Ruth Ballinger Wolter

April 10, 1920 ~ January 22, 2014
Resided in:
West Asheville, NC
Wanda Ruth Ballinger Wolter, 93, of West Asheville, died Wednesday, January 22, 2014, at Heritage Lodge in Hendersonville.
A native of Knoxville, TN, she was a daughter of the late Edgar and Clara Popejoy Ballinger.
She was preceded in death by her husband of 60 years, William F. Wolter; two sisters, Allene Fielden, of Port Huron, MI, and Madge Kissinger, of Asheville; and a brother, Popejoy Ballinger, of Asheville.
She is survived by a son, Bill Wolter and wife Lynn, of Woodinville, WA; a daughter, Susie Shaw and husband Chris, of Asheville. She is also survived by five grandchildren: Art Wolter (Katie), of Edmonds, WA, Josh Wolter (Heidi) of Brentwood, TN, Mark Wolter (Betsy) of Nashville, TN, Rebecca Shaw, of Montreat, NC, and Christopher Shaw, of Atlanta, GA; and six great-grandchildren: Ruby, Violet, and Georgia Wolter, of Brentwood, TN, and Yisaak, Maggie, and Nathan Wolter of Edmonds, WA.
Mrs. Wolter was a member of West Asheville Baptist Church, where she taught a children's Sunday school class for many years, sang in the choir, and played piano for Sunday school and preschool choir. She was in the Joyful Noise Band, and she and her husband Bill entertained for many events at the piano.
A memorial service for Mrs. Wolter will be held at 3:00 p.m. on Saturday, May 3, 2014, at West Asheville Baptist Church.
A graveside service was held Wednesday, January 29, at 2:00 p.m. at Pisgah View Memorial Park, 1529 Smoky Park Highway, Candler, NC. The Rev. Dr. Stan Welch will officiated.
Memorial gifts may be made to: Day Stay at Hominy Baptist Church, 135 Candler School Rd., Candler, NC 28715; Heritage Hills Association, Heritage Lodge Employee's Fund, 3200 Heritage Circle, Hendersonville, NC 28791; or to the West Asheville Baptist Church Music Ministry, 926 Haywood Rd., Asheville, NC 28806.
Groce Funeral Home on Patton Ave. is assisting her family.
Ruth was a wonderful friend and neighbor. She never failed to be thoughtful and kind, and she always had time to sit down over coffee and visit. I feel privileged to have known her.
Susie, So very sorry to read of your mother’s passing. I remember her as a very sweet and friendly lady and she was always nice to me. Thinking of, and praying for you and your family.
To the family of Ruth, I was blessed to know your Mother for a short time. I was the volunteer from Care Partners that visited with her for a time. We last were together the afternoon of January 22nd and she was still helping me sing. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Susie and family, Please know that our hearts and prayers are with you. I know you are looking forward to the day when you can once again hear her playing the piano with that sassy little grin. She made me smile every time I saw her. One more family member waiting for you in Heaven!
Susie and family
The ties of pure love are never separated even in death.
Mom’s love never leaves us, memories will fill your heart
remember to grieve and be full of God’s Grace with your
Grace Church Folks.
Dear Susie & family,
I was just thinking about you mom the other day & our days in choir & so many other times together! I know you will miss her & you’re all in my prayers!
I recently read about the death of your loved one. How hard it is to lose someone close to your heart. The bible provides us comfort at Revelation 21: 4 which mentions in Gods due time he will wipe away death and sickness. What an encouraging promise. For more encouraging thoughts please visit http://www.jw.org.
I am a local bible student and I am so sorry for your loss. There is a very encouraging scripture at Isaiah 25:8 that says soon God will swallow up death forever and will wipe away all of the tears. So we can all look forward to a time when death will be no more. I hope that this scripture can bring some comfort during these difficult times to come.
Please accept my sincere condolences in the loss of your loved one death itself is an enemy to all mankind when it touches you personally.. The Bible brings comfort at John 5:28,29 & Psalms 55:22.. ‘ Throw your burden upon God & he will sustain you.
My condolences to the family,
There are no words tho ease the pain of grief. May you be comforted by ‘the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of tender mercies and the God of all comfort.’ ( 2 Corinthians 1:3,4) ‘Draw close to God and he will draw close to you.’ (James 4:8) Sincere condolences for you loss.