gospel of love, tolerance and forgiveness in the name of his Lord. He was a powerfully effective messenger to deliver the perfect message.

    While we know he is with his God in heaven and walking with his Mother and old friends, he will be missed by his family and those whom he touched here on earth…a happy but sad time.

    It’s the way of the special ones.

  33. I would like to sent best wishes and love to the family of Roscoe.
    He performed my wedding ceremony in 1980 and has been a wonderful and inspirational guide for my daughter. She truly loves and respects him. I really appreciate his love for God and his dedication for leading people to Christ. I always remember hearing him preach about his graduation. He will receive his award.

  34. Tammy and Family
    My Love and prayers are with you at this sad time in your lives..I have read of how your Papa inspired so many people including My Dad and a used to be a very good neighbor of mine Diane and Harry I read..He was loved by many Tammy and he is well and happy now..Call me if I can do anything.Love to you and your family

  35. To the Family of R.E.Conner: I, Nancy Painter Hyatt, have known Roscoe since I was just a kid.I remember when I lived on State St.in West Asheville, and I went into the Tent he then had on State St. I remember the sawdust floors…..Then Locke came into my life and we built the house across the Street from Grace and Roscoe..Locke has helped Roscoe on many of his Construction jobs…and I am proud to say that we attended Faith Tabernacle Church while Roscoe was preaching….Then the friendship grew and we became closer and closer. Only a few months ago, he brought the ‘Sunday School’ offering in a Jar for me to count it. He always got me to do that for him…and Locke has worked on his cars for him….I could type all nite and not tell of all the things that we have done with Roscoe and the time we have spent with him and his Precious ‘Princess’ (His dog that he Dearly loved).I remember we told him where to go get Princess when he said he wanted a dog……One thing I can say for sure is there was a time in my life that HE WAS THERE WHEN I NEEDED HIM….
    He will be missed sorely by us and we want all of you to know how much we loved him.. You have our Deepest Sympathy….and We will all see Roscoe when we have the Great Honor of ‘Graduating’…….May God Be with all of you
    Love and Prayers, Locke and Nancy Hyatt…..

  36. I have never met a man like Bro Conner. He was always a joy to be around. He made everyone feel special! He was so special to us. We will miss him, but we cherish the memories of him, until we meet again in Heaven!Here’s a poem in his memory:I’m Free:Don’t grieve for me, for now i’m free.I’m following the path God laid for me.I took his hand when i heard him call.I turned my back and left it all.I could not stay another day To laugh to love,to work or play.Tasks undone must stay that way.I found that peace at close of day.If my parting has left a void,Then fill it with remembered joy.A friendship shared, a laugh, a kiss,Ah, yes,these thing to I will miss.Be not burdened with times of sorrow I wish you the sunshine of tomorrow.My life’s been full, I’ve savored much,Good friends, good times,A loved one’s touch.Perhaps my time seemed all to breif,Don’t lengthen it now with undue grief.Lift up your hearts and share with me. God wanted me now,He set me free


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