Ruby Estelle Redmon Faulkner

ruby estelle faulkner
Ruby Estelle Redmon Faulkner, 78, of 4 Deer Cove Lane, Arden, passed away Thursday, February 9, 2012, after a brief but courageous battle with colon cancer. She was preceded in death by her parents, P.F. and Stella Bowlin Redmon as well as brothers Preston, Dean, and Arthur Redmon, sister Oneva Redmon Parker, and her first born daughter Deborah Ann Faulkner. Mrs. Faulkner was born on Halloween of 1933 on the Biltmore Estate in Asheville, NC, where her father was a dairy farmer. After high school she attended Blanton's Business College, and at 19 began employment for Nabisco Brands, until retiring in 1992. In 1957, she married Bruce Faulkner, who will celebrate his 78th birthday on Tues., Feb. 14th, 2012, and celebrated 54 years of marriage on November 16, 2011. She loved to travel, and together during their marriage they traveled extensively to the 48 contiguous states and also to British Colombia and Nova Scotia, Canada. Ruby loved the Lord with all her heart and made it a daily practice to awaken at 4:30 am each morning for devotions, which she continued up until Tuesday, Feb. 7, 2012. In addition to her husband, she is survived by a daughter, Darlene Penland and husband David; special son Colin Thornley; and grandson Ryan Landon. A funeral service will be held at 3:30 pm Sunday, February 12, 2012, at Bent Creek Baptist Church, with Rev. Tommy Bridges, Rev. Dr. Ian Walker, and Rev. Dr. David Desforge officiating. Interment will follow in the church cemetery. Her family will receive friends beginning at 2:00 p.m. Sunday at the church. The family wishes to express a heartfelt thank you for the tireless dedication to mom's comfort to: Dr. Bill Snoddy and the staff at Asheville Family Medical; Dr. Thomas Bond, Dr. Anita Deshpande and staff at Cancer Care Center of NC; Four Seasons Hospice, and the staff and doctors of the Elizabeth House; her "sisters" Linda Stewart, Marjorie Stevens, Peggy Drake, and Mary Duck; and a special thanks also to Kim Cox, Dawn Crowley, Larry Landon, and Kim Henderson for kindness and support during moms illness. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to the Billy Graham Evangelistic Association, 1 Billy Graham Parkway, Charlotte, NC 28201-0001, and/or to Bent Creek Baptist Church, 1554 Brevard Rd., Asheville, NC 28806. Groce Funeral Home on Patton Ave. is assisting the family.

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  1. Darlene and Family, We are so sorry for your loss, our thoughts and prayers are with you. Death leaves a heartache no one can heal,Love leaves a memory no one can steal.

  2. Thoughts and prayers for your family during this difficult time. Please take comfort in the fact that she is well and happy before the Lord now. I know you will hear this a million times but somehow it made me feel better several months ago when I lost my mother. Love from The Mercers

  3. Bruce, Darlene and Ryan: I have lost a dear friend and neighbor. I will miss her so much. We have had so many good times. Eula and I want you to know you are in our thoughts and prayers. God bless.

  4. You are in my prayers Darlene. Love you so much you have such peace in you and i knw this too shall past. I want to say be strong but until you’ve been where you and i have it’s not that easy. All i can say i’m here if you need me.

  5. Darlene, it was such a blessing to get to know your mother. We had a few laughs near the end. She loved you dearly and expressed that to me. What an awesome expression of love you showed not only your mother but also to your father during this difficult time, always thinking of them before you did yourself. I pray that you continue to receive comfort during this hard time and know that we love you and your family and you are remaining in our prayers.

  6. Bruce and Darlene: i am so sorry for the passing
    of Ruby. i will always remember working for her
    at nabisco. may she rest in heavenly peace.

    pete stauffer .

    po box 88 leicester n.c.

  7. Bruce and Darlene: i am so sorry for the passing
    of Ruby. i will always remember working for her
    at nabisco. may she rest in heavenly peace.

    pete stauffer .

    po box 88 leicester n.c.

  8. Darlene so sorry for your loss. Ruby holds a special place in my heart. Ruby always let her light shine for the lord and love. I will cherish the memories of her teaching me in sunday school, taking me to the movies, going to her house, always seeing laughter and love in Ruby. You & Bruce will be in my thoughts and prayers.

  9. My thoughts and prayers are with you doing this difficult time. May you find comfort in Gods promises. God Bless and hugs to You all.

  10. My heart goes out to each and everyone of you. Darlene is me sweet, dear, wonderful friend. She is a blessing to so many around her. I am very proud of you, Darlene! You took EXCELLENT care of your mother. May she rest in peace <3 (I am sorry I can't be there for you during this tough time...I have to work this weekend 7-7.) Please know your in my thoughts and prayers. Love you. Danielle <3

  11. My thoughts and prayers are with you doing this difficult time. May you find comfort in Gods promises. God Bless and hugs to You all.

  12. Darlene and family, we are so sorry for your loss, but just know your mom isn’t sick anymore. She is with Jesus and you can only imagine how happy she is. You are all in our prayers.

  13. Hi Darlene I know what you are going through as well as others who have lost love ones. Just keep your eyes focused on GOD and he will see you through. He won’t let you go through it alone. Be strong in GOD and be blesssed. LOVE YOU

  14. Darlene~Keep living and keep loving. I’m sure that is what your mother would have wanted. Here if you need me. Love and prayers!

  15. Bruce & family,we will miss Ruby so much but we know she is home with our Lord now. Will remember all the good times of traveling together & all the laughter. Praying for peace & comfort in the days ahead.

  16. So sorry to hear about a dear friend and lovely christion lady going home to be with Jesus. Bruce you and the family are in our prayers

  17. Bruce & Darlene & Family
    We are so sorry to hear about Ruby. Your entire family has always been so special to us. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. She was a wonderful Christian woman, and I know she is in the presence of Jesus and is rejoicing with Debbie!

  18. Bruce and Darlene, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Ruby was an amazing lady and I loved visiting with her everytime we came to Bent Creek. She had an amazing way of reaching out to everyone through cards, phone calls and hugs. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
    Rae Payne Parker and family

  19. Darlene and Family,

    You are in my thoughts and I pray for comfort during these difficult times.

    Much Love,
    Nicki

  20. Bruce and the Faulkner Family:

    We express our condolences to you in the loss of Ruby. Ruby was an inspiration to us and a wonderful person. We know in hearts she is with our Lord and Savior and enjoying peace and comfort in Heaven, no more suffering. Ruby is with family and friends who have gone ahead to prepare her coming and will great her with open arms.

    Bruce, please know we are here for you and anything we can do to help during this time please let us know.

    Arleen is very sick today so we will probably not be able to attend the services, but our prayers and thoughts are with you.

    Our deepest condolences,
    Arlo and Arleen Jennings

  21. Darlene, David, Ryan & Family,
    The Lord is with you at this crossroad in your lives, he is with your Mom now. Just find some peace knowing that she is no longer suffering from any pain and she is with her Lord and Savior watching over you all. The days ahead may seem wrought with grief, but you have lots of friends and family who love you and want to be there for you if you need them. You are in our prayers. God Bless! Love, Charlene & Kierstin Taylor

  22. Bruce, Darlene and family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Ruby was a very special lady and will always be remembered for her thoughtfulness to others and warm smile.

  23. Bruce, Darlene & family,

    Our hearts go out to you. Please know that you are in our prayers, and in our hearts.

    Ruby was a wonderful person, and loved by us and so many others.

    His Love,

    Julian & Norma

  24. We know you will miss Ruby here on this earth but one day we will all be with her in heaven. We love you all

  25. Bruce and Family–We have been praying for Miss Ruby and the family for some time now, and are saddened to learn of your loss. We will now pray for the Lord’s mercies and encouragement for the whole family in these days ahead. We will see her again with the Lord in glory! God bless you all. Much love, Andy, Leigh, and the girls

  26. To Ruby’s family and loved ones,
    My sincere sympathy. She will be missed.
    She was so good at helping with our reunions.
    Sincerely,
    Myra Ramsey

  27. Dearest Bruce, I am so very sorry to hear about Ruby! She was such a special lady and will be so missed!! I’ll always remember when mama kept Debbie and Darlene. All of you held such a special place in her heart! I’ll never forget that sweet smile and she always had a kind word every time I saw her! I’m praying for you and Darlene! Love in Christ, Donna


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