May 1, 1948 ~ April 25, 2005

Born in: Buncombe Co.,
Resided in: Asheville, NC

Shirley Jeanette Jones, 56, of 18 Sun Haven Drive, Asheville, formerly of Revere Road, Marshall, died Monday, April 25, 2005, at her home. Mrs. Jones was born in Buncombe County and was a daughter of Pansy Hart Cox of Candler and the late Robert Cox. She was a former manager for Tupperware and operated the Quality Roofing Company. In addition to her mother she is survived by her husband Grady Jones; two daughters Wanda R. Rosser of Asheville and Tanya Jones Gibbs and her husband Michael of Leicester; four sons, Robbie Mitchell Raines of Enka, Scottie Raines of Leicester, Grady Harold Jones, Jr. of Asheville and David Jones of Fairview; one sister Carol Frisbee of Candler; four brothers Blaine Cox of Candler, Richard Cox of Hendersonville, Ray Cox of Canada and Dale Cox of Leicester; twenty-three grandchildren and two great-grandchildren. A funeral service will be at 2:00 p.m. Wednesday in the Patton Avenue chapel of Groce Funeral Home with the Rev. Roy Houston and the Rev. Roy Gillis officiating. Burial will be at Pisgah View Memorial Park. Her family will receive friends from 7:00 to 8:30 p.m. Tuesday at the funeral home.

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  1. Grady and family, So sorry to hear of Jeanette passing, She was a super nice lady, and you all were nice neighbors to have in Revere, You are in our thoughts and Prayers.
    Clinton and Lanie

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  2. Hey Jeanette, I gave mama 2 red roses for her birthday and told her one was from you and one was from me. That made her happy. I think about you often. The holidays are coming up and I get depressed and you were the only one I could talk too. You were my best friend. Christmas will soon be here and I know you enjoyed shopping for presents. Please look after mama when her times. She’s tired and I can tell she feels like giving up. We made each other a promise and I’m still waiting on you. I miss you Jeanette so much and I feel all alone without my sister. Just wanted to say I love you and I think about you everyday. I know you are happy there and not hurting anymore. I am so thankful for that. Happy holidays and I’ll never forget you.

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  3. Merry Christmas Sis! I wish you was here to go shopping with me. I know you liked to do that. I am sitting here being depressed and do not have you to talk too. Christmas is a bad time for me cause I have lost so many people. I am still waiting on you to get in touch with me. Remember you promised me. I miss you so much and wish you were here. I know you are happy and not sick anymore but it still hurts losing my only sister. I look at our pictures when we were little and go back to those days and then up to the day you left us. There is alot of memories there. I hope I never lose those. I love you Jeanette and miss you really really bad! I think of you everyday. I will see you again so wait on me by the river as we planned. Merry Christmas Jeanette and I will always love you cause you are the best sister anyone could have.

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  4. hey lady. just wanted to write u. god do i miss u so much. i wish u were here with me so u could give me a hug and tell me its all gonna be ok. i went and seen mammaw and she wasnt looking to good. i hope the best for her and i love her alot. mom its not easy without u here i thought i would be with u longer then i got to be but i want u to know that u are the best mom anyone could ask for. u always put us before anyone and thats how i am with my kids.’thanks to u’ it just sucks that im having to go on without u, but i know u will always be watching over me so that im happy for and the fact that i will see u again when the time is right. i love ya mom and ill talk to u later. telll everyone up there hello and i miss them to!!

    love ya always and forever, tonya

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  5. I was sitting here wishing so bad I could talk to you. You are my sister and my best friend. It hurts so much not having you here. No one will ever know the pain I feel. I miss you so much! There’s
    not a day that goes by that I don’t think about you. You will always be with me. I love you and we will meet again I promise.

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  6. hey mom. i love u and miss u alot. allisonn said hey and she misses u , they all do. tiffany misses u as much as i do !!!!!! anyway , keep watching over mammaw shes not doing so good.tell god to help her through and not to let her suffer! i love u lady. will write back soon. floridas great! the kids r still ding great also, but u know that love ya always, ur daughter ,tonya

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  7. hey mom. i love u and miss u alot. allisonn said hey and she misses u , they all do. tiffany misses u as much as i do !!!!!! anyway , keep watching over mammaw shes not doing so good.tell god to help her through and not to let her suffer! i love u lady. will write back soon. floridas great! the kids r still ding great also, but u know that love ya always, ur daughter ,tonya

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  8. HAPPY BIRTHDAY!! well hello mother, its been 3 years now and i still miss u so much. i didnt miss ur birthday trust me, i had to celebrate justins with urs!! its hard just like celebrating tiffanys was even harder!! but i know ur in no pain and alot happier! sorry i didnt write u on those days the computers not hooked up at home so i made it a point to stop at the library to write to u!!better late then never uh? lol. i miss u so much mom and its supposed to get easier but i swear to me it gets harder!! i just hope that when the day comes that i get to see u im still as beautiful as i know u r!! i hope ur birthday was great ur in a better place then us so i know it was swell. everyone is doing great and everyone misses u like crazy still!! i know ur watching me like always so it still keeps me going and keeps me strong. i love u mom and im always thinking of u, just stay beside me and guide me through life by letting me no ur still here with me!! ill write u real soon i love u!!! HAPPY HAPPY BIRTDAY AND I LOVE YA ALWAYS LADY, UR FOREVER DAUGHTER,, TONYA JONES MISS YA LOTS, ALL THE KIDS MISS U TO!!

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  9. HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO UUUUUU!!!!
    HEY MOM JUST WANTED TO SAY HAPPY BIRTHDAY AND TO TELL U THAT I LOVE U!!! I CANT BELIEVE ITS BEEN THIS LONG SINCE U WENT TO BE WITH JESUS!! MOM I WISH I COULD GIVE U A BIRTHDAY HUG AND KISS, BUT I WILL BE ABLE TO ONE DAY!!! JUSTIN HAS HAD A GOOD B-DAY AND IS HAVING A PARTY THIS WEEKEND!!! DAD IS FIXING TO MOVE BACK TO N.C. THIS WEEKEND, HE MISSES IT ALOT, HE REALLY HATES NOT BEING ABLE TO GO TO THE GRAVEYARD, BUT I KNOW U R WITH ME . UR NOT AT THE GRAVEYARD UR IN HEAVEN WATCHING OVER US!! WE ALL WISH U WERE DOWN HERE WITH US BUT WE KNOW THAT U R IN A BETTER PLACE!!ANYWAY MOM I LOVE U AND I WILL WRITE BACK LATER!! TELL EVERYONE HELLO AND MAKE SURE U TELL MIKE WE LOVE HIM TO!! STAY WITH ME AND HELP GUIDE ME THE RIGHT WAY, I AM GOING THROUGH ALOT RIGHT NOW!!

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!
    LOVE YA ALWAYS AND FORVER, TONYA

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  10. Jeanette I really missed you this Christmas. You were always so happy shopping for everyone’s Christmas presents. I will cherish all these memories forever. I miss my sister so bad! You had so much love to share with your family and friends. I know you are at peace but I still miss you. I want you to know I was so proud and lucky that God gave me you for my big sister. I’ll always love you.

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  11. hey mom, its me again. i just got back from n.c. things were the same. we went to the graveyard and fixed all your things there me dad tiffany wendy and corey. we miss you so much. i seen mammaw the last time i went up. i talked to cooter saturday, she really misses you alot.all the kids are still doing fine, they miss you also. i tell them all the time that you are watching over them. florida is still great but hot, very hot. i remember it is your favorite place to go. i need some tupperware!!!! im running out of things to put all my stuff in so send me some lol!!!! i know what you would say get off your but and go sale some and you can get it free!!! you were always the one good at that though we couldnt sell it because you knew everybody we did, but ill get me some more one day. anyway just wanted to chat with you for a few, ilove you so much and miss you more than ever tell mike giggs and mike smiht that we love and miss them to of and tell pappaw the same, take care love you always your daughter tonya jones gibbs

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  12. Hey Jeanette it’s me again. I really do miss talking to you everyday. Sometimes when the phone rings I look to see if it’s your number. I really feel alone without you in my life. You were not only my sister but also my best friend. You’re on my mind all the time. Remember the promise we made to each other. I will be waiting. I’m sorry you had to leave this world but I know you are with God and not hurting anymore. Remember you still have so many people that still loves you and misses you. Wait for me and I’m trying to take care of mama for you and myself. Jeanette I love you and I promise I will never forget you. I have so many memories of you and the things we did growing up together. God couldn’t have picked a better sister for me and for that I am so thankful!

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  13. hey mom, wat up? lol im just sitting here thinking about u as always. tell mike gibbs, and mike smith i said hello and to take care of u and pappaw to of course!! well the weather is hotter than u know what! lol i turned 29 on the 21st, but i know u know that. that just means im getting closer to 30. i said when i turned 30 that i was still going to keep saying i was 29. lol anyway everyone is doing great here , except we wish u were here with us, but we know u sit up there laughing at us, cause we r still as crazy as we ever were. lol well im going to go to bed. i love u and will write u later!!!!!!!!!!! as we always say ‘ see ya bye’

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  14. Dear family,
    It has been awhile since I have seen the family but I came to know Jeanette through Tupperware. She has been at my home several times. I also worked with her at Mars Mfg Company years ago. She would talk alot about her Grandchildren. She loved them very much. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

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  15. Happy Birthday Sis! I love you and miss you so much. It’s been 1 year and 6 days since left but it feels like yesterday. You were my best friend. It’s still really hard for me. When you were buried and big part of me was too. It felt like my heart was being ripped out. I don’t have anyone to talk to now. Just wanted you to know how much I love you and please let me know you are still around me. I’ll never forget you. You are the best and only sister I have. I love you!

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  16. what up dog? lol. remember that? anyway just wanted to tell u i love u like always! which u know that already. we miss u more and more everyday.we r all just sitting around doing nothing at the moment. tell everyone that is there with u i said love them and miss them bunches.i hope both mikes r doing good, which i know they r because they are in heaven. mom please u all keep an eye on mammaw and take care of her,and keep her with everyone as long as possible. i just dont want her suffering to much, we watch it enough with u and mike. just watch over her and help her through the hard times.thank god robbie is there with her,and hopefully he will do the right things by her.we have all been through so much over the last few years,its been hard on all of us with everything that has happend. we all still got to be strong for the rest of our families though!!! i know that is what u would want. anyway, im gonna go for now. will write back later. love always, your daughter tonya jones gibbs

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  17. Jeanette, you were the best sister anyone could ask for. We never missed a day talking to each other. The pain of missing you hurts so bad! I love you and remember our promise we made each other. You will always be in my heart and you will always be my sister. I’ll see you in Heaven with God says it’s time. There isn’t any words that can describe the hurt of losing you. I love you Jeanette so please wait for me.

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  18. Hey Jeanette. I am at work sitting here wishing you were here to talk too. I have so much going on right now and no one to listen to me. I get angry because you are gone and not here to lean on. I know it’s not your fault. I am just going through some rough times right now. I’m tired and I can’t get any peace at all. There’s only one of me and that’s not enough to go around. I know you know that mama is living with me now. She didn’t want to go to a nursing home and I was not going to send her. It’s what you would have done for her too. I’ll do my best to care for her as long as I can. I’ve just got alot of things going through my head and I need you here to talk to me. I miss you and miss the times we got to spend together before you got so sick. You stay on my mine and I’ll never forget you. The pain is still there. When I think about you, Robin, daddy and others who are gone the pain gets unbearable. It feels like someone is slowly tearing my heart out. I wish we could turn back time. People don’t realize how short life is until it’s too late. Well I just wanted to let you know how much I love you and how much I miss you. Please let me know you are ok!

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  19. hey mammaw….

    well dont really know how to start off…so lets just say i love you and i miss you very much..as you should know we moved back to florida!.. oh well..at least we are all doin good here.we have a nice house and so far things are ok!sorry i havent wrote to you on here in a while!..but i talked to you almost everyday..but i think of you EVERYDAY! so thats all that matters! theres not a day thats goes by that i dont wish you were here!!
    i miss the times we had..i was with you from the time i was a baby.you were the best!!
    you had me so spoiled..haha but thats ok ..=) i had so much fun!! i had everything i ever wanted..at least i cant feel selfish about it!! there were more than plenty of times when you would just suprise me with things you would get me!!..and that makes me feel so good!! because i know you really loved me!! and i wish i was able to realize all of this before you pasted so that i could have thanked you in person and gave you a hug!! so the piont that i was tryinn to make was that i wish you were still here for me to hug you! and tell you i love you and that you are the most caring person i will ever know!! and when i have really rough times and feel bad and think know one is on my side.. i think of you..b/c you were always on my side!! and you were always there for me even when i did do worng!and you always made me feel loved!!but as i have said before..your in a much better place now!and i hope you stay happy for the rest of forever! loland now you have mammaw cox there with you also! im just sorry i didnt get to be there for the funeral..but i know she would understand!well i got to go with mom now to go to cory’s.. so i will write you some other time!i love you mammaw!

    your daughter,
    tiffany jones!! hehe

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  20. hey mom, its ur daughter again.just wanted to tell u i lov u like always!!! we all miss u very much! wish u were here! everything is the same, everyone is fine. tiffany said hi, and she misses u more than ever. i see u r watching over ur mother, shes still kicking it, lol. isnt that we always say? ur pictures r all over my house, which of course i know u can see that.tell everyone up there we said hi and we miss them to, u know who they are! i bet patsy is pretty as ever!! tell her i will get to meet her one day. well mom i love u very much, i will talk to u later. just remember we r always thinking of u .
    love always, tonya jones gibbs

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  21. HEY MOM, HOW YA DOING? I KNOW UR DOING BETTER THEN WE ALL R! UR WITH THE BIG MAN!! LOL. ANYWAY JUST WANTED TO TELL U THAT I LOVE U AND MISS U SO SO MUCH!NOT A DAY GOES BY THAT I DONT WISH U WERE HERE WITH ALL OF US!EVERYONE IS DOING GREAT AS U CAN SEE, BUT WE STILL CANT BELIVE UR NOT ON THIS EARTH WITH US TELLING US WHAT DO TO AND TELLING US WHAT WE NEED TO DO! I TALKED TO HAROLD HE IS DOING GODD, HE MISSES U SO MUCH LIKE THE REST OF US DO! DAVID WELL, HE GOING THROUGH SOME THINGS RIGHT NOW BUT IT WILL GET BETTER FOR HIM ONCE HE GETS STRAIGHTEND OUT! TIFF, JOSH, JUSTIN, ALLISON, JARRETT, JACOB,MATTHEW, AND ANGEL R ALL GROWING UP ON ME. THEY R ALL GETTING SO BIG. I KNOW U WATCH OVER US ALL THE TIME, I HAVE THAT FELLING SOMETIMES UR RIGHT BESIDE ME WHEN THINGS GET ROUGH!I LOOK UP AND TALK TO U ALL THE TIME, I HOPE U HEAR ME, CAUSE THATS HOW I GO ON, IS KNOWING THAT U DO!! I FEEL LIKE SOMETIMES U ANSWER MY PRAYERS! I KNOW THAT GOD IS THERE ALSO BUT SOME THINGS I ASK U TO HELP ME WITH, REALLY DOES HAPPEN FOR ME!! I DONT KNOW IT FEELS LIKE IT DID WHEN U WERE HERE AND I ASKED FOR SOMETHING, U ALWAYS HELPED ME KNOW MATTER WHAT! ILL NEVER FORGET THAT, EVER!! WANDA, AND SCOTTIE R DOING FINE. SCOTTIE IS STILL FIXING TO HAVE A BABY. IM SO HAPPY FOR THEM!! ROBBIE IS STILL HELPING WITH MAMMAW AND I PRAY FOR HER ALL THE TIME ALSO! I THINK SHE WANTS TO BE WITH U AND PAPPAW SO BAD BUT SHES LIKE U AFRAID TO LEAVE EVERYONE BEHIND! I JUST HOPE SHE HANGS IN THERE, IM NOT SURE I CAN HANDLE LOOSING SOMEONE ELSE SO SOON!! ONE THING I DONT WANT THOUGH IS TO SEE HER SUFFER! WELL TELL MIKE GIBBS AND MICHAEL SMITH I SAID HELL AND WE MISS THEM SO MUCH ALSO!! TELL MIKE THAT MICHAEL MISS HIM ALOT BUT IM SURE HE KNOWS THAT!! WELL ILL TRY NOT TO WAIT SO LONG BEFORE I WRITE U BACK!! JUST KEEP WATCHING OVER US AND WE WILL ALL BE FINE!! I HOPE WITH ALL MY HEART WHAT ALOT OF PEOPLE THINK HAPPEND,,, DIDNT MOM!! THE TRUTH WILL COME OUT ONEDAY!! WE ALL LOVE U AND ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT OK!! GOD BLESS AND ILL WRITE AGAIN SOON.
    LOVE ALWAYS, UR DAUGHTER….. TONYA JONES GIBBS!! OH BY THE WAY DAD IS FINE AND HAPPY LATE ANNIVERSARY!!!

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  22. Hey Jeanette, I can’t believe it has been 3 years today that God took you away from us. The pain still feels as strong today as it did then. I really miss my sister and my best friend. It’s hard not having you in my life. I could depend on you for anything. We didn’t let one day go by without one of us calling each other. You was always so full of love and happiness. You were my inspiration to get through alot of things. You never gave up on anything. When I was younger I never would have thought that my big sister would also become my best friend. We were allways there for each other no matter what. We had alot of laughs and fun but it ended way too soon. I really miss you and wish you were here! Sometimes life gets hard to deal with and I have nobody other than you that understands. I hope you really knew just how much everone loved you and still do. You will always be in my heart, mind and soul. Our family will be together again in Heaven. You talk about a great reunion, we will have a big one! Please let me know you are ok. I’m still waiting for all the things we talked about we would do if possible. Just wanted to say that I love you and miss you. You will always be the best sister in the world and I was so lucky that God made us sisters.

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  23. HEY LADY, JUST WANTED TO WRITE TO U AND SAY I MISS U SO MUCH. CHRISTMAS IS VERY HARD WITHOUT U AND I CANT STAND THE THOUGHT OF U NOT AT MY HOUSE FOR CHRISTMAS DINNER AND TO SEE THE KIDS NOT OPEN THEIR PRESENTS. I KNOW U R HERE WITH US, BUT ITS NOT THE SAME. I NEED TO HUG U AND TELL U THAT I LOVE U EVEN THOUGH U KNOW THAT I DO!!! U R SO MISSED BY EVERYONE AND IT KILLS ALL OF US. IM SUFFERING RIGHT NOW CAUSE THIS IS UR FAVORITE TIME OF THE YEAR AND I WANT TO SHARE IT WITH U SO MUCH. BUT UR IN MY HEART AND I KNOW U KNOW I THINK ABOUT U ALWAYS!! PLEASE SIT RIGHT BESIDE ME CHRISTMAS MORNING AND LET ME FEEL THAT U R HERE RIGHT BESIDE ME WATCHING.ITS NOT VERY EASY FOR ME, NOR OTHERS BUT WE KNOW U WOULD WANT US TO BE HAPPY SO I TRY VERY HARD. MY LIFE HAS CHANGED SO MUCH SINCE U WENT HOME TO BE WITH JESUS, BUT I KNOW UR HAPPY SO I TRY TO THINK OF IT LIKE THAT!!IM SURE UR THERE SINGING CHRISTMAS CAROLS WITH EVERYONE, INCLUDING ‘ELVIS’ LOL. TELL MIKE AND PAPPAW, NANNY, MIKE SMITH, AND ROBIN, AND ALL THE OTHERS I LOVE THEM TO AND HAPPY HOLIDAYS!!
    MOM I LOVE U WITH ALL MY HEART AND NEVER FORGET THAT, PLEASE. KNOWING UR WATCHING ME KEEPS ME GOING AND KEEPS ME STRONG!! WELL I TRY TO BE ANYWAY. LOL I SEEN UR SISTER AND SHE MISSES U SO MUCH AND LOOKS MORE AND MORE LIKE U EVERDAY!!
    I LOVE AND MISS U DEARLY!!
    MERRY CHRISTMAS AND HAPPY HOLIDAYS!
    SEND ME SUM LOVE LADY!!

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  24. * hey mammaw!!!!its tiff! i just wanted to write to u..even thoughht i talk to u pretty much everyday!!i wish it could be in person thought!! but ur in a better place so i guess we should all be thankful your not suffering anymore!i miss you soo much! its really hard without you~ sometimes i have a really hard time gettin through things..cause u used to be right there to either tell me when i was doin wrong or support me and cheer when i was having a hard time..even thought your still watching over all of us…i still want to be able to hug u again and get to actually see u and talk to you..i was in n.c. not to long ago and we went through storage a little bit..(u probably already know)..it went pretty well! i found alot of things i had forgotten i even had! it made us all miss u so much more thought!!!but it was ok.it made me think again how lucky i really was…i had things it there that u guys bought me that i never had the chance to open!! i guess what im trying to say is thank you for everything!! because when i look back at things im so glad i lived with u and spent most of my kid years with you because going throught the things i did tought me alot of lessons!! and now i know how to deal with things alot more and i know alot of valuable things i can used through-out the rest of my life!and im thankful for that and every other little thing i have in my life!!! and thats all because of you! i love you alot!! everyone did…and still do!! ….well im sorry but i got to kind of wrap it up!! moms gettin mad…lol well u already know that i havent made the best desisions since you’ve been gone!! but i know what i have done wrong..and i know i can do better..and hopfully u will be there to help me throught things like u were b/4!!!everyone makes mistakes…and i kind of glad for the ones i have made cause i learn from each and every one of them.i know alot of things about life than most people wouldn’t til a few more years..and i just want to say thank you cause i didnt get the chance…even thought im bout to cry im still gonna stay strong cause i noiw thats what u would want me to do!!! LOVE YOU MAMMAW~~!!!! always will..keep watchin over us..you’ll never be forgotten!!
    like people say…”you never know what you’ve got til its gone.’

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  25. * hey mammaw!!!!its tiff! i just wanted to write to u..even thoughht i talk to u pretty much everyday!!i wish it could be in person thought!! but ur in a better place so i guess we should all be thankful your not suffering anymore!i miss you soo much! its really hard without you~ sometimes i have a really hard time gettin through things..cause u used to be right there to either tell me when i was doin wrong or support me and cheer when i was having a hard time..even thought your still watching over all of us…i still want to be able to hug u again and get to actually see u and talk to you..i was in n.c. not to long ago and we went through storage a little bit..(u probably already know)..it went pretty well! i found alot of things i had forgotten i even had! it made us all miss u so much more thought!!!but it was ok.it made me think again how lucky i really was…i had things it there that u guys bought me that i never had the chance to open!! i guess what im trying to say is thank you for everything!! because when i look back at things im so glad i lived with u and spent most of my kid years with you because going throught the things i did tought me alot of lessons!! and now i know how to deal with things alot more and i know alot of valuable things i can used through-out the rest of my life!and im thankful for that and every other little thing i have in my life!!! and thats all because of you! i love you alot!! everyone did…and still do!! ….well im sorry but i got to kind of wrap it up!! moms gettin mad…lol well u already know that i havent made the best desisions since you’ve been gone!! but i know what i have done wrong..and i know i can do better..and hopfully u will be there to help me throught things like u were b/4!!!everyone makes mistakes…and i kind of glad for the ones i have made cause i learn from each and every one of them.i know alot of things about life than most people wouldn’t til a few more years..and i just want to say thank you cause i didnt get the chance…even thought im bout to cry im still gonna stay strong cause i noiw thats what u would want me to do!!! LOVE YOU MAMMAW~~!!!! always will..keep watchin over us..you’ll never be forgotten!!
    like people say…”you never know what you’ve got til its gone.’

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  26. * hey mammaw!!!!its tiff! i just wanted to write to u..even thoughht i talk to u pretty much everyday!!i wish it could be in person thought!! but ur in a better place so i guess we should all be thankful your not suffering anymore!i miss you soo much! its really hard without you~ sometimes i have a really hard time gettin through things..cause u used to be right there to either tell me when i was doin wrong or support me and cheer when i was having a hard time..even thought your still watching over all of us…i still want to be able to hug u again and get to actually see u and talk to you..i was in n.c. not to long ago and we went through storage a little bit..(u probably already know)..it went pretty well! i found alot of things i had forgotten i even had! it made us all miss u so much more thought!!!but it was ok.it made me think again how lucky i really was…i had things it there that u guys bought me that i never had the chance to open!! i guess what im trying to say is thank you for everything!! because when i look back at things im so glad i lived with u and spent most of my kid years with you because going throught the things i did tought me alot of lessons!! and now i know how to deal with things alot more and i know alot of valuable things i can used through-out the rest of my life!and im thankful for that and every other little thing i have in my life!!! and thats all because of you! i love you alot!! everyone did…and still do!! ….well im sorry but i got to kind of wrap it up!! moms gettin mad…lol well u already know that i havent made the best desisions since you’ve been gone!! but i know what i have done wrong..and i know i can do better..and hopfully u will be there to help me throught things like u were b/4!!!everyone makes mistakes…and i kind of glad for the ones i have made cause i learn from each and every one of them.i know alot of things about life than most people wouldn’t til a few more years..and i just want to say thank you cause i didnt get the chance…even thought im bout to cry im still gonna stay strong cause i noiw thats what u would want me to do!!! LOVE YOU MAMMAW~~!!!! always will..keep watchin over us..you’ll never be forgotten!!
    like people say…”you never know what you’ve got til its gone.’

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  27. * hey mammaw!!!!its tiff! i just wanted to write to u..even thoughht i talk to u pretty much everyday!!i wish it could be in person thought!! but ur in a better place so i guess we should all be thankful your not suffering anymore!i miss you soo much! its really hard without you~ sometimes i have a really hard time gettin through things..cause u used to be right there to either tell me when i was doin wrong or support me and cheer when i was having a hard time..even thought your still watching over all of us…i still want to be able to hug u again and get to actually see u and talk to you..i was in n.c. not to long ago and we went through storage a little bit..(u probably already know)..it went pretty well! i found alot of things i had forgotten i even had! it made us all miss u so much more thought!!!but it was ok.it made me think again how lucky i really was…i had things it there that u guys bought me that i never had the chance to open!! i guess what im trying to say is thank you for everything!! because when i look back at things im so glad i lived with u and spent most of my kid years with you because going throught the things i did tought me alot of lessons!! and now i know how to deal with things alot more and i know alot of valuable things i can used through-out the rest of my life!and im thankful for that and every other little thing i have in my life!!! and thats all because of you! i love you alot!! everyone did…and still do!! ….well im sorry but i got to kind of wrap it up!! moms gettin mad…lol well u already know that i havent made the best desisions since you’ve been gone!! but i know what i have done wrong..and i know i can do better..and hopfully u will be there to help me throught things like u were b/4!!!everyone makes mistakes…and i kind of glad for the ones i have made cause i learn from each and every one of them.i know alot of things about life than most people wouldn’t til a few more years..and i just want to say thank you cause i didnt get the chance…even thought im bout to cry im still gonna stay strong cause i noiw thats what u would want me to do!!! LOVE YOU MAMMAW~~!!!! always will..keep watchin over us..you’ll never be forgotten!!
    like people say…”you never know what you’ve got til its gone.’

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  28. hey mom its me. i love and miss you very much. all the kids are doing well and they miss you to.i know that you are doing great because you are home with the big man.tell mike we all love and miss him very much. keep watching over mamaw, i went and seen her over the weekend. i could not get ahold of cooter, maybe next time though. well i love you very much and miss you more than words can say
    love always,your daughter, tonya jones gibbs

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  29. mom just wanted to tell you that i miss you so much. i will never forget the stuff we did or everything that we talked about.you are always on my mind and in my heart.i really wish that you were still here.i really miss you so much.you are my best friend and i know that you are always with me.i know that you are watching over us and that makes me happy. mom i love you alot and you will never be forgotten .

    love you always your daughter tanya i will see you again some day.

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  30. hey mom!how r u? we r all ok. wish u were here,but whats new? lol anyway havent wrote in awhile but i talk to u everyday. u know i love u weather i write or not, right!! the kids r doing good in school. tiffany loves it here now. she has made alot of friends alot of boys to! good for me uh?we all miss u very much! i try to call cooter alot but she must b busy cause i havent talked to her in a while.thanks alot for watching over mammaw, shes stubborn and hopefully she will hang in there only if shes not suffering with pain, cause i dont want her to suffer.my worst fear right now is not making it in time if something happens to her. ill never forgive myself! but hopefully that want happen. im pretty sure ur sister will call me if something starts going bad!well michelle and scottie r finally having a baby. im so glad shes wanted one forever! im really happy for them. well mom i got to go pick of the children from school. i love u with all my heart and im always thinking about u! tell both mikes hey and pappaw and nanny, and of course elvis lol and my cousin robin. hope ur dancing ur heart out!!! love ya always, tonya

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  31. HAPPY BIRTHDAY JEANETTE! I hope they are giving you a big party in Heaven today. I wish you were here so we could celebrate together. It’s really lonely without you in my life. I miss talking to you everyday. You were the best sister in the world. You never gave up on anything. You were and still are my best friend. I would give anything just to see you or talk to you. You will always be in my heart and soul. I will never ever forget you. We went through alot together and got through it all. I really believe you are happy now and you are not in anymore pain. I’m so glad for that but that doesn’t take the pain of losing you any easier. When God says it’s time for me to come home please ask Him if you can be the angel that comes for me. I would love that. Well have a good birthday sis and I’ll be back soon. I miss you and I love you very much.

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  32. HEY SHORTY.GUESS WHO?I FINALLY GOT ME A COMPUTER.NOW I CAN WRITE YOU AND DONT HAVE TO HOLD BACK MY EMOTIONS.I KNOW EVERYONE KNOWS HOW I FILL ABOUT YOU BUT IM NOT MUCH ON CRYING IN FRONT OF EVERYONE.MOM I MISS YOU SO MUCH.FIRST I LOST MY FAMILY,BRITTANY,MARISSA AND CRISTYTHEN I LOST YOU IN A DEEPER WAY.MOM I TRY SO HARD TO DO EVERYTHING I PROMISED YOU,BUT YOU KNOW I SLIP EVERY NOW AND AGAIN.MOM I KNOW I ALWAYS SAID I DIDNT BELEIVE IN GOD BUT WHO ELSE COULD HAVE MADE ANYONE MORE PERFECT THAN YOU?YOUR THE GREATEST.MOM IF YOU HAVE ANYWAY TO LOOK OVER ME AND LET ME KNOW SOMETHING COULD YOU ANSWER A QUESTION FOR ME?IS THERE ANYTHING I CAN DO TO GET CRISTY BACK.MOM I DONT CARE WHAT ANYONE THINKS,I LOVE THAT GIRL AND MISS EVERYTHING ABOUT HER.EVEN THE YELLING.LOL.ASIDE FROM YOU,SHES THE GREATEST.ANYWAY,I LOVE YOU AND THINK ABOUT YOU EVERY MINUTE OF EVERY DAY.WISH YOU WERE HERE.GOD I WOULD GIVE UP MY LIFE 1000 TIMES OVER TO GIVE YOU YOURS BACK.I WOULD DO IT JUST FOR A HUG.I LOVE YOU SHORTY.ILL WRITE YOU AGAIN.YOUR MOST ANNOYING SON HAROLD,AKA HBONE AKA H BIZZY BONE.LOL.PEACE

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  33. hey mom. its me. tonya. well i see harry wrote u! im glad, i know u like hearing from him! he misses u so much but i know that u know that .it is hard for all of us living without u, but i know ur still with me and always will be!! mom, i just want u to know that i learned alot from u and and alot of good has come out of the things u taught me!! i hear myself everyday saying things to the kids that u would say to us! its so funny! lol dad and tiff always tell me . ‘ u sound just like ur mom’ lol but hey to me that is a very good compliment!im going to n.c. to see mammaw and i hope i make it in time. they say shes not doing to good, but i know shes ready to be with god and be reunited withu! and to know ur waiting on her makes me have peace with her going!i dont want to see her go, but i would be there with u if it were my time!! i would love to see my mom again and give u a big fat hug and kiss!! well i love u so much and i am going to finish talking to harold on myspace!! take care and keep watching over us, like i know u do!! help harold out in his wishes!! and give him peace!! i hate seeing him hurt!! love ya always,,,,, ur daughter, tonya

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  34. MOM,I LOVE YA AND MISS YOU ALOT.I THINK ABOUT YOU EVERY SINGLE DAY.ITS SO HARD MAKING IT WITHOUT YOU AROUND.I WILL NEVER GET USED TO IT.EVERYONE SAYS IT WILL GET EASIER AS TIME GOES ON,NO WAY.ITS NEVER GOING TO FOR ME.THATS THE HARDEST THING IN MY LIFE TO DEAL WITH.I SIT AND THINK OF THE GOOD TIMES BUT THE TIMES WHEN I WAS HARD TO DEAL WITH DRIVES ME CRAZY.IM SO SORRY FOR ANY TROUBLE OR PAIN I CAUSED YOU.I WAS A NUISANCE.YOUR MY BEST FRIEND MOM.I WILL KEEP WRITING YOU.I LOVE YOU ALWAYS.WELL IM STARTING TO GET TEARY EYED AND I CANT SEE TO TYPE PLUS IM SLOW AT IT.LOVE YA ALWAYS.HAROLD.YOU ARE WITH ME EVERY MIN.PEACE

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  35. hey mom its me. ilove and miss you very much.i wish i could give you a big hug,but i kiss your picture everyday. everyone is doing ok except we all miss you.the kids are great as you can see and dad is still lonely of course but he will be ok, he really misses you mom we all do,but we know you are doing better than all of us cause you are in heaven!!! i just wanted to tell you i love you very much and i will write you again soon. i love you mom
    your daughter,tanya jones gibbs
    ps we miss your tim conway walk,ha!ha! love you see ya bye!!!

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  36. I was thinking about you tonight and I got really lonesome. You were always here for me but now I don’t have you. I can’t bear the hurt I feel from losing you! Jeanette, I miss you more than ever. You’ll always be in my heart and I think of you eveyday. I love you, and miss you so much.

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  37. hey i love you.i miss you very much.this allison. i wish your still hear. the kids said they love you.and wish you are still hear to.i wich i cane see you agin. i sleep with my love in my hart.love allison bey.

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  38. I am sorry for your loss. Jeanette’mom’ was a wonderful person. She could make the most miserable person smile with her laughter of life. We will miss her dearly!!!!!!!!!
    love,
    Little Scottie and Charlene

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  39. mom hey its me.i went to the elvis muesum sunday and brought you something back. i miss you alot and still think of you everyday.you are still my #1 fan and allways will be.its time for my doctors appt. and you always jumped on me if i didnt go so i will talk to you later. i love you more than words can say.love always you daughter tanya jones gibbs

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  40. My deepest sympathies for the loss of a truly wonderful lady…. Jeanette.I knew her from her Tupperware business and always admired her dedication and helpfulness with anyone she met. I pray for peace for all family and friends during this time of sadness,but I know she must have fought her disease with every ounce of her ability. God Bless

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  41. HEY MOM. JUST WANTED TO WRITE AND TELL U I WAS THINKING ABOUT U!! I MISS U SO MUCH!! WELL I GUESS U KNOW THAT MICHAELS PAPPAW PASSED AWAY, I KNOW HES UP THERE WITH U RIGHT NOW!! MICHAEL IS NOT TAKING IT VERY WELL!! IM SURE THAT MIKE AND FRANKY R SO GLAD TO HAVE HIM THERE!! TAKE CARE OF THAT FAMILY CAUSE IM SURE THEY R HELPING U!! I KNOW I WILL BE THERE ONE DAY AND IM GOING TO HUG U ALL SO MUCH AND NOT LET U ALL GO!! LOL IM SURE U ALL R UP THERE DANCING ALL AROUND RIGHT NOW!!
    ANYWAY ALL THE KIDS R GETTING BIG, MOM THEY R GROWING UP ON ME TO FAST!! BUT I KNOW THATS LIFE. IM GETTING OLD!! LOL ‘THE BIG 30 THIS MONTH!’ WOW WHERE DID MY TEENAGE YEARS GO? :::::::::BABIES::::::::: HA HA! WELL MOM I LOVE U AND I KNOW U R STILL WATCHING OVER ME SO, STAY THERE AND GUIDE US ALL THROUGH THIS CRAZY WORLD!! I NEED U ‘ALWAYS’ I LOVE YA AND ILL WRITE BACK SOON!! UR FOREVER DAUGHTER, TONYA

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  42. My deepest, heartfelt sympathy to Tanya, Grady, Tiffany, and the rest of the family. Jeanette was a dear friend and she will be greatly missed. My prayers and thoughts are with you all at this sad time.

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  43. HEY MOM. JUST WANTED TO WRITE AND TELL U I WAS THINKING ABOUT U!! I MISS U SO MUCH!! WELL I GUESS U KNOW THAT MICHAELS PAPPAW PASSED AWAY, I KNOW HES UP THERE WITH U RIGHT NOW!! MICHAEL IS NOT TAKING IT VERY WELL!! IM SURE THAT MIKE AND FRANKY R SO GLAD TO HAVE HIM THERE!! TAKE CARE OF THAT FAMILY CAUSE IM SURE THEY R HELPING U!! I KNOW I WILL BE THERE ONE DAY AND IM GOING TO HUG U ALL SO MUCH AND NOT LET U ALL GO!! LOL IM SURE U ALL R UP THERE DANCING ALL AROUND RIGHT NOW!!
    ANYWAY ALL THE KIDS R GETTING BIG, MOM THEY R GROWING UP ON ME TO FAST!! BUT I KNOW THATS LIFE. IM GETTING OLD!! LOL ‘THE BIG 30 THIS MONTH!’ WOW WHERE DID MY TEENAGE YEARS GO? :::::::::BABIES::::::::: HA HA! WELL MOM I LOVE U AND I KNOW U R STILL WATCHING OVER ME SO, STAY THERE AND GUIDE US ALL THROUGH THIS CRAZY WORLD!! I NEED U ‘ALWAYS’ I LOVE YA AND ILL WRITE BACK SOON!! UR FOREVER DAUGHTER, TONYA

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  44. mom i love you very much i miss you so much i think about you every day and every night your the best lady in the whole world i miss you shorty luv ya harold dean

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  45. hey mom. watsssssss up? lol im just missing u like always. i see ur sister wrote u, shes misses u alot, like u dont know that!! anyway i have been thinking about u alot here lately, i miss u so much i dont know what to do anymore. i have had alot going on but i know u can see that. i know u r always with me!! that helps me out alot. scottie and michelle had their baby, it was a beautiful baby girl. they r so happy!! amber had her baby to, it was a girl! so mom u have 2 more grandchildren that u will have to look down on and keep them safe like u do us! all the kids r doing good but they r growing up to fast!!! they r making me feel old and im still young! lol anyway they all miss u and love u alot! i talked to mammaw the other night, everytime we talk, ur name gets metion. i think she greves for u alot, and i think that is why she is ready to come home! i know u two will be happy to see each other again, but i know she want see u until the time is right. i have got to go see her real soon! i need to tell her i love her more then i do and i should have told u alot more also, but no matter what.. u knew we all loved u very much and it is hard on all of us being without u! it hurts so bad!!i wish to god that i could bring u back down here except i wish u were not sick! mom i love u very much and keep letting me know ur here cause u do answer alot of my prayers! alot of people think im crazy but when i talk to u and i ask for ur help its like it comes true!! well im gonna get the kids in bed and i will write again real soon!! tiff and allison said hey and they love u!!!
    p.s. ur always in my thoughts and always on my mind, your daughter, tonya jones gibbs…… i love ya so so so so so so so so much. miss ya mom…. oh by the way kristi sellers andrew is pregnant again … bye

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  46. Hey Jeanette, it’s your lonely sister again. I don’t have anyone to talk to except you. You were my best friend. Tell everyone there I love them all and miss them very much. The one thing I’m thankful for is that I know you are not hurting anymore and I can’t even imagine how beautiful Heaven must be. You are probably singing with the angels right now. I’ll keep listening to see if I can hear you. I really do miss you Jeanette. I wish we were kids again so we could be together. There’s alot of things I don’t understand but I have to trust in God because he knows the reason he took you. Just wanted to talk a minute and let you know I love you and had you on my mind as always. See you soon so wait for me by the river.

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  47. hey mom its me. i miss you so much that words cannot explain.everything has went so down hill since april 25. i can not bare the thought of you not being here telling me what to do anymore. it has been so hard on me well everyone,but i know that you are with all of us and i know thatyou are watching over everyone. mom im trying so hard to be strong thorouh all of this but honestly it is killing me! i just keep having faith cause i have to be strong for my kids and the rest of the family.michaels dad is in the hospital dieing of cancer we are all praying for the best. but i know that you will be with him when he comes home. mom i love you so much and i wish i could put my arms around you and tell you. but i also know that you know how much i love!!!! you are always with me no matter what! just keep looking over me like i know you will, and i will be fine. starting to cry gotta go. i will get to see you again one day!!!! i love you lady. take care of dad and everyone else, cause you are in a better place!!! love always you daughter, tanya jones gibbs i miss you mom!!

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  48. Grady, I hope you remember me from Brush Creek store, I am so sorry to read of Jeanette’s passing.You guys were one of my favorite customers,God Bless and keep you. Audrey Trexler.

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  49. Merry Christmas Jeanette! You are supposed to be here doing all this Christmas shopping with me. I know you loved this time of year. I miss you and doing all the things we did together. We had fun. Things are kind of hectic at my house right now but I guess you know that. I think of you everyday and wish we could talk like we used too. I just wanted you to know I was still here and thinking about you. I know Christmas in Heaven was beautiful for you this year. I’ll talk to you soon. I love you and Merry Christmas.

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  50. We are very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of sorrow.

    Jody, Chrystal and Junior Parker

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  51. Hey Jeanette it’s me again. I woke up and had you on my mind again. I really miss having my sister here with me. I miss talking to you everyday.I don’t believe there was a day went by that I didn’t call you or you didn’t call me. I know you are better off in Heaven and you aren’t sick anymore. I’m happy about that but it doesn’t stop the pain I feel inside. I wished I had told you more often how much I loved you and how special you were too me. I was so glad God gave you as my sister. You were the best. There will always be a connection between us no matter where you are. You will always be in my heart, mind and thoughts everyday. We will meet again and we can catch up on everything. When you died a big part of me did too. Some days are harder to get through than others. Right now I am surviving and that’s about it. I just wanted to talk to you for a minute and let you know I am still waiting. I love you Jeanette and I will never forget you. I’ll write again soon and until then I miss you and tell daddy, Robin and all of them I love them too.

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  52. hey sweetie. i would say long time no talk, but i talk to u everyday. i miss u so much mom and im seriouslly going crazy without u!! i know u r here with me but i just want to hug u so u can let me know everything is allright, im going through so much right now and i wish u could come down and talk to me. i love u with all my heart, tell mammaw i said hello and i love her.im sure u two r so happy to be together or is she up there ragging u about robbie? lol!! anyway mom just wanted to write u. i love and miss u dearly. please give me a sign that ur still with me, please. i love u lady, ur my gurdian angel

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  53. HAPPY MOTHERS DAY!!!!
    HEY MOM JUST WANTED TO TELL U HAPPY MOTHERS DAY AND I LOVE U VERY MUCH!! U R SO MISSED AND I WISH I COULD HUG U RIGHT NOW AND TELL U IN PERSON, BUT I KNOW U HEAR ME!!! I KNOW U HAVE PASTY SPENDING IT WITH U THOUGH, SO THAT MAKES ME FEEL ALOT BETTER!! ANYWAY I HAVE TO GO BECAUSE THE KIDS R GETTING READY FOR BED AND I NEED TO SAY GOODNIGHT!!! U R ALWAYS ON MY MIND AND I LOVE U WITH ALL MY HEART!! I WILL WRITE BACK SOON!!

    LOVE YA ALWAYS LADY, TONYA

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  54. hey mom,its me again. just wanted to say i love you again!! me david and wendy went to see you at the graveyard and left flowers, a card and a teddybear, hoped you liked it,but i know you did because you liked everything that we bought you thats just how you were. one of my good friends passed away saturday so please look over at him and tell him i miss him’michael smith’ mike’ he was such a great guy and i know that he is up there with you right now!! anyway everyone is still the same, crazy as we will ever be ha! ha! you would not want it any other way!lol! we miss you so much mom and we love you alot take care of yourself and keep watching over us for that is how i know you are still with me!!!!!! i love you lady tiffany said she misses you lots!!
    the rest of them do to.
    love you always tanya jones gibbs

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  55. To Grady and all the family so sorry to hear about Jeanette. She was a dear friend and neighbor and we loved her very much. May God bless each of you during this difficult time. Ronald & Tootsie

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  56. Hey Sis, I didn’t forget you. I know Christmas in Heaven was beautiful. I know you loved Christmas. I thought about all the years you loved to shop for everybody. You enjoyed it so much. I sure could have used so help with mine this year but you wasn’t here. I miss you Jeanette and I’d give anything to have you here. I miss talking to you, crying with you and sharing everything with you. You were my best friend. Life is so unfair.I’ve lost track of your kids except Tanya and she is so pretty. You would be so proud of her and Tiff is driving! She brought me some pictures and I love them to death. I wish I could pick up the phone and call you but I can’t. Jeanette I love you and the pain doesn’t go away. You will always be in my heart and my thoughts. I’ll write again soon but until then I am still waiting on you. Remember our promise to each other. I love you sis.

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  57. Sorry we couldn’t be there. Work wouldn’t allow it. But you are all in our thoughts and prayers. We love you and will see you soon.

    Edith Wilson, Darlene, Steve, Michael & Stephanie Clark

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  58. Hey sis, it doesn’t seem like it has been 2 years since God called you home. I really miss you so much! You were my best friend. I know you are not hurting anymore and I’m sure heaven is beautiful. Streets of pure gold, walls of jasper and gates of pearls and no more tears. We will get to walk those streets together one day. I think of you often. The pain of losing my only sister still tears my heart out. You were the best. I miss talking to you everyday. I still see you face, your smile and hear your laugh. You were so brave through it all. I’m glad your pain is gone. I’m still waiting for you to let me know that you are ok. Remember our promise to each other? You wait by the river for me and I’ll be there when God says it’s time. I love you and I’ll always cherish the time we got to spend together. Tell everyone I love them and I miss them too. This is not goodbye cause we meet again soon.

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  59. HEY MOM. TRIED TO WRITE U ON CHRISTMAS BUT MY COMPUTER WAS DOWN!, WHICH U KNOW THAT IM SURE, CAUSE I WAS MAD!! I SEE THAT UR ONE AND ONLY FAVORITE SISTER WROTE TO U THOUGH LIKE I KNEW SHE WOULD! CHRISTMAS IS HARD FOR ME ANYMORE CAUSE U R NOT HERE WITH US SHOPPING. BUT I KNOW U WERE THIS YEAR CAUSE ILL TELL U WHY………..
    JUDY WAS ALL TO PIECES CAUSE SHE DIDNT KNOW WHAT TO GET TIFF FOR CHRISTMAS, SO FINALLY SHE PICKED OUT SOMETHING AND SAID SHE HOPE THAT TIFF LIKED IT. I SAID SHE WILL LIKE WHATEVER! SO ANYWAYON CHRISTMAS EVE WE OPENED PRESENTS AT JUDYS.WELL IT WAS LIKE SO AMAZING WHEN TIFF OPENED HERS. SHE STARTED CRYING TEARS OF HAPPINESS AND WE ASKED HER WHAT WAS WRONG? IT WAS THE SAME BODY WORKS AND SHOWER GELL THAT U BOUGHT HER THE LAST CHRISTMAS U WERE HERE TOGETHER WITH US! WE ALL STARTED CRYING EVEN JUDY, BUT IT WAS TEARS OF JOY, CAUSE WE KNEW U WERE THERE WITH US FOR CHRISTMAS AND THAT U HELPED JUDY PICK OUT TIFFS PRESENT! U KNOW WHAT SHE LIKES SO U MADE IT EASY FOR JUDY!! THANKS MOM, IT WAS GREAT! U MADE TIFF KNOW U WERE THERE TO! SO CHRISTMAS WASNT ALL THAT BAD FOR ME CAUSE I KNEW MY MOM WAS STILL HERE FOR HER FAVORITE HOLIDAY!! I LOVE U SO MUCH AND I KNOW THAT U ARE ALWAYS WATCHING OVER US LIKE U NEVER LEFT! TELL JESUS HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO! MERRY CHRISTMAS AND HAPPY NEW YEAR!! I KNOW THAT U R CELEBRATING UP THERE AND U R THINKING ABOUT US AS MUCH AS WE DO U!! I LOOK UP EVERYDAY AND TELL U I LOVE U AND I HOPE U HEAR ME WHICH IM PRETTY SURE U DO CAUSE TO MANY MIRICALES HAPPEN WHEN I ASK FOR UR HELP!!! COOTER REALLY MISSES U AND SO DO WE ALL!!! I JUST WISH I COUL HUG U AND GIVE U A KISS!! BUT I KNOW I WILL ONE DAY AND I KNOW U WILL BE WAITING! UNTIL NEXT TIME, KEEP STAYING BY MY SIDE AND GUIDE ME THREW LIFE, AS ALWAYS!! LOVE U MORE THAN EVER, TONYA

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  60. HEY MAMMA!! ITS ME TIFF~!!I MISS YOU SO MUCH AND IM PRETTY SURE U ALREADY KNOW THAT I THINK OF U EVERYDAY!! HOW COULDN\\\’T I?? LOL WERE GOIN TO N.C. THIS WEEKEND TO VISIT EVERYBODY!!AND TO SEE HOW THEY\\\’RE DOING! I CANT WAIT! I MISS EVERYONE SO MUCH.ANYWAY I HAD A GOOD CHRISTMAS THIS YEAR!EVEN THOUGH THERE WAS NO WAY IT WAS THE SAME WITH OUT YOU! I KNOW MOM DONE TOLD U THE WHOLE THING ABOUT THE PRESENT JUDY GOT ME!! I WAS SO SHOCKED!TO BE H0NEST, IT DROPPED MY HEART CUZ IT WAS THE LAST THING I EXSPECTED!!THEY ALL KNEW I LIKED IT THOUGH! I KNOW U WERE THERE THIS YEAR,JUST LIK YOU ARE EVERYDAY! AND I KNOW UR WATCHIN ALL OF US EVERYDAY!SO I KNOW U KNOW EVERYTHING THAT GOES ON WITH US ALL!! IVE HAD ALOT OF FUN TO BE HONEST BUT IVE STILL BEEN THROUGH ALOT!! A WHOLE LOT!! BUT I TRY MY BEST TO MAKE EVERYTHING BE BETTER!! EVEN THOUGH I REALLY AM THE ONLY ONE THAT CAN CHANGE THE WAY MY MOODS GET! BUT I TRY TO KEEP MY MOODS GOOD BUT SUM TIMES THEY CANT ALWAYS BE THAT WAY!! I KNOW U KNOW EXACTLY WAT IM TALKIN ABOUT! AND IM PRETTY SURE U ALSO KNOW ABOUT THE WHOLE T.J. THING BUT THATS NOT REALLY IMPORTANT! I KNOW THAT IF YOU COULD TALK TO ME THEN U WOULD MAKE ME FELL BETTER ABOUT EVERYTHING THAT GOES ON!! WHETHER ITS GOOD OR BAD! I JUST WANTED TO WRITE TO U AND LET U KNOW THERES NOT A DAY THAT UR NOT ON MY MIND!!CUZ EVEN IF I HAD THE BEST THINGS IN LIFE OR THE WORST THINGS IF LIFE HAPPEN TO ME I ALWYS ALWAYS THINK OF U FIRST!!PAPPA IS GETTIN READY TO MOVE BACK TO N.C.HES GONNA LIVE THERE!!! I HONESTLY DONT KNOW WAT TO THINK OR THAT CUZ U KNOW I WAS ATTACHED TO U BOTH AND IF HES GONNA BE DOWN THERE,THEN I DONT KNOW~! I THOUGHT BOUT HIM LEAVIN TODAY AND IT MADE ME START TO CRY!! BUT I KNOW I CAN SEE HIM SOME AND I CAN WRITE TO HIM AND TALK TO HIM!!BUT I KIND-A GOTTA GET OFF HERE CUZ ITS GETTIN LATE!! I WOULD WRITE TO U SUM MORE BUT MOMS SORT-A READY TO GO TO BED!!LOL BUT I LUV U AND MISS U!!! AND ILL WRITE TO YA AGAIN LATER ON TODAY!!(ITS 1:31 AM) LOL I LUV YA!
    *TIFFANY* ( IM ALWAYS THINKIN OF YA)

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  61. hey mom,its me tanya.I really miss you alot.HAPPY MOTHERS DAY!! wish you were here with me! But i know ur. I also know ur watching over me,and that makes me feel alot better!Mamaw is not doing to well and that really hurts me so please watch out for her like I know you are and help her through her pain and take very good care of her for me!! we moved to your favorite place to visit, yea,FLORIDA! Our lives have been so much better here. Dad and all the kids are doing good,they all miss you very much! Tiffany of course still has a hard time dealing with it but it will take a while. we are all thinking of you everyday and you know everyday i look up at you and tell you I love you!! mom keep watching over us and keep smiling like i know you are I will write back soon.
    LOVE ALWAYS,Tanya Jones Gibbs

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  62. Mom,

    Even though you were not my real mom you were closer to me than my mom. I will always love you and remember you. You were loved by many and will never be forgotten. I know you are in heven and you are our Angel up above who will always look out for us. Even though you are in Heaven please come and put your loving arms around us every chance you get. I know you are in a better place and you are not suffering any longer but that doesn’t stop us from missing you or wishing you were still here. I love you so much and I can’t wait to see you again some day.
    I love you Mom.

    Love you forever Tonya Ingle

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  63. Sorry we were so far away, but in our hearts we were ever so close. We will miss our sister for sure and our thoughts, love and prayers, will be with her family.
    Ray and Nikki Cox

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  64. hey there beautiful, well i guess u know tiffany had a good sweet 16!we rented at hotel on beach side it was a blast! thats wat she wanted so thats wat she got. anyway i miss u it doesnt seem like u have been gone this long, i guess cause ur in my heart and thoughts everyday. i love u so much mom and its rough without u. i m doing ok though and the kids r all growing up fast on me, tiffs gonna b driving soon, oh no help me, lol! well i will write u back i want wait to long, u have a bday coming up!! i love ya lady, ur my best friend and my world 4ever!1 love ya always and forever, ur daughter

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  65. Happy Birthday beautiful, just wnted to say hey and i love ya and hope ur dancing around up there on ur birthday, best wishes wish i could see u and give u a hug!! love ya always

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  66. hey mom just dropping in to say i love ya more than u ever knew!!u r so missed but in my thoughts and heart forever!!i love u lady

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  67. HEY MOM I WAS MISSING U LIKE ALWAYS SO I WANTED TO SAY HELLO AND I LOVE YA!! WELL U KNOW WAT GOES ON WITH US CUZ I KNOW U WATCH OVER US ALL HE TIME, TIFFANY WELL U KNOW BOUT HER! ANYWAY IT WILL ALL WORK OUT AND I KNOW THIS CUZ WE HAVE AN ANGEL OVER OUR SHOULDERS! MOM ILOVE U AND I THOUGHT IT WOULD GET EASIER BUT SOMTIMES I THINK IT GETS HARDER WITHOUT U!! I KNOW UR HAPPY THATS HOW I GO ON! WELL ILL WRITE YA AGAIN SOON. I LOVE U SO MUCH AND MISS U THEN I CAN EXPLAIN, LOVE UR DAUGHTER, TONYA

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  68. hey my sweet beautiful mom!! i miss u sooo much i wish i could hold u right now an give u a big hug!im going through so much an could use my best friend right now!!! i need ur help an i talk to u everyday an ask for ur help an i know ur there listening now send me a sign on wat to do lady, lol im so confused in life right now an wish i had u here to guide me through it!!i know i will get ur sign soon cuz u never have let us dwn, im being patient and waitin! anyway i know u got a new person up there an that would br trinity, michael harrins daughter, tell her we all said hello an to stay with u an i know u will take care of her!! u r never forgotten an always missed!! i love u with all my heart an cnt wait to see u again in the beautiful gates of heaven!!! ur daUGHTER ALWAYS, TONYA JONES, GIBBS, THE KIDS MISS U TO. THEY TALK ABOUT U ALL THE TIME, DNT WORRY WE DNT LET THEM FORGET U, TELL MIKE, MAMAW AND PAPPAW AN ROBIN I LOVE THEM TOO

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  69. hey mom, just dropping by to tell u how much i love and miss u!!! i wnt so bad to give u a hug an hear ur voice!! its soooo hard without u mom!! please come an talk to me, let me know that u know i need u!! love u beautiful!!xoxoxooxxo

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  70. HI BEAUTIFUL! HAPPY HALLOWEEN!!! MOM I MISS U LOTS AN WISH U WERE HERE. U R ALWAYS THE ONE DRIVING US AROUND ON HALLOWEEN LOOKING LIKE PACKED RATS, LOL. I HOPE UR HAVING THE BEST TIME EVER IN HEAVEN WITH,PASTY,MAMMAW,PAPPAW,ROBIN,RICK,KEVIN, AN SOME OF THE OTHERS! GIVE THEM ALL KISSES AN HUGS AN TELL THEM I LOVE THEM DEARLY. MOM UR ALWAYS LOVED AN MISSED, BUT NEVER FORGOTTEN!!!I WISH I COULD HUG U SO BAD!! LOVE U LADY, WILL CHECK BACK SOON

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  71. Hey MAmmaw I Love You And I Miss You So Verrryyy Much,Things Will Never Be The Same.If You Were Here You Would Be Laughing At Me Right Now!But You Already Know!But I Hope Your Watchin Over All Of Us Like I Know You Are! love u mamaw, love tiffany

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  72. well its almost turkey day, an its really hard without u! the holidays r hard for us u not being here to eat dinner an share the laughs with. i share them with u by talking to u everyday an writing to u on here,but its not the same! i miss u mom an i know u will always be with me, but im being selfish i guess an need to hold u also!! me an tiffany dread thanksgiving an christmas, but have to hold it together 4 the others that r here with us. its so hard but we do our best to make the best of it! well im going to go clean like always, i love u sooo much mom, miss u dearly!!!

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  73. HEY MOM!! HAPPY THANKSGIVING!!!I WISH U WERE HERE EATING DINER WITH US, BUT WE WILL ALL B TOGETHER AGAIN ONE DAY!! I LOVE AN MISS U WITH ALL MY HEART AN I WISH I COULD HUG U SO TIGHT!! TELL EVERYONE ELSE UP THERE I LOVE THEM AN HAPPY THANKSGIVING!! LOVE YA MOM

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  74. hey sweetie,i love u an wnted to say i miss u more than ever.ur u were the greatest mom an i will never forget the times we shared an all the memories!!! i love u mom

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  75. hey mom, well its almost tiffanys bday an its supposed to be a happy time but for all of us its depressing, but we try to make the best out of it! everyone is great tiff is 7 months prego an looks so cute lol. we all miss u an could use u dwn here to help us out an make sure we all stay sain lol but i know ur not hurting anymore an that makes me happy, i love u sooo much an i miss u with all my heart!!!

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  76. hey mom, well its almost tiffanys bday an its supposed to be a happy time but for all of us its depressing, but we try to make the best out of it! everyone is great tiff is 7 months prego an looks so cute lol. we all miss u an could use u dwn here to help us out an make sure we all stay sain lol but i know ur not hurting anymore an that makes me happy, i love u sooo much an i miss u with all my heart!!!

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  77. HAPPY EASTER MOM!!!just wnted to write to u an say i love u an i hope u r having a wonderful easter up ther with some of ur loved ones! i miss u so much especially on the holidays! the kids said hi an they love u too!! i am following ur traditions with dinner an egg hunts like always, lol i love u mom, ur daughter ,tonya

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  78. Hey Sis, I sure do miss you. I wish you were here so I would have somebody to talk to. It’s doesn’t seem like 6 years now. Hope you and all our family had a good easter. You were my best friend and still are. You will always have a special place in my heart. I miss you so much. We talked everyday. I know you are happy and not in pain anymore but I guess I am selfish cause I want you here. You stay on my mind and all the things we did together. You were the best sister in the world and I’m glad God made you mine. Tell everybody I love them and I’ll see all of you soon. Wait by the river.

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  79. HAPPY BIRTHDAY SIS! I miss you. I know you are going to have the biggest birthday party in Heaven today. I bet it will be beautiful. Just wanted to say I miss you and think about you all the time. Enjoy your party.

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  80. HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! I LOVE AN MISS U SOOO MUCH AN I PRAY U R DANCING ON UR BIRTHDAY AN HAVING THE BEST TIME EVER!ITS HARD WITHOUT HERE AN I NEED U SO BAD BUT I KNOW UR WITH ME THATS HOW I GO ON, I LOVEU MOM, HAPPY BDAY, UR DAUGHTER, TONYA

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  81. HAPPY MOTHERS DAY BEAUTIFUL!!!! I LOVE U!!! AN MISS U DEARLY!! HOPE UR DANCING UR BOOTY OFF! LOL U HAVE BLESSED ME IN SOOO MANY WAYS AN FROM UP THERE AN I KNOW ITS U MAKING MY DREAMS COME TRUE!!! I LOVE U MOM

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  82. hey mom, just wanted to say hey an i miss u more than ever this time of the year!!!! im going to nc next month to pick up ur christmas tree. i really could use u an u send me some signs like u have before. i could use them!!! mom ur still in my heart everyday an i talk bout u still an i always will! ur son david said hello an he loves u. im going to see harold scottie an wanda when i go to nc so im sure we will talk bout u like always. i love u mom, tell everyone else upo there i love an miss them!!! ur still the best lady an never forget it!!! oh btw tiff an britts babies r soooooo perfect!!! i know u watch over them though. ill write again soon. love always, ur daughter who misses u more than ever

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  83. HAPPY THANKSGIVING MOM,IM SORRY I WAS A DAY LATE BUT YESTERDAY WAS EXTREMLLEY BUSY, BUT I KNOW U KNOW THT CUZ I THOUGHT BOUT U ALL DAY AN I KNOW U WERE WITH US IN OUR HEARTS AN MEMORIES! HOLIDAYS R HARD WITHOUT U BUT WE TRY TO BE STRONG LIKE U TAUGHT US! I HOPE U PAPPAW MAMMAW ROBIN NANNY PASTY AN ALL THE REST R HAVING A GREAT TIME UP THERE!!! I LOVE U MOM AN WE WILL SEE EACH OTHER AGAIN!!!! U WERE AN STILL ARE THE BEST!!!

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  84. HEY MOM, WANTED TO WISH U A VERY MERRY CHRITMAS AN I SOOO WISH U WERE HERE WITH US BUT I KNOW U AN EVERYONE ELSE IS WATCHING OVER US!!! I LOVE U AN IT HURTS SO BAD THIS TIME OF YEAR CUZ ALL I THINK ABOUT IS U AN HOW U LOVED UR CHRISTMAS, AN SHOPPING. I STILL DO UR TRADTIONS AN I ALWAYS WILL. U ARE IN MY HEART AN MY THOUGHTS EVERYDAY AN I WISH I COULD HOLD U AN HUG U AN TELL U FACE TO FACE BUT I WILL GET TO SEE U ONE DAY IN THE BEAUTIFUL GATES OF HEAVN. MAKE SURE U HAVE ME A PEPSI LOL.TIFFANYS BABY BOY IS SO HANDSOME, U WOULD SO HAVE A FIT OVER HIM BUT IM SURE U ARE UP THERE. ALL THE KIDS THINK OF U AN TALK ABOUT U ALL THE TIME. U WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN AN ALWAYS IN OUR HEARTS AN ALWAYS MISSED. MOM I LOVE U AN MERRY CHRISTMAS LADY!! XOXOXOXOX UR DAUGHTER, TONYA PS. ANGEL SAID TO TELL U THT UR PIC ON OUR WALL, THT UR EYES FOLLOW HER WHERE EVER SHE GOES LOL. GIVE MIKE AN MAMMAW ROBIN AN THE REST XOXOXOXO FROM US

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  85. Hey mom, I miss you and wish you were here, you are always in my thoughts and forever in my heart. So much has happened since you went to heaven, and though I know you watch over all of us, I wish I had you here to hug and hold on to. Mom you are so loved and missed, this life is not complete for your children because you are not in it. But at least now that I found out about this site I can at least write to you. You mean so much to me, and I want you to know how thankful and blessed I am to have had you in my life, you taught me many things and I am proud to be your daughter. You left me many memories to hold on to and I play them in my mind a lot. You have so many great grandbabies who have missed out on having the honor of knowing you, but will know all about you by the memories that we share with them. You are the best, beautiful and spunky, never took no crap, yea thats you. I love you and will write again soon

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  86. hey mom i wrote u on the 25th but it didnt post? i must not have hit sign. anyway today is the day they laid u to rest an we all miss u soo much. tiffanys birthday was sad but u must have turned it around for us cause we went to dinner, shopping an a good end to a sad day.7 yrs is way to long without u but i know u are standing by us all even though we cant see u. u are an were the best an please stay keeping us strong. give everyone kisses for me an hugs. we will all be together again one day! love ya mom!!!!!

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  87. HAPPY BIRTHDAY SIS! I love you and miss you very much. I’ve got alot going on right now. I wish you were here so I could talk to you. I miss that. You were and always be my best friend. Tell everyone I love them and we will be together one day. I can’t wait to see all my family and friends. I love you sis.

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  88. Hey mom. it’s been a while since I came on here and wrote you but as you know I have been by the graveyard several times. I love you so much and I miss you so much. life has not been the same without you. I know you’re in a better place though. I wish you were here to see Brittany and Marissa and Amiya and Chloe grow up. I am so proud of all of them. but I know you get to see them. I know you were looking down on all of us. there are a lot of things I wish I would have said to you before you left us. mom I love you so much. you are the greatest mom ever. as you know I have straightened up my life alot. I hope you are proud of me. I’m sorry if I ever let you down. I will do my best to work my way to heaven to see you again. wish me luck lol. I love you mom

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  89. Hi mom.just wanted to write to tell u we all have been a Lil slack about keeping up with writing but u know we talk to u an about u all the time.we think about an miss u morebthan ever!!! Its hard without u but we also try so hard an get by with all ur memories an love u had for us an all u taught us.u have ur son up there an a daughter,wht are u making sure we all get reunited? LOL.I can’t wait to see ur face again an give u a big hug 😉 all of u.but God will call me home when its time.I just wnt to make it til all my kids n grandkids make it to 18 so I know they will all be OK.keep watching over is mom.Harold goes an sees u an sends pics when he does an I go to your grave when I visit but I talk to u others ways to an I know u hear me.I love u mom an lots of hugs an kisses to u all an u may be gone,but never forgotten. Xoxoxo

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  90. hey mom its been awhile but i think about you all the tie and still talk to you alot.. things still arent the same without you but i know you are still looking down on us and have answered many prayers for me.. i miss you more han you know and it still breaks my heart you arent here to hug me and guide me sometimes but i know you always work from above. you have so many grandkids and great grandkids that havent even met you but believe me, they know about you and always wil. my kids will always know you, yuor face and all your memories and will always know what a great person you are. i love and miss you so much mom. please stay close and contiue to get me by. til i se you again. xoxox your daughte, tonya

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  91. I love you so much and miss you so much I wish you was here with me life would be so much different I love you till we meet again ❤️💕

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  92. Hey Mom.. it’s been way to long since I’ve write, but I talk to u everyday an you know this, and I pray to you everytime I pray to God. I miss u still til this day and life will never be the same, it hasn’t since 4/25/2005 when u got taken from us .you have so many grandkids and I know you would love, spoil, and enjoy every one of them, they are all so precious.. all the kids are so grown now. I’m very proud of them all, one thing I learned from u is not to judge our kids an always stand by them. The main thing I learned is to stay strong. Life has been a bit crazy , as u know, but I finally found someone who makes me happier than anybody I’ve ever been with. Mom is is so amazing and keeps me so happy. He is the one.. the one I know I’ll spend the rest of my life with!! But if he ever was to hurt me, u send your magic powers dwn an haunt him forever lol .. I know u will.. 🥰🥰🥰😘🤣🤣 it’s jeff Caldwell’s cousin, Matt but I know u know this already also. I know ur with me everyday and know u watch over us all and I cherish every memory with you, just wish we had more. We will make plenty when I see you again, and I will dance with you in the beautiful gates of heaven. I could write to u all night, but I have to work on a.m an so tired. I promise to keep in touch now that I’m back on it. Sorry I slipped for awhile on writing.. we thank about you everyday and talk about u alot. I still do your traditions an tiffany will be here with us an help me an matt for Thanksgiving, the tree will be out up like always that night.. I love you mom, and I’ll write later . Keep you loving arms around me please. I miss you so much and still need you…. P,s , make sure u let the kids an grandkids know your still here. XOXOXO love always and forever, the baby of the family, tonya Jones, soon to be Caldwell 😘😘 I know u are happy for me an will be there when I walk down that isle and I know u will she’d a million tears 💘💘💘💘💘💓💓💓💓 love u… Gone but never forgotten

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  93. Hey mom… Just wanted to write to you and tell you I’m thinking of you. I was sitting here rereading all these messages to you an started balling my eyes out. I miss you still til this day and I cry so much over you. Idk why you were taking the way you were taking, and I’m so sorry that your last moments were how they were. Just know that we haven’t forgotten you an know that we think about u so much but it still hurts so bad . We wasn’t ready to let you go, we still need you here.i know your with us but again, in our own selfish ways we want all of you here and full time!!! I would give anything to see your smile again an hug your neck!! Or just go through some old tupperware with you. You were my hero an always will be. My life as been crazy without you and it’s never gonna be the same . You will be beside me on my wedding day cause I will have a pic of you right up front with me!!!! I love you with all my heart and I’m balling so I’m gonna close this up. I just feel so close to you when I write to u!!! Miss you more than I can explain. Goodnight and I hope to see you in my dreams . Xoxoxo always an forever ,your awesome daughter, tonya…….

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  94. Hi mom. I just wanted to write an tell you I love you an miss you Soo much!!! This world is crazy out here, so atleast I know your safe And happy.. please keep watching over all of us. U have so many grandkids that never got to meet you, that would love you Soo much!! I’d give anything to hug your neck. Give anything to tell u I love you face to face. You will always be my angel, my best friend and they one I will always look up to. You taught me so much, which I see myself in you everyday . I was so hard on the kids an still am about life choices, lessons, responsibilities, and never giving up. U taught us to fight in what u believe in and to always have our responsibilities and I love you for that Soo much. U made me who I am today on being independent.. I’m so blessed to call you my mother. I will never forget you, I will never stop thinking of your or talking about you.. you were my inspiration, and I will always do what you wanted me to do, I’ll always try to keep making you proud!! I love u Soo much!!! Mom, I need you, please keep watching over us and help God stay watching over us. Miss u more than you know

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