Stanley Leon Caton Jr.

stanley caton

August 24, 1949 ~ June 28, 2022

Born in: High Point, NC
Resided in: Asheville, NC

Stanley Leon Caton, Jr., 72, of Asheville, NC passed away on Tuesday, June 28, 2022 at his home surrounded by his family. He was born in High Point, NC to the Late Stanley Leon Caton, Sr. and Jean Ruth Caton.
He is survived by his wife, Debbie Caton; two daughters; Caroline Dillon (Mark) of Fletcher and Lara Caton (Jamil) of Charlotte; seven grandchildren; Ashton Dillon, Elaina Dillon, Mark Dillon, Mary-Elizabeth Dillon, James Dillon, Annaleah Dillon, and Naomi Whitlow. Also surviving are two brothers; Ethan Caton and Mark Caton; and a sister; Melissa Doster.
Stan worked as a Contractor building over 80 homes in the Asheville area and served as the President of the Asheville Homebuilders Association. He won Builder of the Year in 2000 and won 14 Parade of Homes Awards for craftmanship and design throughout his career.
Stan was an adventurous and courageous young man that accomplished becoming an Eagle Scout. He was very artistic and talented and enjoyed painting and photography. He was an animal lover who served on the Board of Directors for the Friends of Animals, and he was known for having his Labradors ride around with him to jobsites.
Stan loved fishing, cooking, gardening, and spending time with his wife, daughters, and grandchildren. Whenever he could, he would travel to the Gulf Stream with his buddies to fish for tuna.
Stan cherished family above all. He was passionately in love with his wife of 36 years and faithfully loved and stood by his daughters through thick and thin. He was loved by everyone he met and had the unique ability to connect with anyone.
A Memorial Service is planned for 11 a.m. Thursday, July 7, 2022, at Trinity of Fairview, with Rev. Stacey Harris, officiating.
Groce Funeral Home on Tunnel Road is assisting the family. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Trinity of Fairview Academy.

Services

Memorial Service: July 7, 2022 11:00 am

Trinity of Fairview
646 Concord Road
Fletcher, NC 28732

828-252-3535

Funeral Home Assisting The Family:

Groce Funeral Home on Tunnel Road
856 Tunnel Rd.
Asheville, NC 28805

(828)299-4416
http://www.grocefuneralhome.com

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      • Ty. I was one of Stan’s and Alan medlocks fishing buddies. Stan taught me a lot, especially about cooking. I hate he’s gone. My condolences

  1. I enjoyed my many visits with Stan at Dr Teague’s office! He was a very special gentleman!! So sorry for your loss of an amazing man, husband, father, grandfather. I pray for comfort for you during this sad time and May your sweet memories bring you peace and a smile.

  2. Stan was one of the best and most loyal friends I have ever had. We played basketball together at Enloe high school. He was so smart with a great attitude and friendly to everyone. I spent many great times with Stan and Debbie in Asheville. He will be missed by so many.

  3. Debbie and family you are in our thoughts and prayers we love you.
    Stan was a great man.

  4. My family loved Stan & Debbie,they were movie stars in our eyes.Sending compassion and love in your time of sorrow. Love The Heskey Family.

  5. Stan was a fine man I(Joe) enjoyed working with him on many construction jobs. Prayers for all the family.

  6. Stan Cat, Love you friend! You’re as particular as I, plus you always make me laugh like no one else. You like messing with me and I love it! You still can, doesn’t bother me because you’re awesome! Lots of people will miss you, me particularly! I’m glad you’re better.

  7. So sorry for your loss, I met Stan through Mr. John Chiles, he was our manager at Hajoca . I worked in the
    showroom ,so after that Stan would always come in for me to help with the homes he built. He was always so
    kind and such a pleasure to talk too. I will pray for comfort and peace for you and your family.

  8. Debbie, Lara, Caroline and the entire Caton family, Our thoughts and Prayers are with you all during this time. Stan was a great guy, I feel very fortunate to have known him, I know he will be missed terribly.

  9. Dear Debbie, Caroline & Lara,
    What an amazing man Stan was. From Paul & Stan in high school to reconnecting all these years later in Asheville. Our fondest memory with your family was when we brought our two, Carissa & Wes, who were close to Lara & Caroline’s age, years ago to your beautiful home for one of Stan’s home cooked meals! But the best part was when “Mr. Stan” introduced us to a spud gun using Aqua Net hairspray to shoot them off! We still chuckle when we think about it. We will miss him, and hope through all the wonderful memories you have make as a family which will always be in your heart. Look for his shining light in the night stars, and he will be shining right back down at you,,. Sending much love… Paul, Tara, Carissa & Wes Nickel

  10. Dear Debbie, Caroline and Lara,
    My sincere condolences for all of you and your family. You are in my thoughts and prayers, as are a flood of great memories ! It was a blessing and an honor to have met you all with my mom and Richard . I cherish all the wonderful memories, Stan will be missed and will always be in our hearts . Sending Love , Light and Prayers , Love , Kathy

  11. Dearest Debbie and your entire family,
    Please know my thoughts have been with you for a long time through all of this. Oh how l wish we could celebrate another birthday for Stan. I will miss singing HAPPY BIRTHDAY to him each year. He was a special person. Love you all the most.
    Packa and Jack

  12. I am so sorry for your loss. Prayers for all of Stan’s family. We attended the same schools. I remember Stan with always a smile on his face and a little mischievous. Haven’t seen him since high school but sure was happy to read about all his impressive accomplishments. He was quite a guy. May God bless his family and lovingly heal your hearts.
    Sincerely,
    Stephanie Fogg Fowble


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