Thomas J. DeCarlo

March 1, 1920 ~ September 3, 2012
Resided in:
Fletcher, NC
Fletcher –Thomas "T.J." Joseph DeCarlo, 92, passed away Monday, September 3, 2012 at the Elizabeth House in Flat Rock.
T.J. was born in Rochester, NY to the late Frank and Clara DeCarlo. He was also preceded in death by a grandson Stevie and several brothers and sisters. Mr. DeCarlo was a United States Army Veteran serving in World War II and served under General Patton's 3rd Army in the 82nd and 1277 Combat Division. He also served in the North Africa Campaign and European theaters operations, the Battle of Normandy and the D-Day landing at Omaha Beach. He was awarded the Bronze Star, the Purple Heart, and eight battle stars for major battles, the European and Middle East ribbon, the Presidential Unit Citation, The Croix De Guerre medal awarded by France, and the World War II victory ribbon. Mr. DeCarlo was also a member of the American Legion, St. Barnabas Catholic Church and was a Fourth Degree member of the Knights of the Columbus.
T.J. is survived by his son, Frank Guy DeCarlo and his wife, Heather of St. Cloud, Florida; a daughter, Carol Wilson and her husband, Larry of Fletcher; a sister, Joyce Sapporito of Rochester, NY; seven grandchildren, Frank Anthony DeCarlo, Erin Kristine Walker and her husband, Frank, Chadwick Holcombe, Calen Holcombe, Cassandra Holcombe, Joey Baldwin and T.J. Baldwin and his wife, Leigh Ann of Raleigh, NC; three great grandchildren, Colton Carter Walker and Jacob Tyler and Joshua Thomas Baldwin and several cousins, nieces and nephews.
A mass of Christian Burial will be held at 11:00 a.m. Thursday, September 6, 2012 at St. Barnabas Catholic Church in Arden. Burial will follow at Calvary Episcopal Churchyard.
The family will receive friends at Groce Funeral Home at Lake Julian on Wednesday, September 5, 2012 from 6:00 to 8:00 pm
In lieu of flowers memorial donations may be made to The Elizabeth House. 571 South Allen Road, Flat Rock, N.C. 28731.
I send my condolences to the family and freinds of ‘TJ’. He will be sorely missed.
We’ll miss you TJ.
I am honored to have had the opportunity to meet a true American patriot, a man that embodies the essence of the Greatest Generation. My thoughts and prayers to your family!
I will miss him very much, he was such a good person to me for many years. All our love and prayers to his family.
I feel very priviledged to have known such a wonderful person, he has inspired me in my daily spiritual life, especially since my recent illness. He has always made a point to check on me if he did’nt see me at least once a week. I along with anyone who has ever come in contact with him will miss him greatly. My heart aches with sadness but I know Heaven is rejoicing in his coming home. Godspeed T J
I am greatly saddened by the recent news of ‘T J’s’ passing. He was such a caring person, always worried about others, never failed to ask about me and my family…especially my daughter ‘the little red haired girl’, Kady. I will always cherish the stained-glass Angels he gifted me with. I feel blessed to have known him. Our thoughts and prayers are with his family in this time of great sadness.
Frank, we are all sorry to hear about your dad. Please know that you are in our thoughts.
Susan Lively Neal & EHHS Class of ’69
We have lost a wonderful man! Now the Lord has him. Now the Lord will have to put up with TJ. His laughter; his emails; slick responses and tongue-in-cheek statements. He held everyone in his heart. Chao!
I am a better person for having known
Mr DeCarlo and being able
to call him my friend. He is a true
American hero in every sense of the
word. I’ll always remember him with
great admiration. May calm winds
and following seas always be there
for you TJ.
We feel priviledged to have know TJ. He was a great friend and neighbor. He will be missed.